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Sat 04/05/08 12:05 PM
weight wouldnt factor into it for me. However Tv? Nope. My life is my business.

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Sat 04/05/08 12:01 PM
Ok, so I posted before about the problems I am having with my son. Behavior wise. Respect wise, and learning personal boundaries. So, We have been looking to put him in Military School and if not that then a Summer Program. This program is specifically designed for kids with his behaviors and respect issues. I have not heard back from the place yet and planned on following up Monday morning. Here's the thing. I was talking to my twin sister about it. And she calls me this morning. She has a alternative that she wants me to think about and I just am not sure about it. So I'm asking for your opinions.

She wants me to let Jon finish out the school year here. Then send him to her place for the summer and the next school year. My sister and her husband and 3 boys are wonderful and the perfect family. They do everything together. Their kids are all in sports and band, all kinds of after school activities. Both Sherri and Scott are fantastic parents and their children are very wello behaved, very academically motivated and athletic. She seems to think that having Jon there will let her and her hubby work on his problems. This was a fantastic thing for her to offer to do. However. I'm having problems thinking about my child being away from me for a whole year. She lives about 2 hours from here and if they get him into sports ( which he does here at home ) Then weekends he wouldnt even be able to come home because he would have obligations to the team he plays for. AND! Regardless of the problems that I have with his behavior he's still my son and I would miss him terribly. On the other hand, They have an excellent school where my sister lives. Jonathon does very well academically here. Honor or Merit roll here almost every quarter. Thats not the problem that I have with him.
So, anyhow... If ya have an opinion I would like to hear it. I'm tossing it this way and that way and my feeling is that I dont want my baby away from me but that it is a great school. And he would have a fantastic male role model. I have to talk to my sons father first as well and we'd have to jointly make that decision. He may not be the best role model for my son but he IS his father and does have the right to help make decisions of that magnitude.

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Sat 04/05/08 11:41 AM


yeppers ouch! i have scars from shaving lol..

wow that's serious! I hope you mean your legs!


LOL!!!!! Yep, on my legs... lmaolaugh

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Sat 04/05/08 11:29 AM
yeppers ouch! i have scars from shaving lol..

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Thu 04/03/08 08:31 PM
heya...enjoy.. there are alot of good people here.......flowerforyou

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Thu 04/03/08 05:47 PM
guilty........ flowerforyou

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Thu 04/03/08 04:50 PM
Baseball Coach

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Thu 04/03/08 04:44 PM

Grows hair for weaves.......lol..luv ya girl!


omg...my secrets out!:tongue: laugh

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Thu 04/03/08 04:42 PM
yep ...american idol

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Thu 04/03/08 04:40 PM
question maker laugh laugh (( peccy ))

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Thu 04/03/08 04:33 PM
nope, i wouldnt

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Thu 04/03/08 01:46 PM
rest

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Thu 04/03/08 01:40 PM
Pet Groomer flowerforyou

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Thu 04/03/08 01:23 PM
again....awwwwflowerforyou

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Thu 04/03/08 01:22 PM
awww. very sweet

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Thu 04/03/08 01:16 PM
laugh

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Thu 04/03/08 12:54 PM
practically perfect!:wink: 9.999 :tongue:

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Thu 04/03/08 11:28 AM
hiya there and welcome...flowerforyou

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Thu 04/03/08 11:27 AM


Take your time. Don't rush into anything. Things have a way of falling into place. Sometimes being by yourself is lonely. Especially when your used to having someone with you. Learn to like your own company and find things that you enjoy doing. Then when you do there will be other people there that have the same interests as you and meeting someone will just happen. flowerforyou flowerforyou


yea i see your point but is there no way... short of hitting a woman with a club and dragging them off to a cave somewere as seems to be the most abundant opinion.... that i can find someone nice faster because im sure that after im a cop my chances for a relationship will decrease unless im with them already.....



LOL... well... then whatever works for ya...bigsmile

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Thu 04/03/08 11:25 AM

A man phones home from the office and tells his wife, "Something has just come up. I have the chance to go fishing for a week. It's the opportunity of a lifetime. We leave right away, so pack my clothes, my fishing equipment, and especially my blue silk pajamas. I'll be home in an hour to pick them up."
He hurries home, grabs everything and rushes off. A week later he returns. His wife asks, "Did you have a good trip?"

"Oh yes, great! But you forgot to pack my blue silk pajamas."

"Oh, no, I didn't. I put them in your tackle box."


grumble grumble laugh