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Mon 04/22/13 04:34 PM
I agree totally, A woman might not want to admit she'd prefer someone funny, charming, and witty. However go out there and try the boring serious guy card. You'll find yourself alone many a night. Simply because of this, Does not make them bimbos or shallow.

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Mon 04/22/13 04:24 PM




I can think of some women, I regret not having gotten more intimate with. I think some people have a few of those.
What kept you from it? Are there any you regret letting slip by now?

I met this gorgeous girl a while back. Tall, Beautiful blue eyes great smile. Sweet as can be, Nothing seemed to get her angry. All smiles, After about a week, She said she had to go back home (up north) She gave me her number, and I lost it!frustrated
Makes you wonder how many good ones got away due to a lost phone number. noway

Sorry for your bad luck with that, but I'll bet you're more cautious with those numbers now. flowerforyou

Oh yes, I back them up to my sim card now. :tongue:

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Mon 04/22/13 04:11 PM
Keep telling yourself that lol

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Mon 04/22/13 04:04 PM



What the...??? Why "bust the chops" of someone you're interested in?

Whatever happened to just starting a conversation? You know, not telling a woman she's beautiful (hint: most of us are far less interested in hearing compliments on our appearance than we are in just having an interesting conversation) OR hassling her about something. JUST TALK TO US LIKE WE'RE REAL PEOPLE.

How difficult can this be? what


It's called flirting. You start doing the "just having an interesting conversation" thing with a woman and before you know it she's thinking of you as just a friend.

You don't know many actual women, do you?

Just having an interesting conversation will capture the interest of an interesting woman who might actually be worth dating. Blatant flirting really only works on bimbos and shallow women. I suppose if bimbos are what you want, go for it. But if you want a woman with some substance, conversation is key.

You're right, If you're describing trying to peak the interest of oh say a librarian. In the real world, Going up to an attractive woman and saying "Hi i'm Tom i'm into stamp collecting, Would you like to have a deep and meaningful conversation about world issues?" Will get you as far as a bicycle will with a flat tire.

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Mon 04/22/13 03:57 PM


What the...??? Why "bust the chops" of someone you're interested in?

Whatever happened to just starting a conversation? You know, not telling a woman she's beautiful (hint: most of us are far less interested in hearing compliments on our appearance than we are in just having an interesting conversation) OR hassling her about something. JUST TALK TO US LIKE WE'RE REAL PEOPLE.

How difficult can this be? what


It's called flirting. You start doing the "just having an interesting conversation" thing with a woman and before you know it she's thinking of you as just a friend.

I met a buddy of mine at a pool hall/bar. He told me beforehand, He was with a girl and her friend. When I get there, Her friend was a hard 9 pushing 10. My buddy playfully says to her, "Hey my friend here is pretty good with the gift of gab" She looks at me quickly crosses her arms defensively and says "I bet you can't pick me up, With your lines Mr. smooth talker" So I looked at her smiled and said.. "Well I'm sure I could if you were my type, But hey we can be friends right?" That changed the whole ball game. She uncrossed her arms started giggling and laughing. Then as she had a few drinks asked me why she wasn't my type, Then it progressed from there. When they cant have something is when they want it most.

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Mon 04/22/13 03:34 PM

What the...??? Why "bust the chops" of someone you're interested in?

Whatever happened to just starting a conversation? You know, not telling a woman she's beautiful (hint: most of us are far less interested in hearing compliments on our appearance than we are in just having an interesting conversation) OR hassling her about something. JUST TALK TO US LIKE WE'RE REAL PEOPLE.

How difficult can this be? what

Not difficult at all really, What I explained before is it depends on the woman you are speaking to at the moment. They are not all the same.

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Mon 04/22/13 03:12 PM


Look at it another way, If a man points a gun to your head. Then orders you to shoot an innocent person. What makes you think, He's not going to shoot you right after the deed is done? If you find yourself in that situation, Turn and shoot the perp. Chances are you won't make it out of there alive anyway.




I guess I am a coward, I just dont know that I would let someone take me from my family and loved ones if there was any way I could survive,,,,,and no way to know my action was likely to prevent death,,,


and ESPECIALLY at 18 or 19, I may have believed a dear loved one if they caused me to believe I had no choice other than dying or doing what I was told,,,,


There is no honor among thieves and murderers. Taking the word of an immoral man. Whom has a gun pointed at your head. Makes as much sense, As swallowing a box of ex lax, Then locking the bathroom door expecting you wont need to go in there. Is he going to kill you after you've done his bidding? YES, Are you going to have to go in the bathroom after all that ex lax? Absolutely!

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Mon 04/22/13 02:58 PM
Yes, However on the busting their chops deal. The less attractive they are. The less you want to bust their chops. They don't have the same confidence as a more attractive woman. Start playfully making of fun of this type of woman, You're bound to offend them. Since they do not hear how beautiful they are. As often as a very attractive woman hears it. You want to stick more to being to flattery with this kind. Just as you said.

