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Fri 11/30/12 05:57 AM
Hey, looks good :) It would definitely catch my attention if I were in you area.

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Fri 11/30/12 05:51 AM

umm...some of the pictures are not really necessary. Keep your shirt on :)

I agree - shirt on :)

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Thu 11/29/12 06:34 AM


I'm new to dating. I've been the kind of guy, who wouldn't walk up to a girl and start talking. I'm shy and just looking for a girl that wants to have fun and would be fun to hangout with. I don't really know what to do to get a girl to notice me. Someone, please help..


Well if you are not some turkey that just marches up and thinks he can demand attention then you are smarter than most of your peers.

It doesn't matter that you are shy or if it makes you a little anxious to try to approach a female all you need to do is keep in mind is they are people too and if you treat them with respect and kindness you can develope friendships that may or may not move into relationships.

You are 22 years old so you need to MAN up and start thinking about what to do to get a Woman to notice you. That is probably going to require you have a better plan than to look for someone to hang out and have fun with.

Would suggest you get serious about a plan for your life, improve your job skills, and improve your financial situation. Women expect guys to be able to Date and that requires a budget for it. If you expect to have a private life you need to have a plan to live on your own. Other wise women are going to figure out fast you are just a over grown kid and even if they like you as a nice guy they are going to pass you up.

Yup, couldn't agree more

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Sat 11/24/12 01:27 AM

I completely agree with these lists. The only thing I can't grasp is, in my last few relationships none of the women every communicated with me at all. I think communication is important. I am willing to show unlimited love but if I do not know what my lady is thinking or feeling than it becomes a problem.

Neither does she, hence the list

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Sat 11/24/12 01:17 AM

i knew about 99% of these, really good points and props if you had the courage to write these all down yourself. I understand women pretty well(it freaks out the women i date >_<), but thats because im insane. No sane man will ever understand women lol XD

Read #60 again, you missed it

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Sat 11/24/12 12:55 AM

Thanks for the tips!
The reason why I asked for honesty is because girls will say that they like cheap dates all the time but when I do make it cheap, like a picnic or walk in the park, I don't get nearly the positive reaction as I usually do when I put down some money. From my experience, it seems that a cheap date tells girls I'm cheap, while monetary dates shows her I can provide the bacon, so to speak.
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Hmm, I guess you are right about that, especially if you are trying to really impress her. I think maybe it all depends on what she is looking for... Kind of hard to say for all women - we are all so different. Maybe try to figure out what she is looking for... I know I want to get married and have a family, so I can say a cheap date will make me think he isn't serious, just there to have fun. However, I will be impressed by a well thought through date, if he was creative. That makes me see he put in some extra effort. That will be hard to ignore!

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Tue 11/20/12 07:49 AM

Hmm... I thought for sure someone would say "endless supply of chocolate."

I think these are the times when we can buy our own chocolate :) it's too risky to wait for a guy to oblige.

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Tue 11/20/12 07:49 AM

Hmm... I thought for sure someone would say "endless supply of chocolate."

I think these are the times when we can buy our own chocolate :)

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Mon 11/19/12 11:20 AM
[True Christian man]
I second that! And a man with integrity. Wow, if I met someone like that as well as a good cook I'd beg him to marry me!

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Mon 11/19/12 11:18 AM
I second that! And a man with integrity. Wow, if I met someone like that as well as a good cook I'd beg him to marry me!

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Mon 11/19/12 11:13 AM
Beard?! Really?! I will run away from any cave man no matter how great he is!! Sorry, I guess in that we are all different. Goaty is ok though.

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Mon 11/19/12 11:00 AM
I would like to ask, need opinions... I know why I came onto this site and what I am looking for. If people send me messages or ask me to be friends and I don't want to, surely I don't have to. I really don't want to be rude, but I am serious about my faith and about what I am looking for and don't want to waste my time. Is it an acceptable behavior to not reply to the messages from non-christians? Not accept them as friends etc? But even christians sometimes send messages that tell me they will not be the one for me, so I don't reply...

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Mon 11/19/12 09:58 AM
If a soul mate means perfect, than the answer is obvious. I think we are all meant to be open to change, adaptable, etc. No such thing as a perfect fit.

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Mon 11/19/12 09:18 AM
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Mon 11/19/12 09:13 AM
Hi. You have a nice profile, light hearted and not boring.
Can I be honest about one thing?... Where you say you don't want children...- that would turn me right off. Maybe you should re think that. Obviously you don't want to lie, but that will eliminate a whole lot of women. So, unless you are absolutely set on it, change it.
Other than that looks good :)

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Mon 11/19/12 09:05 AM
Hi, I think you sound a bit pessimistic when you say you are looking for a woman who will be "at least open to an idea of a relationship". Maybe change that.
Also say more about yourself. What are good things about you? What your friends say are your good qualities? Advertise it! Don't be shy. You want women to pick you after all. I like profiles that make me feel like I almost know this person. It gives a warm feeling about him.

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Mon 11/19/12 08:57 AM
I'm not a photographer but I agree with her - get rid of the drunk looking friends. I like photos where a person is smiling. I tend to skip the serious and intimidating looking men, and always stop and look carefully at happy, smiling faces. Also you can have a photo where you are smartly dressed, just to show you can, that you are not just casual. Women love to dress up and go out with a smartly dressed man.

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Mon 11/19/12 08:47 AM
Hi, I think you have a nice profile except for the opening line of being a superman etc. I would know you cannot do what you said there so I think it's a bit of a wasted space. Maybe you can put something there that will convey a message that is realistic. However there might be women out there who will see it as romantic... Just doesn't appeal to me I guess. Otherwise you seem very sincere and real.

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Mon 11/19/12 08:25 AM
I know lots of christian women who are in late 20 and 30s. They are single, never been married, they serve God and are waiting for His will, not their own. So for now they are single. I also know some who are divorced, including myself. No fault of my own by the way. So there are lots of women out there. Just pray to meet the right one.