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what is a worst sex partner
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Hey JM, I think you phrased it better than I did. yes, bad sex can end a relationship. another topic, but I think it is why most men and woman cheat. |
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what is a worst sex partner
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Good post! Boring sex is the worst sex, and it does call for a break up. I dated a guy for 2 years and we only had sex 4 times.. he was soooo bad. I even tried to help him along.. boring with no emotion or anything.. can v try hahahh just joking dear V cant try. 
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Beard or clean...
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Clean! no hair..yuk
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what is a worst sex partner
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Good post!
Boring sex is the worst sex, and it does call for a break up. I dated a guy for 2 years and we only had sex 4 times.. he was soooo bad. I even tried to help him along.. boring with no emotion or anything.. |
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is money taking over love??
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I will try this again. If Thomas, my live in, lost his job, and was trying without luck..key word is TRYING, I am ok with that! I will carry the load... but (true story) Thomas and I live together in a nice house sharing the bills, then his daughters college loan doesn't go through, he has always paid her rent, but has to now pay her school. Fine.. we move into a smaller place.. I pay the rent/deposit. I pay the rent, food, gas, misc stuff.. so his daughter can continue her education. NOW... if Thomas can go to the movies, sit at the bar, drop $100 on dinner, not pay the storage, tell me to budget my money better... Should I still stay and love this man? 
I agree with MG...he's a pretty smart cookie. 
Thank you for now understanding. Thomas has a job..same one 4 years. (I've been with him 2 years.) I feel I am being used.. so I guess my thinking has stemmed from men using me. If I am inlove with a man, of course I would do anything to support and help him if he lost his job... but I am not getting that in return... Love does come first.. I don't care what a person drives and what they make for a living.. but if you are a loser.. we will not have a future. On my way to work :) bills to pay...lol I do like this board. Lots of good people here. |
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Joining kick boxing
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Love it!!!! I did it for a year. Great exercise and control!!
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is money taking over love??
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...and I am just answering post.. I type slow.
there is usually 3 post before my post response shows up...lol |
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is money taking over love??
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Sorry, with all my bad experiences in relationships.. I decided to break the circle. If you ask me for $5.00 on our first date..your *** is gone. If you live with mom and dad for the past 43 years... see ya If you can't hold a job, because you are too lazy.. don't call me If you want to do nothing but sit on the couch.... good-bye If you start taking advantage of me, emotionally and financially.. I am moving on. You don't have to be a millionaire. Just make me laugh.. and have some goals, a good working ethic, and be supportive. So with that... done with losers! |
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is money taking over love??
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Sorry, with all my bad experiences in relationships.. I decided to break the circle.
If you ask me for $5.00 on our first date..your *** is gone. If you live with mom and dad for the past 43 years... see ya If you can't hold a job, because you are too lazy.. don't call me If you want to do nothing but sit on the couch.... good-bye If you start taking advantage of me, emotionally and financially.. I am moving on. You don't have to be a millionaire. Just make me laugh.. and have some goals, a good working ethic, and be supportive. |
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is money taking over love??
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I will try this again.
If Thomas, my live in, lost his job, and was trying without luck..key word is TRYING, I am ok with that! I will carry the load... but (true story) Thomas and I live together in a nice house sharing the bills, then his daughters college loan doesn't go through, he has always paid her rent, but has to now pay her school. Fine.. we move into a smaller place.. I pay the rent/deposit. I pay the rent, food, gas, misc stuff.. so his daughter can continue her education. NOW... if Thomas can go to the movies, sit at the bar, drop $100 on dinner, not pay the storage, tell me to budget my money better... Should I still stay and love this man? |
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is money taking over love??
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Work hard, make money, buy a nice car then if the ones that turned you down before come round that said you weren't good anoth, then you can turn round to them and say the same back to them if they try! With love of corse No need to be rude even if they where!! x ? What |
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is money taking over love??
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I get it. You want to date a grownup. 
;) exactly |
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is money taking over love??
