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Sun 08/03/08 01:58 PM
Thank you so much. I think honesty is a forgotten trait. We tend to try and look good in the public eye but we only deceive ourselves!!

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Sun 08/03/08 01:54 PM




:smile: So it is probably best to remain true to ourselves!! And look forward to the day of our meeting with that special someone!!:smile:



Yes.:smile:


Have you just been playing with people to find out others opinions?:tongue: laugh
:wink:




With this place, I should have known better!laugh flowerforyou
:smile: But i am considering doing the causal thing, i have never did it before. Who knows, it maybe exactly what I am looking for!!

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Sun 08/03/08 01:40 PM
Go for it!! Best of luck!!

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Sun 08/03/08 01:31 PM


:smile: So it is probably best to remain true to ourselves!! And look forward to the day of our meeting with that special someone!!:smile:



Yes.:smile:


Have you just been playing with people to find out others opinions?:tongue: laugh
:wink:

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Sun 08/03/08 01:28 PM

I want a new piercing just dont know where to get it done like on my belly button or tongue. Or whatever what would you suggest
How abouts your eye brow!!

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Sun 08/03/08 01:20 PM
:smile: So it is probably best to remain true to ourselves!! And look forward to the day of our meeting with that special someone!!:smile:

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Sun 08/03/08 01:13 PM
He was originally gonna be called Monkey Kong but they opted for Donkey meaning silly or stupid!!

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Sun 08/03/08 01:10 PM

are attention-seekers allowed to flood the forums with nonsense?
lol
Please tell us all about it

drinker

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Sun 08/03/08 12:51 PM
In all honesty I think a lot of people actually do!!
Unfortunately!!

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Sun 08/03/08 12:49 PM





Its all about Lust
I think you are right and that applies to both male and female!!




For the most part that is true, but sex should actually be "making love", which should be the end act which completes the whole package - the frienship, love, compassion, tolerance, caring, and true connection to the other's heart, mind, and soul.



I know, I know, fantasy for most, but just saying, that's the way it should be, thank God it is for some.
All you have said is correct, that is the way I have felt since I was a teenager but I am now 34 and have not met anybody that is remotely similar to myself. How long must I wait, till I am 60 or 70.
It is a nice dream but I think I have been walking the wrong path for too long!!




I understand your point, a lot of people feel that way nowdays, but for myself, I would rather be really happy when I find someone to complete my life the way I want and deserve, than to make my body temporarily happy and never feel that connection to another as it should be. I can't even think about doing anything intimate with someone else unless their is already a relationship in place and the connection is there, and it looks like it might actually last for a while. jmo.
And I totally understand your view but maybe instead of us all being optimists maybe we should all consider becoming realists!!

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Sun 08/03/08 12:48 PM

flowerforyou If love is blind, why is lingerie so popular? flowerforyou

Ah you speak of lust!!

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Sun 08/03/08 12:41 PM



It's worth it to some. My parents are still happily married after 36 years. I have quite a few friends who also have parents who are still happily married.
But Em is it really happy or is it an act of convienence or fear of change. I think love was more respected in previous times but nowadays it is all about good sex and material values!!

I wish there was more people like your parents around in this day!!

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I'm sure there are married couples out there who are together for convenience. But, to think anyone who is still married is like that?? Why?
I do not know. It is all that i see.
I see couples in pubs ignoring each other and not buying each other a drink. Him in one corner giving out about her and her in another corner giving out about him.

Strange behaviour!!

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Sun 08/03/08 12:37 PM



Its all about Lust
I think you are right and that applies to both male and female!!




For the most part that is true, but sex should actually be "making love", which should be the end act which completes the whole package - the frienship, love, compassion, tolerance, caring, and true connection to the other's heart, mind, and soul.



I know, I know, fantasy for most, but just saying, that's the way it should be, thank God it is for some.
All you have said is correct, that is the way I have felt since I was a teenager but I am now 34 and have not met anybody that is remotely similar to myself. How long must I wait, till I am 60 or 70.
It is a nice dream but I think I have been walking the wrong path for too long!!

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Sun 08/03/08 12:32 PM

I havent met a person, place or thing that was perfect. Why should love be any different??? The problem lies in picking the wrong person.......people need to be really picky when choosing their life partner!flowerforyou
But gypsy picking your lifetime partner may actually take a lifetime to find them!!

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Sun 08/03/08 12:30 PM

It's worth it to some. My parents are still happily married after 36 years. I have quite a few friends who also have parents who are still happily married.
But Em is it really happy or is it an act of convienence or fear of change. I think love was more respected in previous times but nowadays it is all about good sex and material values!!

I wish there was more people like your parents around in this day!!

:smile:

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Sun 08/03/08 12:26 PM

Its all about Lust
I think you are right and that applies to both male and female!!

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Sun 08/03/08 12:24 PM

It is rare, but I've not only heard of a few, I've seen 3 couple in my life that we together pretty much their whole life, and when one passed on, the other was miserable until they passed too shortly thereafter.
There is hope!!
Its good to read your post!!:smile:

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Sun 08/03/08 12:23 PM

Theres a song..."Love is war"...that an old friend turned me onto....it sums up everything. I don't know if I even believe in it..never seen a happily married couple:cry:
Being honest, the only time I see couples happy is the time they spend together before they have sex then it all goes downhill rapidly!!
The whole niceness thing at the start of the relationship is stemmed from lust!!

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Sun 08/03/08 12:21 PM


This love thing I mean. Most threads that are drawn up on the subject display what a deceptive and hurtful game this can be.

What is the middle ground? Is it best if we all just have casual one night stands and forget about this endless love theme!!
But keep ourselves STD free by using precautions, of course.

I know couples that are married/living together and all I ever see them doing is arguing and fighting with one another.

Lets be honest how many true love stories do you really know of??

How many people who are married nowadays are truly happy. They will say they are happy but are they??

What is your view?
Do you long for love and are willing share the rest of your days with that one person??
Do you think it is best to remain single and have fun with lots of different people until a day comes when you just want someone for company??

I have been waiting half my life and nothing is happening, I think I may just start the one night stand game and have fun all the time!!

drinker smokin


Love doesn't exist, when you calculate in the divorce rate and the percentage of average relationships where one or both parties has or will cheat...it simply doesn't exist anymore. Go ahead, prove me wrong...I would enjoy that.
I think you are right Fear. It is just a load of bollocks stemmed from hollywood and books!!

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Sun 08/03/08 12:18 PM

I have an idea...
let's try being normal...
for once.
any objections?


What is normal???

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