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Topic: LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP
Kensi's photo
Sun 08/15/21 06:36 AM
Is falling in love with person you haven't met in real life a normal thing? How many days is normal to consider that you really fall for someone? is it ok to marry someone online that you never meet in person yet?

Dodo_David's photo
Sun 08/15/21 07:31 AM
Until you meet a person face to face, you do not really know if you love that person.
What you have is infatuation, not love.
Until you meet a person face to face, you do not know if you and the person are compatible.
When online, people can pretend to be something other than what they really are.

no photo
Sun 08/15/21 09:45 AM
No.

31.6

Ummmm rofl no

Shella's photo
Sun 08/15/21 10:28 AM
It's all about when will the "first meet" happen. It's the excitement and thrill you feel that u thought was love. infatuated i guess but can hardly tell that it's love. We tend to say those 3 words and assumed that it's actually how we feel towards someone. But it's more than that. it's way deeper and unconditional.

Kensi's photo
Sun 08/15/21 06:42 PM
Until you meet a person face to face, you do not really know if you love that person.
What you have is infatuation, not love.
Until you meet a person face to face, you do not know if you and the person are compatible.
When online, people can pretend to be something other than what they really are.

I agree.. like we only see the real them if we live together already .even when dating or going out we only see the best of them..but when we start to be closer or live together we might discover they snore so loud,fart when laughing or eat with one foot up the chair ..lol

Kensi's photo
Sun 08/15/21 06:43 PM
It's all about when will the "first meet" happen. It's the excitement and thrill you feel that u thought was love. infatuated i guess but can hardly tell that it's love. We tend to say those 3 words and assumed that it's actually how we feel towards someone. But it's more than that. it's way deeper and unconditional.

ohh yeah..thanks for the insight :relaxed:

Kensi's photo
Sun 08/15/21 06:44 PM
No.

31.6

Ummmm :laughing: no

cheers .. agreed.. I was just reading a lot of stories ..real life stories .. lately haha

no photo
Sun 08/15/21 06:47 PM
Long distance is not love.

no photo
Sun 08/15/21 09:38 PM
no not ever bad idea life is not a movie meet that person in real life and talk to people that know him what he's really like

Kensi's photo
Mon 08/16/21 01:57 AM
no not ever bad idea life is not a movie meet that person in real life and talk to people that know him what he's really like

that's indeed what should be done

ian's photo
Mon 08/16/21 03:06 AM
no what who would do that

Kensi's photo
Mon 08/16/21 05:01 AM
no what who would do that

a lot of people had .. :rolling_eyes:🤣🤭

Slim gym 's photo
Mon 08/16/21 03:11 PM
I have met and chatted with a few women on dating sites !
started up by liking their profile , pictures included . Moved to messages and very lively conversations ... then moved to phone chats .... still lively and interesting ... then asked for a meet and greet ... mostly coffee meet ups .... On meeting reality kicks in ..... and within a few minutes you will know whether there is a genuine connection or not . Most times there is just no connection! for whatever reason ... i got lucky once , there was a great connection and lead to a second date ... and ended up in a two year relationship ...
all , i am saying is that there has to be a physical meet and greet , before any other decision is made!!!

no photo
Mon 08/16/21 03:40 PM
I don't know how anyone would consider marrying someone they never met in person.

Slim gym 's photo
Mon 08/16/21 03:57 PM

I don't know how anyone would consider marrying someone they never met in person.


Yep, it beats me too!!!

Luckily it takes all kinds to make up this world .... if everyone was the same , it would be boring as hell ...

Rock's photo
Mon 08/16/21 07:15 PM
I'm just gonna say Hell No.

Kensi's photo
Tue 08/17/21 04:37 AM
Long distance is not love.

maybe infatuation..:thinking:🤭

Kensi's photo
Tue 08/17/21 04:38 AM
I'm just gonna say Hell No.

yeah ..that's just crazy..I watched lot of issues arising from this impulsive decision

Kensi's photo
Tue 08/17/21 04:39 AM
I have met and chatted with a few women on dating sites !
started up by liking their profile , pictures included . Moved to messages and very lively conversations ... then moved to phone chats .... still lively and interesting ... then asked for a meet and greet ... mostly coffee meet ups .... On meeting reality kicks in ..... and within a few minutes you will know whether there is a genuine connection or not . Most times there is just no connection! for whatever reason ... i got lucky once , there was a great connection and lead to a second date ... and ended up in a two year relationship ...
all , i am saying is that there has to be a physical meet and greet , before any other decision is made!!!

yeah I agree.. had almost similar experience

Kensi's photo
Tue 08/17/21 04:40 AM
I don't know how anyone would consider marrying someone they never met in person.

it's a very common thing nowadays..I have read alot bout it in news and in groups .. well I dunno the end of the story ..lol what happened after they finally met

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