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what do I have to do
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Ok...honestly... And I mean...brutal honesty... Men (and women) typically get put into a few categories before they even get out of high school. Jocks. Nice guys. Geeks. Bad boys. (etc) Most people (women included) hold onto these titles because it's what defines them during the "growing up" phase of life. It takes a lot of soul searching to get out of the rut of being told who you are for a good part of your life. Men who are told that they are "nice guys" are the guys who spent most of their puberty years being the friend to most of the pretty girls who were being hit on by douchebags. These same guys were being indoctorinated that it's not ok to tell a girl like it is, they were taught that it's not ok to tell a girl she's being a moron for sticking with the guy who treats her like ****. Just like we teach girls that they'r meant to be looking for their Prince Charming because no princess has ever made it on her own, we're teaching the "nice guys" that they have to let a woman walk all over them. Guys...listen up....we don't want to walk all over you. Grow a back bone. Grab yourself by the sac and remember that even though the feminist movement won us the right to vote, buy property, and burn our expensive Victoria Secret bras...that it doesn't mean that you can't take a little control. I'm not saying that you need to start treating every woman like crap. Instead don't lay it all out there and be over the top nice. Women enjoy the thrill of the chase as much as men do. So...in all reality...most men who complain that they're the "nice guy" who never gets a date...are still living in their parents house, have a crappy job, play video games way too much, and let women walk allllll over them. "The Nice Guy" excuse is getting old...it's all about putting yourself out there and actually engaging a woman in intelligent conversation instead of starting at her chest and thinking about what she might look like naked wearing only your official Darth Vadar helmet. (Woops...that's what I do...hahahha) Seriously...nice guys do finish last...but it's a crutch. Stop leaning on a lame excuse. Spoken like a real woman,take note sissy boys |
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marine sent me this
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marine corps motto's are "the few the proud" and "always faithful".Navy is,"can u swim"...army is "well can u write your name?",air force is "well at least your not in the marines"
And i mean no disrespect to any service,all are what im proud of and respect...but btw,go marines:) |
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marine sent me this
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lol,good too know there is still the ol' playful banter between the armed forces.
Like the air force, and my dad used to say "if we need someone to scrape bird droppings off a tar-mac,we just call em right up" |
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what do I have to do
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It isnt about "nice",its about having class and style and having the sack to be expressive yet attentive and understanding at the same time.Push overs are just that,easy to get over....the nice guy term means being respectful , yet decisive and caring....not whiny and fearful.
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Happy Unhappiness
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Request of me,that small smile
Take of me,that relenting touch, A fraction is parted without will or desire, Remain by a side not truly yours as much, I go on with sense of justified caring, It is only one sided, this sharing.... I remain..because i know what love is,and i value it above myself |
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Good Deeds
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I talked to an ex who treated me badly in the past,listened to her for over an hour and gave consolation without bias or self thought.She went away happier and less emotional over her new boyfriend....it was hard,but it was the right thing to do since i know her well and know why she does things.Although i dont consider it a "nice" thing to do,i just see it as the right thing to do
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Say your best friend was
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I would mount my high horse and betray the friend,but only after i gave them fair warning to cut bait and stop it,and i wouldnt in good conscience let it go on knowing there partner is being made a fool.....but then again,if i told ,it would ruin both our relationship of trust, as well as the relation with the partner.
So that friend would be a butt for putting many people around them in the predicament...in the end,the cheater deserves to lose a friendship and a relationship by being weak,its a lose lose situation |
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Do you
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As long as you have the memory of the event and the emotions, instead of a time,thats all that matters....
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Beating my chest,throwing leaves in the air and then taking the alpha female as my own.....:)
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What part of No....
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For some its a game of words and action from both a man and a woman,some like being pursued....being told no right away and then going away, can mean you run from a challenge that is being offered to test the will of enduring.Sure,certain "no" words have affect in certain situations and pursuing them is wrong,but other times its ok.....unfortunately,some people dont understand the difference between being coy,and being annoyed:)
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Am I attractive??
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If you ask if your attractive than you will be at the will of public opinion instead of your own....if you know your attractive than its fine,but if you need everyone elses opinion than u depend on everyone else,and are at the mercy of everyones influnce both negative and good...but by my "opinion" yes u are.So just strut it and take yourself out in the world as u deem fit,with positive influence
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i need your opinion
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If she saw a posted message on another website or place,then that means she is cruising just as you were.There was no commitment just from a kiss between the both of you.Probably you both had different ideas about what that kiss meant.....and maybe you both saw things differently.Either way,she either had a valid excuses,or you had your own excuses as to what was too happen in a pre-conceived notion....
Doesnt matter tho,it was a fragile first meeting of 2 looking for someone else then what they had,she was wrong to "diss" you off and you werent exactly right to look for another while you supposedly thought you were dating....its either a misunderstanding or just 2 different people looking to play around.Its both your fault,dont worry and just move on with more understanding |
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what u looking for
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non-crazy would be a good start
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Im looking for love.
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Dont worry about things being about you long,just means your more interesting in the over-all scheme of things....gl and choose wisely
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Love
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It is no more than an emotion true,but one that makes life worth while.If u cant beleive in something or have something than you are nothing,its not about factuality when it comes to love,it is all about beleif and the endurance of a soul or heart to over come lifes misery with another at your side that make u stronger.A person alone can be strong,but two, side by side can accomplish anything,because tragedy comes from conflict and enduring emotions and release come from love.Caring and compassion isnt just an emotion,its a need that makes life worth living and fighting for.Sure love can stink for the wrong reason and misperceptions,but a true love makes all the doubt and worries disappear....
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so i guess
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Not at all,just takes less effort than dressing as a pirate....than again its easier to be tipsy and say arrrrgh as a pirate
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so i guess
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Im Lazy this year ,i wear a cowboy hat and a dust breaker....and yell yeehaa to compliment the image
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When You Fall In Love
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Id say takes both,because once in love u automatically feel better about yourself
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strange msgs.
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Just nutty buddies looking for another buddy.....its the web and enough crazy people to fill it.Sorry,maybe take take off the crazy person attracting magnet and ignore them,gl
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Too Often
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and they say chivalry is dead....
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