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Topic: Coming on to Strong....
Uneeknrare Joined Mon 08/06/07 Posts: 682	Sun 06/01/08 04:22 PM
What do you think of a man (or woman) who comes on really strong right away? (says he has feelings for you right away, wants you to trust him, etc.) Do you assume they are just desperate for a relationship with ANYONE? That they are in love with the idea of love? Do you think they might not be well? Excluding any reasons having to do with sex what are your thoughts on this? Do you think that most times when someone "falls in love" this easily they can fall out love just as easily? (going from one extreme to the other)

ljcc1964 Joined Fri 10/19/07 Posts: 8298	Sun 06/01/08 04:24 PM
Yep. Its a fine line. The guy has to show interest....but to claim he's in love with you right away....well, it gives me pause.

SKPCG Joined Mon 03/03/08 Posts: 14708	Sun 06/01/08 04:24 PM
I'd think he was a controller.

No1sLove Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 10342	Sun 06/01/08 04:24 PM
<---paused too.

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Sun 06/01/08 04:25 PM
I'd think he was childish.

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Sun 06/01/08 04:25 PM
What do you think of a man (or woman) who comes on really strong right away? (says he has feelings for you right away, wants you to trust him, etc.) Do you assume they are just desperate for a relationship with ANYONE? That they are in love with the idea of love? Do you think they might not be well? Excluding any reasons having to do with sex what are your thoughts on this? Do you think that most times when someone "falls in love" this easily they can fall out love just as easily? (going from one extreme to the other) Stage 5 clinger.... Will fall in love with anyone... EEEEWWWW. Icky... Gross... Move on...

IndigoIllusions Joined Sun 05/25/08 Posts: 5625	Sun 06/01/08 04:25 PM
Be VERY CAREFUL.

Single_Rob Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 8233	Sun 06/01/08 04:26 PM
it depends on the person, and what you feel their motives are. Sometimes it is a redflag, sometimes it is ok. Go with your gut

Uneeknrare Joined Mon 08/06/07 Posts: 682	Sun 06/01/08 04:27 PM
lol... there is no man right now... I just was wondering what you all thought. I kinda get the ibby gibbies... and RUN!!!! lol....

Single_Rob Joined Mon 02/04/08 Posts: 8233	Sun 06/01/08 04:28 PM
lol... there is no man right now... I just was wondering what you all thought. I kinda get the ibby gibbies... and RUN!!!! lol.... so you wnat to get married and make some fat babies with me? I think I love you, let's get hitched

robert1652 Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 8447	Sun 06/01/08 04:30 PM
What do you think of a man (or woman) who comes on really strong right away? (says he has feelings for you right away, wants you to trust him, etc.) Do you assume they are just desperate for a relationship with ANYONE? That they are in love with the idea of love? Do you think they might not be well? Excluding any reasons having to do with sex what are your thoughts on this? Do you think that most times when someone "falls in love" this easily they can fall out love just as easily? (going from one extreme to the other) You are the woman go with intuition why thinking? what do you feel?

Derekkye Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 3427	Sun 06/01/08 04:31 PM
me love me love me love

Lily0923 Joined Sun 12/02/07 Posts: 20429	Sun 06/01/08 04:33 PM
me love me love me love Is that... me, love me love. Me? or Me love, me love me. or me love me. Love me? or Me love, Me? Love me!

robert1652 Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 8447	Sun 06/01/08 04:34 PM
lol... there is no man right now... I just was wondering what you all thought. I kinda get the ibby gibbies... and RUN!!!! lol.... Does one person on this site believes in love at first sight if so then your statement may be possible only time will tell + your intuition and your uptake of the circumstances when that happens for instance a man from Nigeria saying he loves you vs a man you spoke locally on net and on firsat date he says he loves you. I hope you see what I mean

robert1652 Joined Wed 11/14/07 Posts: 8447	Sun 06/01/08 04:36 PM
me love me love me love Is that... me, love me love. Me? or Me love, me love me. or me love me. Love me? or Me love, Me? Love me! Or even Me? Love! Me? Love!! Me? Love !!!

UnclePorky Joined Thu 11/15/07 Posts: 1107	Sun 06/01/08 04:38 PM
lol... there is no man right now... I just was wondering what you all thought. I kinda get the ibby gibbies... and RUN!!!! lol.... Did I scare you?

Citizen_Joe Joined Sat 04/12/08 Posts: 4036	Sun 06/01/08 11:20 PM
Do you think that most times when someone "falls in love" this easily they can fall out love just as easily? (going from one extreme to the other) I tend to "fall in love" quickly. Next time around, I'm waiting at least for all 4 seasons living with someone before allowing my IQ to drop significantly and actually getting marrIed.

jp4023 Joined Fri 11/17/06 Posts: 1392	Sun 06/01/08 11:55 PM
whats love got to do with it tina turner

midnightgreen20 Joined Thu 05/15/08 Posts: 19	Mon 06/02/08 08:56 AM
I run because it shows neediness. For whatever reason, they need a relationship to complete them. It's a big turnoff to me.

midnightgreen20 Joined Thu 05/15/08 Posts: 19	Mon 06/02/08 08:56 AM
Do you think that most times when someone "falls in love" this easily they can fall out love just as easily? (going from one extreme to the other) I tend to "fall in love" quickly. Next time around, I'm waiting at least for all 4 seasons living with someone before allowing my IQ to drop significantly and actually getting marrIed. Why would your IQ drop?