I think that statement came from me... And I am agreeing with what you are saying as well. I too am very unselfish and tend to get my pleasures from helping and doing things for others in need.
I just got out of a short lived relationship.... I put him before me and I allowed him to bring me down to his level. I on the other hand was simply trying to change him... to help him with the issues he was dealing with. I do believe that the lack of love I had for myself allowed him to bring me right down into his lil world.

Hello too all the lonely V babes out there.... Just think it's just another day!! I have gotten used to being alone on the most "LOVING" day of the year.... heck I got used to it five years ago!! I am here if anyone wants to chat!!

Hello too all the lonely V babes out there.... Just think it's just another day!! I have gotten used to being alone on the most "LOVING" day of the year.... heck I got used to it five years ago!! I am here if anyone wants to chat!!

I would suggest building a friendship with her first. I have been through a lot myself and honestly, I am finally learning to love ME!! How can you love someone else if you don't even love yourself. It has been a hard and very lonely road for me. Being alone for the past five years has taught me that I love who I am and I CAN'T CHANGE ANYONE!!