Ahh thanks chap maybe thats why after having a profile on here since 08. I've gotten zero nudges lol.

I never was into putting up my pics on dating sites for different reasons, but I was wondering is a pic really that important, even after I have stated if you need a pic just ask and you shall receive.

So.. where are we going to dinner at and who's paying?

I take it the girl has to be drunk to fall for them.

Here's another one. "Girl you must be tired" girl says why and guy goes "because you've been running through my mind all day!" Lol I've heard a 100 pick up lines to use on girls, but I never have tried them for fear of being laughed at.

Aww she's so adorable, I had a boy dog just like that until my brother let him get ran over.. was sad for months..

Since I've been a member of mingle zero dates not even returned emails.. lol I guess I have better luck in real life, but then they've all approached me. Maybe I should upload some pics but I'm just not sure...

When I am alone I think of you and tears fill my eyes.
You are in my opinion the earth's greatest prize.
You try to make like I'm stupid and make this a suprise.
But I am not blinded I see before me an angel in disguise.
As I dream of kissing, caressing, hugging, and holding your hand.
I realize how special you are to make me yearn to be your man.
To spend one day with you I would give up my sight.
but only if its real what I feel as we hold each other through the night.
Just for a second I would give up my ablility to hear.
Just so you can hear the sweet words I whisper in your ear.
Without you in my life I feel so down and hopeless.
No way in hell would I trade you, not even for a $40,000 rolex.
No treasure on this earth can top the value of such a sweet angel.
Just to be with you a minute I'd smile while I was being strangled.
Each step leads me closer to you and our home in heaven.
and I'm not the type to keep asking, pleading, or begging.
but I need you in my life, all I'm asking for is one chance thats all.
I'm your personal soldier ready for whatever, willing to take a fall.
I'd die before I allow you to be hurt... so sweet, so innocent, so pure.
I'm dying from heartbreak and a gentle tender kiss from you is the only cure.
I'd give up my manhood for one hour wrapped up in your love and harness.
So mystical and divine you should have been created as a goddess.
You're my goddess I adore you, for one day alone I'd give up my life.
For this one day you will know the love I have for you when you're my wife.
Maybe someday this could happen..maybe someday this is all a dream.
away from you I'm miserable, together nothing could stop us, an untouchable team.
one chance is all I ask of, one chance you won't ever have to regret.
You are too precious to loose, on you I'd never place a dumb bet.
I don't care about trying to get you out of your panties.
All I ask for is a taste of your love as sweet as candy.
I want you to be the closest one when I need someone to understand me.
I'm not scandalous you'll be my one and only screw a plan b.
Just don't be too fast to show me any hate or rejection.
Instead all I want to show and you show me is affection.
Our directions may seem too far or for some twisted way of fate differ.
but for some reason just hearing you name makes my body get stiffer.
One of the greatest day on earth is the day into this world you were delivered.
And I will always be the cover you need when you begin to shake or shiver.
The mother of my kids I'm wondering could that be you?
If so, then through these hard times lets stick closer than glue.
Its something I'm willing to do if you're willing.
You're the one I need, I know because never before have I had this feeling.
one chance is all I need...
one chance for you and me...


by : lonelylovaboy

i'm from georgia, but i reside in the beach now!

leave town without saying a word or leaving a letter

To be honest I never hooked up from a dating site, its just been in person and I never asked them out first. I don't think half the people who sign up here use it locally. It seems like I'm the only one in my city who actually is ever online. Yes, having a pic, ups your chances but I refuse to upload a pic on here for personal reasons.

Nothing wrong with a pen pal though. I've had one who I've known for seven years and are like best friends now. We write and call each other all the time. I think LDR can be bad though depending on what kind of person you are. The distance can be a problem if you don't have the transportation needs, loneliness, trust is a major issue for question of "they'll never find out!" And I really don't suggest it from the internet with so many pic jackers floating around, then it comes time to meet and they aren't who they claimed to be, or looked like the picture back in 1980 lol.

But who knows maybe you'll find some one special on here so just keep trying & waiting.

I don't think you should because it will possibly lead to cheating. things that could fight your urges, think of every way your partner makes you feel. Do they make you feel like you want to spend the rest of your life with them? Ask yourself are they worth losing? Then ask yourself if you did chase that desire and something happened, if you were your partner would you be so forgiving? Is it just sexually you desire this person?

We're all human of course we have temptations but sometimes we have to ask ourselves are they really worth the consequences. Loneliness can get the best of you too, if you're in a long distant relationship so just find things to occupy your self and give good distance from the person you're wanting if thats the case.

Someone who will accept me for who I am, and at least try to understand me. Honest, faithful, & trying to make something out of life.

I know what you mean I just didn't think she was like that. She used to tell me she was so into church and my sis told her I was a good dude. Making like she was looking for something serious and real, then pulling this had me like wow. I guess when you really like some one you just want what they tell you to be true.

Wow right now I feel how females do after this situation. I was really liking this girl, and it turns out she liked me back. I was trying to take it slow, but long story short she seduced me lol. I was thinking ok a little bit rushed, but maybe it can still work. We were talking about dating and all, but she never had time for me, and would only text me from then on. Mostly when she wanted me to do a favor, which I did like a fool. She said the sex was great and wanted to be with me, but everynight she said she'd come over she never did and always had an excuse. Come to find out she had a dude who was cheating on her, & I was just a form of revenge. I haven't heard from her in a while now.

I never been in a situation like this before, and more disappointed I let my self fall into it, instead of seeing through the motives. I mean being used for money is one thing, but I feel like I was mentally screwed with this deal.

I want to know how you all feel about these type of situations and what you did after you found out...

Don't think I've really given up, just been rejected so much sometimes I feel why even bother. Its hard to tell when some one is being serious nowadays. Lately I've had a few flirtatious situations and opportunities I let pass by due to I think they might just be playing with my mind.

agree with both of you, thats why i basically gave up on the whole looking for love thing. now i'm just relaxing and trying to at least reach goals in my life, now pass that don perion!

i agree that age is like that, now I wouldn't date a female that younger than me, because she'd only be 5! but i've been developing a thing for older women lately, especially at my job lol.

i'd suggest a restraining order.

i usually tuck my tail and run for the hills.