Well, you've heard it from both sides now.

But you haven't heard this:

Maybe it's time for you to delete your profile and concentrate on the relationship at hand.

Why do you still need to be a member of a "DATING SITE"?

OK...I Understand, for the friends and advice. Maybe you could go into shadow mode and change your profile to read you have met someone and you are currently working on a relationship. You can have your cake and eat it too...Maybe.

Your current boyfriend will certainly have trust issues now. Do you care? If you do, let him in on this site. Allow him to see your account and your Emails. You are in a relationship and you will eventually be sharing everything else anyways. Maybe he won't leave you. Maybe the damage can be reversed.

Maybe this will help.

If you're not doing anything wrong, then don't worry about it.

If you are doing something wrong, let this be a wake up call! Become a good citizen.

If you did something wrong, they would already have surrounded your house with a SWAT Team. Look out the window...Anyone there? NO? Sounds like you are OK then.

Live your life right and you won't have any problems.

Thanks for the warm welcome everyone.

Jr, Mears, Sorenson, Hornish... All done for today

Looks like they'll get the race in. Live in Ca near the coast and it hasn't rained in hours.

WTF! What were you thinking?

The first red flag is that he's married. The second, he got you pregnant and ditched you in your hour of need.

You should have ditched him before you kissed him!

Then you went back to him and had another kid?!!!!

You are a glutton for punishment!

The guy is the lowest of lowest life forms on Earth. He gives good men a bad name.

The OP should be ashamed of her self for getting involved with a married man. Like I said, WTF were you thinking?

Haven't you ever heard of birth control? If not, E mail me and I'll be happy to explain it to you.

Enough with the bashing. You need help!

First, you need to think about the child's future. Get your life and feelings straight. Forget about that douche guy. He helped put you in this position. He should pay dearly for it. Go after him for child support. Get a lawyer if need be. He should pay for playing!

Go find a new man and make sure he is not married. Both you and that kid need someone to guide you through life, since it appears you couldn't do it alone.

Nice or bad, if you don't act you'll never be had!

You need to go after the things you want in life. If you want someone and you're not willing to work for it, you'll end up all alone...

Go make those first contacts...Don't be Scared!

A woman that enjoys the things I enjoy would be a nice match. It's not a requirement in my book. Some of us are just dreaming of our ideal mate.
So that's what we put in our profiles. We're looking for the best match to our current lives. Someone that we can share our dreams and aspirations with.

Men and women are wired differently and enjoy different things. A perfect match is one where the two involved can share and enjoy each other's interests. I'm always willing to learn and share new adventures.

When it's all said and done, the relationship will be one in which we both share most interests in life.

Of course there are things we will always do separately. You can't expect your mate to be into everything you are. Each needs their own space and time. That's what makes us individuals in a relationship.

The amount of money a person makes no difference to this man. I can't speak for others, but if they do care they are a bit shallow. Tell your friend to erase that thought from her mind. Don't let it interfere with her love life.

Money doen't make a relationship. I'd date a homeless bag lady if she was right for me.

Did you share a photo with him? Not many take a shadow seriously.

Oh, sorry, You're not a shadow, You're an Icon!

Greatings ALL! I'm a newby here at JSH. Like to say Hello to all.

I'm sure you will all get to like or dislike me as I intend to participate in the forums a bit.

If you have the time, check out my profile and rip me to shreads. HA HA! Let me know if it works or offends.

Once again, Hello to all!