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Wed 06/04/08 04:04 PM
dinner dates aren't all too great in general. yes, you talk to her and get to know her, but there's a perspective you really don't seem to see. you don't do too much on these dates, and it doesn't allow for personality to shine through. you sit at a table, eat food, and talk. that's it. you can talk to them all you want, but you get such a limited look into who they are since all you do is sit and talk.

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Wed 06/04/08 02:46 PM
aww, great. i don't think anyone really sees where i'm going with this.

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Wed 06/04/08 02:44 PM
meant for each other? sounds to me like you let "fate" decide everything for you.

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Wed 06/04/08 02:42 PM


Ah forget that lady she must have issues. Not all women are like that ya know
see thats the funny thing about it, i always tell the women not to put me with all the typical males, cause i am not like that.... is this irony or what?


if you have to tell her that you aren't typical and you don't let your actions show it, you are typical.

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Wed 06/04/08 02:32 PM
what makes them any good?

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Tue 06/03/08 04:22 PM
I would say not to.

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Tue 06/03/08 04:20 PM
Stop thinking about love. It is an emotional experience, one that logic will never be able to define. The more you think about it, the more confused you will become.

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Tue 06/03/08 04:18 PM
You need to interact with women in a way that will allow you to develop into a relationship. I bet that you completely took on the friend role only to like her after you were set in it.

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Tue 06/03/08 04:16 PM
This isn't something that you would want to hear, but this is a part of life: the more you want it, the less you're gonna get it.

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Mon 06/02/08 08:56 AM



Do you think that most times when someone "falls in love" this easily they can fall out love just as easily? (going from one extreme to the other)


I tend to "fall in love" quickly. Next time around, I'm waiting at least for all 4 seasons living with someone before allowing my IQ to drop significantly and actually getting marrIed. laugh laugh laugh


Why would your IQ drop?

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Mon 06/02/08 08:56 AM
I run because it shows neediness. For whatever reason, they need a relationship to complete them. It's a big turnoff to me.

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Mon 05/26/08 05:44 PM
you're thinking about it too much. letting it get in your head won't do the situation any good at all.

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Sat 05/24/08 06:22 PM
no need to look into it. just look for someone else in the meantime. you'll know if he was telling the truth if he calls you up again.

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Sat 05/24/08 06:21 PM
i live my life for myself and myself only, so yeah i would.

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Sat 05/24/08 06:20 PM
you have a life to live whether or not you fall in love. you have a job that you want to pursue and probably a few hobbies. focus on them. the more you want and need love, the less you will get it because other than that, you're life doesn't have too much in it. just go out and live and feel great about yourself.

that's the first step.

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Sat 05/24/08 06:16 PM
there are plenty of kinds of relationships and there is a girl for every one of them.

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Thu 05/22/08 04:10 PM
The best thing is to get out of your head and just see where things go. Thinking about it too much will keep you from doing what you really want.

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Wed 05/21/08 12:03 PM
just out of curiosity, why do you choose to find people online instead of other places?

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Wed 05/21/08 12:01 PM
the answer is simple. the guys who they say that they don't want turn out to me the most attractive, and i'm talking about personality. they know how to have fun, they bring the energy level up, and people just want to be around them. unfortunately, some of them do have a dark side, and people get burned because of it.