well i found out why she doesnt like me... I signed on my aim and got this message from her
"we need to talk asap....one of my friends took my computer and said **** and lied to me about u and thats y i didnt answer my cell to u...we need to clear **** up!"

I did like her, but I mean I didn't like her a lot until after then, and she didn't tell me she liked me until then. Before that we were just kinda friends, but after that she told me she really liked me. Thats where I'm confused/mad

So, the past month I've been hanging out and talking with this girl. She told me we were dating and were together, but not bf/gf which was fine by me. I didn't really like her until the third time we hung out which was last Thursday. I took her to the movies then we just did some stuff afterwards. The whole night we were just holding hands and kissing and other stuff only couples do and she told me she liked me and that we meant something. Last night we were talking and she told me that she doesn't like me as more than a friend and we weren't meant to be. I mean why would she lead me on like this?? I don't get why she tells me she likes me then less than a week later takes it back and tells me I'm just a friend. I feel really led on, and a little mad/upset but I guess its life.

Okay I met her friends before, but I was really quiet as it was our first time hanging out. I've told her the reason why I was quiet and she said her friends weren't helping the situation at all. Since then shes mentioned them a few times asking if I'm ready to talk to them and she also mentioned the other night how her one friend really wants to meet me. Would it be odd if the next time I ask her to hang out (i'm planning on asking her to get together tomorrow night) that I would say "I wouldn't mind if you wanted me to hang with your friends if you want". I think she'd like me to get to know them better based on what I felt coming from the other night plus it seems they're really close seeing as how one of her friends also just became her roommate..

Me and my girl saw role models (which was funny as hell) and we both loved it. We just held hands in the movies, and she was rubbing my arm at one point which I actually liked. After the movie I wanted to go eat somewhere (it was midnight not much else to do), but we ended up just chilling in the car. We just talked and made out and what not. On the way dropping her back she told me that she had a really good time with me, and we talked about kissing and she said when we kiss and hold hands it definitely means something. She also told me a text she sent me Wednesday night which said she's starting to like me more is true. I also texted her when I got home and said that I had a good time and for her to have a good night, and she said me too I had a good time with you tonight. I'm really happy right now, and I think the next time we get together I'm gonna ask her out.

I have every intention of paying, but she made the "I have my own money" comment.

Alright so the girl I'm seeing and I are going out for the first time thursday night to the movies (first two times we chilled was in her dorm). So I was joking around earlier that she was using me for the movie because she said she's excited for the movie and i said oh not me what are you using me for a ride and she said no i have my own money. I was planning on paying for her to show her that I do want to be more than just some guy shes dating.. should I offer even though she said this?

thank you

I'm actually from nearby your area and I'm not a player or user. Too bad I'm seeing someone already, or I'd be able to help you out. There are good people out there all my friends are nice guys, and most of them are single.

We're just going on dates together, nothing too serious yet. We're not in a relationship

I love playing gears of war 2

I'm dating someone, but I guess still technically "single" in terms of a relationship.

I actually told her to text me whenever she becomes free, so I did do what you suggested pretty much.

I totally think it's worth it. I really like her, and I love spending time with her. I want to make sure that we're good for each other before it gets more serious, and the only way to gauge that is by spending time together.
to the person above me: I hear you. I was the one who insisted on seeing her though. She was saying that she had the meeting, and didn't expect me to come late and then she was like you can come later how late would you come? I said I'd be willing to come up to 11 and that whatever time I can spend with her is fine by me.

I totally agree, and the only reason I'm doing it is because there is no other day. Wednesday shes busy with school work, Thursday night I have work and Fridays she goes home for the weekend. If there was another night I'd reschedule gladly, but there isn't.

I was supposed to see the girl I'm dating tomorrow around 8:30, but shes having a hall meeting at 7:30 and isn't sure when it'll be over. She asked what time was I willing to come until, so I told her I'd come up until 11 (I have to leave @ 12 it's their limit for guests at her university) and that even an hour or two together is better than nothing. Do you guys think it's stupid to make myself "too available" (aka willing to come whenever on the days i am available)?

I'm an honest, friendly, caring and funny guy. I'm trying my hardest to have a good future by attending school and working a part time job to pay my current expenses. I may not be the greatest out there, but I'd say I have a good head on my shoulders and I know what I want from life and I know how to treat a girl right.

How long do you think the average time should be before you commit to someone?? Like say how many dates or how long you've been friends.

We set up a date when we know whats going on. Shes extremely busy with school and this weekend is a no go because she'll be home for thanksgiving. Next week I'm gonna try and set up something hopefully.

Well shes very busy with school, so we hang out whenever possible. I'll try and set something up for next week sometime, cuz shes off for thanksgiving this weekend so she'll be at home. She definitely knows I like her, but I DONT want to rush into anything whatsoever. She also told me she doesn't like to rush things. I'd rather wait til we hang out again and make sure its what we both want, and yes I know she likes me id say its pretty obvious we're both into each other.