cheating on their spouse, would you tell anyone or would you keep it a secret. Here's the kicker, their spouse is a good friend of yours.

My best friend would be well aware that I didn't agree with the situation, they would also be told "if you're not happy, then get a divorce".

I have learned years ago to stay out of people business, because in the end somehow you wind up being the A-hole.

I would stay out of it

yep..been in that situation, I just stay out of it now.

Agree with most people here I would stay out of it. I think there is big time trouble in getting involved in this type of situation.

I would stay out of it, if you get involved there is a big chance you can lose that friendship. But I would be there for her/him.

You,d be dammed if you did,and dammed if you dident!

You forgot to add, they are cheating with you!!!!!

I'd want a bribe to not tell.

I would stay out of it.

she might be a good friend, but he is my BEST friend. i would tell him that i thought it was wrong and he should stop, but i wouldnt do anything to interfere.

I would want to know, so I would hope my friend would inform me....therefore I would tell...do unto others....

Stay out of the biz!!!!!!!

I make an effort not to get involved with others marriages that way, although I will not allow a mistress or thing on the side into my home knowingly.

For one, I think many marriages could be worked out if it werent for the EMBARASSMENT of knowing others knew your dirty laundry and expected a certain reaction. For two, I dont know what personal agreements a wife and husband might have with each other,, however close I may be to them, and I think it should remain that way.

the most I can do is tell the cheater that I dont feel its wise or appropriate and leave their action or inaction up to them.

Well, it's a despicable and loathesome act, so friend or not, I would tell.

I would mount my high horse and betray the friend,but only after i gave them fair warning to cut bait and stop it,and i wouldnt in good conscience let it go on knowing there partner is being made a fool.....but then again,if i told ,it would ruin both our relationship of trust, as well as the relation with the partner.

So that friend would be a butt for putting many people around them in the predicament...in the end,the cheater deserves to lose a friendship and a relationship by being weak,its a lose lose situation

My friends aren't like this; thank the Lord! But if my friend was cheating, I would sit them down and we would have a talk about it and about the options (cheating is NEVER an option) and if the Big D was the only solution.....so be it.

PECCY! How's it going, stranger???

I'd tell the best friend to make a decision and that you didn't condone the situation (assuming that's true.) Then back off and I'd personally steer clear of both until there was a resolution.

Hi Galend! Going well here! How's Alamogordo?