Hey everyone i need a little help when in comes to dating. i.e what kinds of things talk about and even how to get one. It never used to be a problem for me but i have become rather shy after breaking up with my last girlfriend which i dated for 4 years please any helpful comments welcome.

Be yourself?

I'm trying

Yeah, just be you. If your nervous, your nervous, so what. Tell her your nervous. Tell her you didn't expect her to be so pretty, and your just overwhelmed a little, but you'll be fine
Once she looks comfortable, ask her how long she's been modeling.
Act surprized when she tells you that she delivers parts for Napa, and tell her you buy all your parts at Napa. They do have good parts by the way. Get the good stuff

great one that would probably work

Just dont ask if it hurt...

If what hurt ?

Some people think a good pick up line is "Excuse me but did that hurt?" the girl says "Did what hurt?" and he says "When you fell from heaven because you must be an angel."

Seriously, just be yourself, and be honest with her, and it will go smooth. Don't feel bad if your not a perfect match, rather, expect having to go thru a few mismatches before you find your princess

Best advice. I have been on this site for a few years now and have met some great people. Maybe nobody I would date but at least they are here if you ever need to talk. That is all I need right now. Good luck to you.

Ooh, that could be used in conjuction with the modeling comment, nice touch

Wow, king of cornyness...lol

has that line ever worked on anyone

Not me!

Here's another one. "Girl you must be tired" girl says why and guy goes "because you've been running through my mind all day!" Lol I've heard a 100 pick up lines to use on girls, but I never have tried them for fear of being laughed at.

I take it the girl has to be drunk to fall for them.

Please, please, please, do NOT try these lines. They don't work, will get you laughed at and will make a great story for the girl at the office on Monday.

Be yourself, be respectful, flirt, smile, laugh (even if at yourself) and you will succeed.

C

The lines are funny to a point but that is all... Actually makes me think my gawd could they not come up with something better then that???

Leave the pick up lines at home just be yourself....

So true. Just be yourself and you'll be fine.

One thing I don't like is when a guy talks the whole night about his ex. Been on two dates (separate guys) and that is all they talked about. Big turn off.

It's very easy. Ask questions of her that first you try on yourself. Try it, whether or not the questions would bore you or sound uninsteresting.

"What's your favorite color?" Don't do that or similar..no matter what other dating sites has that kind of an "auto flirt" option.

I mean....if I girl asks me for a started "what is your favorite color".. I'll be like..."blue....but I'm not liking you any better, because you asked that..neither sparked my interest".

That's just one example.

I would say, pick on something she talks about..(or if on the net, then whatever it's in her profile) and ask about it. It will show that you are actually listening, not just staring at her boobs or butt and also people talk about things that matter to them. If a girl keeps talking about her dog..guess what?

Ask about the damn dog..even if you don't feel like....like my style..

"What a great dog you have! When was the first time you ever owned a dog?"

And then of course she is gonna go on and on and on about dogs..but listen anyway and the first chance you get, change the subject..but pick a small thing out again from the conversation..sisters, brothers..etc.
Don't ask about ex husbands or ex girlfriends, it will usually invoke sad feelings and bad memories.