kk well this is my story, i lived w a married man for three years.. like usual he was supposed to leave her, (he has three kids w her) i got pregnant had a baby tat passed away at 28 days. He left me when the baby was dying to go back w his wife. I thought he just couldnt handle having the baby die in my arms. so i forgave him and we tried again, i got pregnant and now have a two week old lil boy. Again he left and now its been a year he text and calls me every day to tell me how he only went back for his kids, and tat he still loves me, every time i try and move on he gives me the impression he wants to come back but never does. Should i wait for him... for the babys sake?

Run; run very fast and far.

OMG

nope... you will be doing your baby a favor by avoiding the whole "back and forth" thing for the "kids sake"
It never works hun... move on

even though i feel all kids need both parents, its sounds like to me he is just using both of you to satisfy his "needs". I mean after all he was married, and then he saw an oppurtunity to be young and free again. I really dont think its worth all the heartache and pain your causing yourself. Just my opinion

Run for he babies sake, he's a loser...and your into abusive relationships.

This guy sounds like a loser

Stay away from married men ...

Once a dog always a dog if he cheated on his wife to be with you He will cheat on you! i say move on girl!! You are beautiful you will find who you are supposed to find!

wow

people are suppose to learn from their mistakes ...

Before you run, though...


Get a good lawyer.
Get a paternity test.
Get child support.

You can make it on your own, if he's not interested in being a father, your baby WILL be okay. My son grew up without a mother, and we're doing okay. But do NOT let him dictate to you how you live your life. BOL, and move on!

hhmmm does his wife know he's only there for the kids?

I think u know the answer deep within ur heart.... when u feel ur ready u will do what is right for u and for ur son... Good luck...

just dont end up on one of those talk shows please

Move on

(((irad8))) good afternoon love

Get on with your life...without him...
but leave room for the father to have a right to see his child.
Sounds like the relationship has never been what it should of been.

Marriage isnt something I take too lightly- he obviousely did.
Now he has two women and four kids lifes he is messing with...

Please do not take offense to this, but 1st mistake was being with a married man, 2nd mistake was becoming pregnant by a married man, 3rd mistake was having a second baby by a marries man.......are you beginning to see a patern here? If not, you need to wake up! Just take care of your baby and you. Let him go. Dont respond to him, you will be better off in the long run without him! Good luck to you!

I think that you would be better off without him. All is he is doing is stringing you along. He was NEVER going to leave her. I'm sorry that he used you in the process.

Try to get over the HURT and move on with your life. I wish you luck, it will not be easy with a newborn