I think that one at a time is the best. Interesting, Why? |
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When I was a boy, I knew a very unremarkable man. Nothing special about him. He was no Brad Pitt. However every time I saw him. He was with a different girl. Some were quite attractive. So I asked him, What's your secret? How do you always have a different pretty girl? He replied, "Well boy the secret is this, If you speak to 5 girls. At worst 1 of them will agree to go out with you. If you speak to 20 girls at worst 5 will go out with you. Now if you speak to 50 girls, At worst 20 will go out with you. So is there anything wrong with dating many people till you find what you want? Just a thought i'd like to entertain?
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Simply because you find some dead fish, You shouldn't say the entire ocean went bad. Keep being honest, Its all about timing.
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Either way, Ive had most of you in this thread. For at least 2 hours, So there definetly had to be something interesting about this whole conversation.
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That is correct
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I explained it once already, I'm not going to repeat myself. Choose what you like stick with that.
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I used the word boring in reference, To the boring boss scenario. If you'd like to think to yourself. That I do not like conversations. Well that's your prerogative. Think what you like.
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No that's my idea of normal boring conversation. Normal conversation is talking about the weather. Exciting conversation is more like laughing, teasing and having a good time.
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Is to tell everyone that on Friday it's Hawaiian shirt day. People still do this? I thought that was something people made up to scare bad employees. Not only do they do it. They get pist off if you don't wear the corny shirt. |
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Kind of like, When you work at an office. You have that boss who's most humorous interesting idea. To boost moral in the office. Is to tell everyone that on Friday it's Hawaiian shirt day. I often wonder if a guy like that even ever gets any lol
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Maybe you do, Because iv'e had some people bore me to tears. Discussing normal boring conversation. They had no spark, No humor and no wit. Just like that would boreme. It will bore a woman as well.
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I never said to be Nasty, cheesy, or mean. Now you're twisting my words. I'm basically saying be more interesting than the previous guy. Its hard to explain to a woman its kinda a guy thing. Weren't you the one talking about "busting her chops"? That's not interesting; it's kind of nasty. Either that or it comes out cheesy. "Interesting" is when a guy just starts a conversation like a normal person talking to another normal person. Women aren't really all that different from guys. We're just shaped differently. There's the reference you made right there. |
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Yes singmesweet, You grabbed it. Its about teasing and having a good time. Not about cheesy pick up lines or boring people to death.
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I agree totally, A woman might not want to admit she'd prefer someone funny, charming, and witty. However go out there and try the boring serious guy card. You'll find yourself alone many a night. Simply because of this, Does not make them bimbos or shallow. Why wouldn't a woman want to admit she'd want someone funny, charming and witty? And just because she wants those things, do you think it means she doesn't like to have interesting conversations? Didn't you previously say, You wanted a man to approach you normally and make normal conversation. That's neither Funny, charming, or witty. That sounds more like a sit down with the surgeon general. |
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If you want to ever land in the dreaded friend zone. It's not difficult to do. Just be serious, Don't bust her chops. Tell her your a sincere sensitive guy looking for a second momma. Oh and make sure you change your mind to suit her every chance you get.
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I never said to be Nasty, cheesy, or mean. Now you're twisting my words. I'm basically saying be more interesting than the previous guy. Its hard to explain to a woman its kinda a guy thing. Weren't you the one talking about "busting her chops"? That's not interesting; it's kind of nasty. Either that or it comes out cheesy. "Interesting" is when a guy just starts a conversation like a normal person talking to another normal person. Women aren't really all that different from guys. We're just shaped differently. I think he's busting your chops. Am I right? |
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I never said to be Nasty, cheesy, or mean. Now you're twisting my words. I'm basically saying be more interesting than the previous guy. Its hard to explain to a woman its kinda a guy thing. Weren't you the one talking about "busting her chops"? That's not interesting; it's kind of nasty. Either that or it comes out cheesy. "Interesting" is when a guy just starts a conversation like a normal person talking to another normal person. Women aren't really all that different from guys. We're just shaped differently. O.K. Well now that you've put that out there. I suppose any man wanting to get with you. Now knows to approach you in that fashion. |
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I never said to be Nasty, cheesy, or mean. Now you're twisting my words. I'm basically saying be more interesting than the previous guy. Its hard to explain to a woman its kinda a guy thing.
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It just makes her selective. That's not a bad thing.
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What the...??? Why "bust the chops" of someone you're interested in? Whatever happened to just starting a conversation? You know, not telling a woman she's beautiful (hint: most of us are far less interested in hearing compliments on our appearance than we are in just having an interesting conversation) OR hassling her about something. JUST TALK TO US LIKE WE'RE REAL PEOPLE. How difficult can this be? It's called flirting. You start doing the "just having an interesting conversation" thing with a woman and before you know it she's thinking of you as just a friend. You don't know many actual women, do you? Just having an interesting conversation will capture the interest of an interesting woman who might actually be worth dating. Blatant flirting really only works on bimbos and shallow women. I suppose if bimbos are what you want, go for it. But if you want a woman with some substance, conversation is key. I get on with women that are down to earth and not full of themselves. Calling them shallow bimbos is rather pejoritive, don't you think? Down-to-earth women are the ones who don't need to be complimented every second or approached with slick lines. The shallow bimbos are the ones you have to do that with. I'd have to disagree with you there. An attractive woman is approached by men all the time. Simply because she would like someone that isn't drooling all over her. Makes her laugh, Knows something the other guys do not. Doesn't make her a shallow bimbo. |
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