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Mon 04/22/13 02:44 PM


You don't have to be a jerk all the time, just at the right time.



Yes definitely!!! You need to have a bit of a "chip", swagger, " backbone" dont be a right fighter, pick the
Fights, allways strive for that 60/40 40/60 balance.
You will not hold a woman's attention long if you "roll over for them" they will find you unchallenging and
will quickly loose respect. After all there's only one thing a woman wants & that what she CAN'T have!!

& boys only play with other boys toys...... SAME THING SO RELAX ..LOL...

This is also correct, Never doubleback on your answers. Say what you mean, Mean what you say. Women like men who are true to their word and dependable. If your willing to change your views/beliefs over a pretty face. How dependable are you?

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Mon 04/22/13 02:40 PM


its not really about being a jerk. Its more about busting their chops. The more attractive a woman is, The less you compliment her. Making playful fun of her is something their not use to. Since every guy that walks up to them. Always begins his line with "wow you're so beautiful" Making them often roll their eyes. like whatever. When you start the conversation with something like.. Damn girl that's a big purse you got there, What are you hiding a Chihuahua in there? Or other playful nonsense like that. Will almost always get you a smile. Once they smile and laugh, Just keep it rolling. When they ask questions like "what kind of woman do you want?" Say "The kind that doesn't ask so many questions" This works quite well with very attractive women.


Right and if they aren't really that hot you just keep telling them that they are? Got it.

Yes sir you catch on quick. If they are not that hot, You tone it down a bit.

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Mon 04/22/13 11:59 AM
Look at it another way, If a man points a gun to your head. Then orders you to shoot an innocent person. What makes you think, He's not going to shoot you right after the deed is done? If you find yourself in that situation, Turn and shoot the perp. Chances are you won't make it out of there alive anyway.

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Mon 04/22/13 11:39 AM

@xtreme305....thought u were gointo say.........and after a week her head split open and a lizard came out.
Not sure where my head was.... cuz thats a "keeper! aahhaaahha
Why am I single with those standards? 0 ya those aren't my standards anymore.
Yes there's a few like that I wished , I'd a FIRED!!! A lot sooner, but thats a different topic.


Haven't we all, If I knew then what I know now. I'd have have fired more of them faster than Donald Trump on the apprentice lol

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Mon 04/22/13 11:28 AM
I guess it really depends on the man or the woman in question.

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Mon 04/22/13 11:24 AM
You don't always get what you want. It's really cool however when you do. happy

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Mon 04/22/13 10:40 AM
its not really about being a jerk. Its more about busting their chops. The more attractive a woman is, The less you compliment her. Making playful fun of her is something their not use to. Since every guy that walks up to them. Always begins his line with "wow you're so beautiful" Making them often roll their eyes. like whatever. When you start the conversation with something like.. Damn girl that's a big purse you got there, What are you hiding a Chihuahua in there? Or other playful nonsense like that. Will almost always get you a smile. Once they smile and laugh, Just keep it rolling. When they ask questions like "what kind of woman do you want?" Say "The kind that doesn't ask so many questions" This works quite well with very attractive women.

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Mon 04/22/13 09:15 AM
Also there are girls iv'e dated, Lost touch with. Then ran into them later. It was clear to see the chemistry was still there, But they were married now. That's just a level of bad Karma, I won't tap into. If they got married, I scratch em off the books.

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Mon 04/22/13 09:02 AM


I can think of some women, I regret not having gotten more intimate with. I think some people have a few of those.
What kept you from it? Are there any you regret letting slip by now?

I met this gorgeous girl a while back. Tall, Beautiful blue eyes great smile. Sweet as can be, Nothing seemed to get her angry. All smiles, After about a week, She said she had to go back home (up north) She gave me her number, and I lost it!frustrated

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Mon 04/22/13 08:07 AM


I love the outdoors, but I hate insects.
I'm not a pasta fan but I love chef Boyardee.
I have a dog that watches movies. no one ever believes itohwell
I was not aware Chef Boyardee made pasta. tongue2 Was that too cheeky?:angel: slaphead

My dog watched animal planet...loved the Big cat series best. biggrin

Try putting the T.V. or laptop, close to where they are sitting/laying down. My dog watched the whole movie "Prometheus" Then fell asleep. "priceless"

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Mon 04/22/13 02:10 AM


It isn't just imprinting, and the person does have a lot to do with it. Oxytocin does facilitate bonding in men as well as in women. I used to work in a medical school, and helped type up some of the research results on studies of this nature. I actually saw the research results and raw data.




Cool, tell me more please :smile:

I have had several conversations with friends who are doctors about this but they read the studies, they don't do them. They've said that men bond to the overall situation...the danger, the location and to a much lesser extent to the person. And they've said that the woman primarily bonds to the person.

I'd be interested in what you know about this.


Men can bond pretty well with women partners, Women can change their emotions at the drop of a hat. Men don't. When we make up our mind on a partner we can bond very well

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Mon 04/22/13 12:47 AM
Pretty cool that you like horses, So do I