Topic: am I on the right track??
y_olga's photo
Mon 11/19/12 11:00 AM
I would like to ask, need opinions... I know why I came onto this site and what I am looking for. If people send me messages or ask me to be friends and I don't want to, surely I don't have to. I really don't want to be rude, but I am serious about my faith and about what I am looking for and don't want to waste my time. Is it an acceptable behavior to not reply to the messages from non-christians? Not accept them as friends etc? But even christians sometimes send messages that tell me they will not be the one for me, so I don't reply...

CowboyGH's photo
Mon 11/19/12 11:50 AM

I would like to ask, need opinions... I know why I came onto this site and what I am looking for. If people send me messages or ask me to be friends and I don't want to, surely I don't have to. I really don't want to be rude, but I am serious about my faith and about what I am looking for and don't want to waste my time. Is it an acceptable behavior to not reply to the messages from non-christians? Not accept them as friends etc? But even christians sometimes send messages that tell me they will not be the one for me, so I don't reply...



Wouldn't be rude or anything, just means you don't wish to speak to that person.

Muaness's photo
Mon 11/19/12 12:54 PM
Nothing is as good as knowing what need.
Truth is, you never came here to please anybody but yourself.
Your faith is still paramount.

Toodygirl5's photo
Tue 11/20/12 05:46 PM
I usually reply to all messages, but that is just me. I think it is polite to answer All mail unless is something Rude are out of the ordinary.

ShiningArmour's photo
Fri 11/23/12 11:33 AM

I would like to ask, need opinions... I know why I came onto this site and what I am looking for. If people send me messages or ask me to be friends and I don't want to, surely I don't have to. I really don't want to be rude, but I am serious about my faith and about what I am looking for and don't want to waste my time. Is it an acceptable behavior to not reply to the messages from non-christians? Not accept them as friends etc? But even christians sometimes send messages that tell me they will not be the one for me, so I don't reply...


it's really up to you.

If you only want to date to Christians that's fine. But know that your search for a mate will be that much harder because you wont date non-Christians.

KathyS1's photo
Fri 11/23/12 11:56 AM
Glad to know I am also on the right track by not responding to everyone who contacts me.

CowboyGH's photo
Sat 11/24/12 12:12 AM


I would like to ask, need opinions... I know why I came onto this site and what I am looking for. If people send me messages or ask me to be friends and I don't want to, surely I don't have to. I really don't want to be rude, but I am serious about my faith and about what I am looking for and don't want to waste my time. Is it an acceptable behavior to not reply to the messages from non-christians? Not accept them as friends etc? But even christians sometimes send messages that tell me they will not be the one for me, so I don't reply...


it's really up to you.

If you only want to date to Christians that's fine. But know that your search for a mate will be that much harder because you wont date non-Christians.


God doesn't straight up tell us not to marry or "be with" a non-believer, but he does warn us about it.

2 Corinthians 6:14
14 Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?