Topic: breakups
swatzie's photo
Thu 06/06/13 03:40 AM
give ten reasons why we breakup

pkh's photo
Thu 06/06/13 03:49 AM
I don't have ten I think you should give all you've got and try and make it work. Cheating is the one for me

Toodygirl5's photo
Thu 06/06/13 10:52 AM
Sometimes it is only one reason, like Abuse.

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Fri 06/07/13 11:50 AM
sometimes its just..u understand things cant work anymore..and u let it go..

Mortica7's photo
Fri 06/07/13 10:37 PM
Cheating
Physical abuse
Emotional abuse
Relationship abandonment
Fiscal irresponsibility
Someone being challenged in being honest

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Sat 06/08/13 02:15 AM

Cheating
Physical abuse
Emotional abuse
Relationship abandonment
Fiscal irresponsibility
Someone being challenged in being honest

agreed

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Sat 06/08/13 04:48 AM
1, Pride
2, lack of communication
3, Differences in culture
4, If two individuals are too different, they bound to argue often times
5, Having a third person involved in a relationship
6, Yelling & shouting when arguing
7,If one or both parties don't avail him/her self for quality times, love misses nutrition.
8,Dishonesty
9,If one or both are not willing to compromise
10, If the intentions of being in the relationship are not the same on both parties.

lovleyell's photo
Sat 06/08/13 12:58 PM
My EX decided to choke me, bang me off walls. Threatened t kill me if I called cops. He is in jail now. THATS GUD ENUF REASON FOR ME T BREAK UP. NOOOO MAN WILL EVER HURT ME AGAIN!!!!

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Mon 06/10/13 05:46 AM

My EX decided to choke me, bang me off walls. Threatened t kill me if I called cops. He is in jail now. THATS GUD ENUF REASON FOR ME T BREAK UP. NOOOO MAN WILL EVER HURT ME AGAIN!!!!

bravo girl.u did right

1Cynderella's photo
Mon 06/10/13 06:32 AM
1. You both chose your own life over a life together.

2. They don't want you to watch them die, so push you away as cruelly as possible.

3. They are clinging to feelings for their ex, and you just can't live with love by default.

4. You realize you will always come second to anything important to them, and what's important to you comes last.

5. You're SO different, you realize EVERYTHING will always be a compromise or a battle.

6. You're too alike, and the only difference from dating yourself is the sex.

7. Disrespect

8. Infidelity

9. Neglect

10. Abuse

msharmony's photo
Mon 06/10/13 06:40 AM
1. emotional immaturity
2. lack of communication
3. lack of honesty
4. repeat 1-3 until you get to 10 ..lol

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Mon 06/10/13 06:45 AM

Cheating
Physical abuse
Emotional abuse
Relationship abandonment
Fiscal irresponsibility
Someone being challenged in being honest


actually there is nothing wrong with the last one. If you are certain someone had been dishonest or suspect they might not be totally honest with you, it is best to discuss it if u want to preserve your relationship. If it was a small lie, it might work out...but if you don;t get it straightened out, that person will begin to believe that lieing is an acceptable, successful tactic. And, that's a downward spiral.

If you have been dishonest you should expect the challenge. I have been lied to many times and have seen people lie all the time. I don;t want personal relationships with them anyway because I know they lied (and it affected me).

so that person needs to come clean to preserve whatever is left of their honor - but if it is a serious lie our friendship is done

nothing is wrong with challenging a liar and if they don't like it, too bad. The most important thing is to get at the truth

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Mon 06/10/13 06:47 AM

1. emotional immaturity
2. lack of communication
3. lack of honesty
4. repeat 1-3 until you get to 10 ..lol
:thumbsup:

I can agree with this list, because someone with one or more of those features probably has not entered the relationship for the right reasons anyway

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Mon 06/10/13 06:49 AM

1. You both chose your own life over a life together.

2. They don't want you to watch them die, so push you away as cruelly as possible.

3. They are clinging to feelings for their ex, and you just can't live with love by default.

4. You realize you will always come second to anything important to them, and what's important to you comes last.

5. You're SO different, you realize EVERYTHING will always be a compromise or a battle.

6. You're too alike, and the only difference from dating yourself is the sex.

7. Disrespect

8. Infidelity

9. Neglect

10. Abuse



another good list

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Mon 06/10/13 06:56 AM
Edited by jettamoon on Mon 06/10/13 06:58 AM
not in love anymore
sex sucks
drug abuse
emotional abuse
mama's boy
lies
won't help with the bills
won't work....
boring
not exciting anymore
controlling

Toodygirl5's photo
Mon 06/10/13 09:32 AM

1. emotional immaturity
2. lack of communication
3. lack of honesty
4. repeat 1-3 until you get to 10 ..lol


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