Okay. I'm sorry. I don't mean to b rude. But r u mother f... stupid. Of course it is. U have have to b into sexually the person you're with. There were tmz I didn't even like my husband but he so satisfied me sexually. U hv to hv this connection. Undoubtedly!

And we never get to b w the one we love

Technically I guess it depends on what kind of cougar u r looking for. I do not recommend going for a cougar who has been through A relationship or many relationships that have left them emotionally needy and desperate. If that is what u r looking for, they can b found at pool halls and most definitely on AFF. Uppity cougars can b found at resorts, yacht clubs, & classy piano bars. Better have money. If u seek a confident, cool cougar who is out mainly to have a good time, u can find them at popular bars, watching a fight or football game at Hooters, dance clubs, country bars, & gambling at casinos. I highly recommend a confident cougar. They r more confident & secure in their appearance & who they r as a person than they have been in their entire lives. This gives a cougar the freedom of knowing what she wants & what she doesn't & what she is willing to settle for & what she isn't. And who basically is just out to have a great time without needing to b in love or go through all the drama of having to b in a serious relationship. U want a sexy cougar becuz that means she has taken care of herself & still does & knows her sexuality & isn't afraid to express it. U will b very happy in the bedroom. So u may find her at the beach, a workout facility, playing tennis, hiking, or out boating on a lake. Good will hunting!

[Its really not a stupid question. I should not have married him. I knew i was making a mistake. I just didnt do enough to get out of it or give it more time before we said I do.
stupid question, but if you did not get along with this *** why did you marry him in the first place ?

I agree w your first post that sex is a beautiful way to express love & that if u r in love it can b full of intimacy and very satisfying. By the way, your advice really helped me. I have a choice to make & u made me realize clearly what those 2 choices are.uote]
If we've not been though it, we've at least heard the...i thought he loved me, or...I really believed she was the ONE....but they weren't.

So how can sex possibly be love, when most of the time LOVE isn't even love?

I agree completely. I think too many times there is a selfish partner who is ready to throw in the towel without diving in & really trying to work things out first & then there is the partner who always trys to make it work. Marriages don't work because there is not equal commitment.

I agree completely. Your version of mr. Perfect is out there but he won't b perfect. After u come down off cloud nine you'll c he has flaws you'll have to accept. But enjoy your life & living for your happiness. Becuz when u do meet mr. Perfect you'll then have to b Mrs. Perfect too. It takes a lot of compromise & thinking of how your actions affect that person. Enjoy being free if that's where you're at.

I'd want to know what technology got them here, r there wormholes, is there a God, how do we travel through the universe, were they here before?

My husband & I have been married for 11yrs. We never got along & I could never say for sure I loved him. He was most of the time Moody, distant, & a jerk. I found out he cheated on me in Oct. Of 2012. He was ready to leave the marriage. He also admitted to sleeping w a Hooters girl a year before that. I realized when I was about to lose him that I did love him & want the marriage to work. We have worked things out now, but I don't think I can trust him. He still wants to hang at Hooters from time to time without me & talks to this 1 girl on the phone he calls a friend. She calls him a friend too & he lets me c their texts. I just don't understand why he needs to give another woman attention. In the past 2 days I have fallen into a sea of insecurity and distrust. We r laughing & having fun & he is being sweet. But I want to tell him not to ever go to Hooters without me or talk to this or any other girl. I just can't make up my mind whether to live w thz imperfections & insecurities & b happy w the happiness & love we seem to have found now or just tell him that unless he changes thz things I can't go on.

Hi. I'm also looking to text & get some advice, especially from the male perspective. R u looking for advice or just to talk?

Hi. My advice is that she only wants to b friends w u. She duz not find u attractive that wat. My husband & I were friends before marrying & we kissed becuz I was attracted to him but didn't want to b in a relationship w him at the time. Sorry if this is not what u wanted to hear. Start dating someone & c if it bothers her at all. How old r u & where r u from?