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Topic: Q to all - failed relationship
gladiolus68 Joined Tue 05/06/08 Posts: 52	Sat 06/07/08 03:00 AM
Say, you’re in failed relationship. You know it doesn’t work and there is no future in it. Would you rather quit and be honest about it or go on with it before you’ll meet s’one else?

missy51970 Joined Fri 11/02/07 Posts: 12712	Sat 06/07/08 03:03 AM
I think id rather quit and be honest. Theres no point in dragging out the inevitable. If you know in your heart that there is nothing there, its time to move on for both your sakes..

transientmind Joined Sat 03/10/07 Posts: 4827	Sat 06/07/08 03:04 AM
Quit and be honest. Won't feel like it at first but it'll save hurt in the long run.

DebbieJT Joined Mon 11/26/07 Posts: 10329	Sat 06/07/08 03:04 AM Edited by DebbieJT on Sat 06/07/08 03:04 AM
quit and be honest

transientmind Joined Sat 03/10/07 Posts: 4827	Sat 06/07/08 03:04 AM
I think id rather quit and be honest. Theres no point in dragging out the inevitable. If you know in your heart that there is nothing there, its time to move on for both your sakes.. Yah, what she said.

brooke007 Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 5469	Sat 06/07/08 03:13 AM
whats with all the strange letters???? I dont have icons like that!!

May777 Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 1238	Sat 06/07/08 03:17 AM
move on for both your sakes,..

brooke007 Joined Sat 10/13/07 Posts: 5469	Sat 06/07/08 03:17 AM
Say, you’re in failed relationship. You know it doesn’t work and there is no future in it. Would you rather quit and be honest about it or go on with it before you’ll meet s’one else? i would quit... unless i reach that point where i dont want to lose again...i guess... acceptance maybe...idk nothing is right 100% of the time

May777 Joined Wed 04/16/08 Posts: 1238	Sat 06/07/08 03:18 AM
cause you need time in-between relationships to heal,..to be ready for another one

DREAMZ Joined Sat 05/31/08 Posts: 1775	Sat 06/07/08 03:22 AM
Say, you’re in failed relationship. You know it doesn’t work and there is no future in it. Would you rather quit and be honest about it or go on with it before you’ll meet s’one else? absolutely! why would you want to stay if there is no future? its not even the question of honsety. its more for your own self health. time is precious.....dont waste it!

boneyjoe Joined Sun 12/09/07 Posts: 6196	Sat 06/07/08 03:34 AM
maby not in th cards

livelife68 Joined Sun 12/30/07 Posts: 3696	Sat 06/07/08 03:36 AM
quit and move on be honest

KS_Whitetigress Joined Thu 04/24/08 Posts: 5	Sat 06/07/08 03:39 AM
That's where I'm at right now...Divorced, then ment a gentleman that I believed we could fit well together. Wasn't HIS fault, Wasn't MY fault... It made being honest with him soooo much easier because I was up-front with him from the start. My Father has a saying, and I sincerely BELIEVE it: "You can LOVE someone instantly,...but it takes at least a year to really KNOW & LIKE them" Was true in my case. Our worlds were just to different (Beliefs, emotional reactions, habits...etc.). I'd much rather walk away while we both still respect and like each other. Thanks "Gary" for the wonderful memories.

Cutiepieforyou Joined Wed 10/17/07 Posts: 43085	Sat 06/07/08 03:50 AM
Been there before...I was honest and told him it was over.

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Sat 06/07/08 04:07 AM
I quit!

CATBW56 Joined Tue 02/20/07 Posts: 7224	Sat 06/07/08 04:12 AM
Quit and move on.....why pursue something that isn't there or not working out.

Unknow Joined Sat 10/21/06 Posts: 3353	Sat 06/07/08 04:50 AM
Been there before...I was honest and told him it was over. yup yup...me too! Seems all I was seeing out of the relationship is him as a couch potatoe and 2 more uncontrollable kids every weekend ... Quit like a bad habit that it was.

trace78 Joined Fri 03/21/08 Posts: 284	Sat 06/07/08 05:04 AM
yea, i would quit and move on, if the guy doesnt let you go first, it would make it so feelings dont get hurt in the long run.

BonnyMiss Joined Thu 05/10/07 Posts: 15342	Sat 06/07/08 05:07 AM
Quit and make notes so you know the signs to look for in the future

shadowdog Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 12773	Sat 06/07/08 05:09 AM
i'll be honest and move on if the relatioship doesn't turns out good