Consideration for your mate's Thoughts, Feelings & Needs. If BOTH parties put the person they love FIRST, then then how can the "Team" NOT WIN??? Two Become One

That's where I'm at right now...Divorced, then ment a gentleman that I believed we could fit well together. Wasn't HIS fault, Wasn't MY fault...

It made being honest with him soooo much easier because I was up-front with him from the start.

My Father has a saying, and I sincerely BELIEVE it: "You can LOVE someone instantly,...but it takes at least a year to really KNOW & LIKE them"

Was true in my case. Our worlds were just to different (Beliefs, emotional reactions, habits...etc.).

I'd much rather walk away while we both still respect and like each other. Thanks "Gary" for the wonderful memories.

But you ask of us ("That takes trust") what you are unwilling to give youself. What you really are asking for is "Blind Faith" and there's only ONE being that should get that without "Proof"

OMG! Not YOU too...lololol! Gotta Luv It!

Hello Hammer
Nice to see a fellow "Kansan" here.