I am in osceola, right on the county line between southBend and Elkhart!!

Elkhart ,

too cute, I saw it on the news too!!

hey, I think I am a very nice real person, and so are you!! hang in there!!

The walls we build can protect us, or imprison us, It is up to us, there are reasons and seasons to protect ourselves, the trick is learning when to use the solitude to learn about ourselves and learn to love that person, then pull a brick out and let a soul or two in,
if they are not worthy of us, they will move on, and so will we.
Our walls can surround a secret garden full of love, promise and hope. Or the walls can seperate you from life, love and possibilities! It is all up to us! we have to be willing to open up and experience all the good and the bad, because if we hide so we dont get hurt, we are also hiding from the potential of finding that love. So remember,,, we have to decide how unhappy are we willing to be.!!

I am a former paramedic and a deputy coroner!! worked for many years in the ER, I have lots experience with it!
the tears, the sadness, the questions,,,, and there are no answers for anyone...
I am told my 2 older brothers died of SIDS before I was born.

eight days a week!!

I bought a car I found on craiglist, went well...

ok, I understand the whole choice thing for adults, but, I have thought of this before, where do these people think these treatments and cures etc.. come from,,, God has given the human race a way to take care of ourselves. God gave us the knowledge and ability to learn and help eachother, and those who dont see that, I feel sad for them!!

I am not new to the site but I am new to the forums, never really looked here before,
to be honest I have been rather discouraged does any one have any tips or suggestions, for a single 42 year old who is a BBW and not ashamed!!

better that, than living with the thought of knowing you ould have possibly prevented something parents have nightmares about!!!! Good Luck and your doing the right thing!

42 in june, but 27 in my heart!!

good info! that goes for you women too, I have run into a couple of guys that say things like maybe you can help me with a business deal cause I am going to be out of the office so much... usually after you have talked to them a while, then they want to know if you will Buy something for them etc,,,