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Sigh? Why do they do this?
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my 2 cents is that he was honest. It might not be your thing to date someone who is separated and not divorced yet...nothing wrong with that. I don't want to date someone separated only because I would feel in the middle of something and I don't need that. This might be his way of dealing with things...to pick himself up and continue with life. Who knows???? I don't know him or the situation. Actually, there is nothing wrong with him other than the fact that he is still married. After talking to him I don't believe that he is ready to toss the towel in on his marriage. I think he is frustrated. He's a very nice man and he still comes in to see me at work. I very nicely told him that before he walks away from a person that still means so much to him that he should exhaust every resource before giving up. I told him I was very happy to call him a friend. |
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I don't think I have anything in my profile about my ex... I was bitter, I got over it. There were things we both did that resulted in the split. That's life. Learn from it and grow from it. Personally, my ex and I are still friends. In fact, I spent Christmas with my ex, our children, and the rest of his family. We make better friends than SO's
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She is beautiful.... but the wrong gender....
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Sigh? Why do they do this?
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It was a definate learning experience. I give him credit for being honest. When I asked him what had happened, he again, honestly told me that he had "stepped out" on his wife more than 10 years ago and that she would never let him forget it.
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(((smilingeyes))) Long time no see Baby gurl. How are you doing? I am wonderful thank you! I am doing the whole Back to School thing.. And how have you been? |
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Sigh? Why do they do this?
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Thanks...
It's strange but thats always the first thing I ask people when I meet them. That was a lesson learned the hard way. |
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ODD!
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Here it is, the end of December... and there is no snow on the ground and it was almost 40 degrees outside today...
I am actually enjoying it and my heating bill is too, but for Western NY in December? Yep, definitely odd. |
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(((((rara!))))) muah!
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Sigh? Why do they do this?
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Thanks, I wouldn't date someone thats married or in a committed relationship...
And a harem? Me? Oh my, I so wouldn't fit in there.. lmao. I am not the type to share... |
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Sigh? Why do they do this?
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Its a good thing you asked,,and its a good thing he told ya the truth,,,now,,,as for me,,,I am single...... But,,,thats me..... When I try and ask,,,they try not to here me. So then I have to ask yelling,,,and then the whole place turns to see and hear my asking,,, aaaa,,never-mind.. True, it was great that he was honest.. And thanks for the |
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Sigh? Why do they do this?
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Well yes, I realize that... It was more of a vent post
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Sigh? Why do they do this?
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So, I am at work and this one guy comes in like three times a day for a few weeks. Always very nice and makes sure he talks to me for a few minutes.
Well, after a few weeks passes he comes in and says, "Can I ask you a question?" I say sure, and he says "Well, I am sure you can tell that I like you" I smiled.. He then goes, "Would you agree to go out on a date with me?" I smile again and say well that depends. He asks on what? I reply, Are you married? ......Wait for it............... He replies....." Well, yes I am, but thats about to change." ugh! |
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Absolutely.... Especially when you are talking to the kids and they nod their head... A few hours later the trash still hasnt been taken out and when ya ask them why? They calmly tell you, but Mom, you never told me that I had to do that... Grrr!
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grrrrrrrrrrrrrr
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LOL!
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OK,,lets try a poll here..
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Hello folks,,I am here in Evansville, In. House sitting for my kids, and wondering if I should go out tonight. So,,I could go to the river-boat,,and gamble,,I could hit their local pool bar and listen to a rock band and dance and play pool, or I could stay home bored and alone,,, Which one would YOU do if YOU were ME? Go listen to the band and play some pool... I love to shoot pool. I am an AWFUL player but I keep trying... |
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heya~
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Thanks! Glad to see familiar faces... It's been forever.. Welcome back and great to see ya.. OMG~Now thats funny! I don't care who ya are! How have you been? I have the power? Huh? lmao... Damn....And here I never knew! |
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heya~
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I've been hiding.. lol. Started back to school last year and between work, the kids, school, I never seem to have time. Another year to go and I will have graduated. I have no idea what the heck I was thinking when I decided to go back. Whats new with you? don't say that...I'm thinking of going back to college but then again my baby will be 19 next month and I have nothing better to do with my life Glad to see you back. Naah, it's not the school thats a problem. I am doing great with that. It's the having to always say, "Sorry, I can't tonight, I have to do my homework." |
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grrrrrrrrrrrrrr
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When you say hello to someone... say someone is cashing you out and you say, Hey how are ya? And you get a blank stare in return.... That really torques me off and I get a lil bit rude.
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heya~
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Thanks! Glad to see familiar faces... It's been forever.. Welcome back and great to see ya.. OMG~Now thats funny! I don't care who ya are! How have you been? |
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heya~
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I've been hiding.. lol.
Started back to school last year and between work, the kids, school, I never seem to have time. Another year to go and I will have graduated. I have no idea what the heck I was thinking when I decided to go back. Whats new with you? |
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