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Some of your sentence doesn't make sense to me. I will try and answer to what I think you are asking me. If I dated a man who had a passion for a low paying job, but worked hard and helped with the bills,put our future together first, I would sacrifice, and I've had in the past. If I dated a man who was washing dishes because in this economy that's all he can get, but was trying to still find other work in his field... I am ok with that. This is different from your regular.. I am 40 something, live with mom and can't hold a job. Or, I make double what you make, but I have better things to spend my money on then bills.... My point is: At my age, I want someone who is established and willing to work together. jetta Not trying to be mean, but do you know if by chance we as a nation go into a double dip there is not going to be security for anyone out of the 1 percent. Do we not realize that only 5 years ago 25% (not an accurate number I'm sure) of the home owners in the US lost theirs? If your looking for a man with money when this comes down, and it could, good luck. I want someone who wants to live life, not someone tied to a bank account. you are not mean but you are missing my point. My ex husband had a great bank account.. I had everything but love.. that's why I left. My point is.. why should I carry a man? I want someone who wants to work together. And YES... no lazy losers allowed in! There is a difference between trying... and not trying. I can be choosy. The economy sucks, this is true, but there are lots of men out there who are single with some financial stability. I don't want to be 50 and struggling. |
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i need serious advice
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'...like I've said in another post, "Why want someone who doesn't want you"? take all that energy and put it into yourself and move forward.
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is money taking over love??
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In my experience Love conquers all!  In a relationship both must equally participate to at least keep a roof over your head, food on the table, and clothes on your back. Sometimes one needs to pick up the slack when an unforeseen situation arises from injury, sickness, or loss of work but you should also plan for hard times and learn to live within your means. It's also easier to make it with someone than on your own
This is the way it should be! I definitely agree if an unforeseen situation happens, but if it does, I don't want to catch ya at the bar (which I have) or paying money for a trade show and telling me you're helping your brother move (which I have) ;) That's just bs jetta & just plain sneaky, lying, laziness. I've been out of work for a while so I learned to cut my expenses during time of layoff. Things are kinda slow in my area right now but I do what I gotta do to get by. Yep! Journeyman, I divorced a man who made lots of money, the children and I had a great life.. but when I divorced, I learned to live within my means or starve.. Its what us mature adults do. This man that I am with (not for long) is in his 50's.. and I am finding out he has never had anything.. all lies. So, guess I am a little particular now on who I will date :) |
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is money taking over love??
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Some of your sentence doesn't make sense to me. I will try and answer to what I think you are asking me.
If I dated a man who had a passion for a low paying job, but worked hard and helped with the bills,put our future together first, I would sacrifice, and I've had in the past. If I dated a man who was washing dishes because in this economy that's all he can get, but was trying to still find other work in his field... I am ok with that. This is different from your regular.. I am 40 something, live with mom and can't hold a job. Or, I make double what you make, but I have better things to spend my money on then bills.... My point is: At my age, I want someone who is established and willing to work together. |
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is money taking over love??
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In my experience Love conquers all! In a relationship both must equally participate to at least keep a roof over your head, food on the table, and clothes on your back. Sometimes one needs to pick up the slack when an unforeseen situation arises from injury, sickness, or loss of work but you should also plan for hard times and learn to live within your means. It's also easier to make it with someone than on your own
This is the way it should be! I definitely agree if an unforeseen situation happens, but if it does, I don't want to catch ya at the bar (which I have) or paying money for a trade show and telling me you're helping your brother move (which I have) ;) |
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Trying to move on
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(I have done this in the past too)
We take to much energy thinking about the other person and what we should be doing is taking that energy and putting it on ourselves. We should be telling ourselves how much better we are. We should find what makes us happy and makes us laugh.. hanging with friends, hobbies and focusing on that. Try something new.. It sucks. It really does. But, time doesn't forget, but it does heal.. time will let you move on. Think of your high school break ups.. it was awful.. but, are you still crying or hurt about that... probably not, time has healed you and you moved on. (just an example). In the end, I think "Why would I want to be with a person who doesn't want to be with me"? I want to be with a person who wants me for who I am. Then I smile, knowing that I am a good person and I should have the 'right' person in my life. |
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is money taking over love??
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It does matter to a degree. I want to know how that person is established, why? because, I am tired of broke *** losers.
The first one couldn't hold a job.. didnt want to. Why would I want to carry the load on a lazyass? I wound up paying all the bills with no money to save. the one I am with now will be out the door soon... he works, but, for the past 7 months has given me an excuse about paying his daughters college. She is 21. He pays her rent and college... he makes double what I make.. doesn't give me a dime, and the storage he was suppose to pay, hasn't been paid. I am paying all the bills again.. so done!!!! SO... money isn't everything, but you have to have it. I don't care what the guy drives... but if he is walking, he must be broke if he is washing dishes (at age 45 to 50's) he must be uneducated and broke and if he is still living with mom.. RUN! Just my experience. |
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breakups
Edited by
jettamoon
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Mon 06/10/13 06:58 AM
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not in love anymore
sex sucks drug abuse emotional abuse mama's boy lies won't help with the bills won't work.... boring not exciting anymore controlling |
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