Texas Rocks!

And if you're into music and film...Austin.

But, actually, Houston and Dallas both have their own scenes, too. And there are active film commissions in all three cities.

You're welcome.

I cannot say that I "understand" because we all have unique experiences. I will say that I have dealt with a similar situation and speak from experience.

I might have more suggestions for you if it weren't so late.

I'm sorry for your pain, truly.

Be supportive and helpful and kind.

Look into support groups for patients and their families that are facing cancer and/or termainal illness.

Look into support for caregivers, perhaps through the hospital or your community. Caring for a loved one in this situation can be extremely stressful, draining, emotional...and there are people who provide relief and support for the caregivers.

Turn to your church or religious group, if you have one. They should have resources or be able to put you in touch with other help.

So, because this young man doesn't want to go far or "all the way", then he must be gay or bisexual? If he were climbing all over her, that would make him what? A man?
What kind of logic is that? Maybe he has some morals or values, which seem to be dying off these days. Or he has some sense and wants to be responsible, which also seems to be in short supply these days.

I told the OP to give him a chance in an earlier post, but maybe you should get rid of him. Let him find someone that will appreciate his consideration, manners, morals, whatever is driving him. Ask him if he likes older women.

(And Merlin, sorry to pick on you so soon, but hopefully you'll forgive me.)

Wow...I think he must trust you and feel comfortable with you, since he's done more with you. Don't take advantage of that, treasure it.

And he hasn't found a flaw in you? Well, that might seem a little naive...but treasure that, as well. I've met plenty of guys that are more than willing to point out everything they think is wrong with me...including my ex.

I think he sounds like a keeper. Why are you scared or concerned? I understand the confusion with mixed signals, but I think most of us are guilty of sending those out. You might want to give him some time and a chance. What have you got to lose?

Since you posted in Texas, I assume you're looking for women in San Antonio or perhaps Texas in general? I'm in Houston and there seems to be plenty of communication with people in this area. I haven't done much posting, but I've observed a lot and since you asked, I'm offering a few suggestions...

Have you contacted any women your age? If so, what kind of contact? I've noticed many women on this site will not respond to IM, especially if that is your initial contact. Do you "Just Say Hi"? Or do you give them something to talk about in their reply?

Post a picture. Unless you have an extremely good reason for not posting it (employment concerns, for instance), put up a picture. Women want to see you.

Write something in your profile, besides that you are looking for conversation...What do you do? What are your likes/dislikes? Where are you from? If you contact me, but there is nothing or very little on your profile, I'm going to be hesitant. I'm also going to bored. So, write something.

As suggested by other replies, post in the forums, if you're comfortable. And you're free to disregard all of the above, I'm just nosy and I like to offer advice.

Good luck to you! This really is a good site and there are some great women on here (of course, the best are in Texas, but there are a few in other states)!

Spring, just north of Houston. A native Texan...I've lived in several places.

Oh, yeah...a Glock.

Why don't you get one?

Jews are considered a race. I believe that both the bloodline and the religion are passed from the mother.

Concerning the religion, my former mother-in-law converted to Judaism. Once she converted, my ex and his sister were considered Jewish (religion, not race). So when my former sister-in-law married a Jewish man (race and religion), she did not have to "convert" in order to marry him, she was Jewish in the eyes of the religion.

Oooh, Glock, one of my favorites. But I'm better with a Springfield X9.

but I just heard a couple of days ago that they are releasing a new album...true?

I heard the same thing, but can't remember where.

Because the idiots that vote for the idiots keep voting.

So, we have a gun problem? Next thing, you'll be saying "Guns kill people".

I like your idea Single_Rob...mandatory that head of households be armed 24/7, but what about the little wifey? She should be armed, too.

Yes.

My former father-in-law is German, but he speaks fluent English. Almost the entire family spoke German, with different levels of fluency. I wanted to learn German, but didn't make much of an effort. I learned a few things along the way, but I couldn't carry on a conversation. It would have made family gatherings more enjoyable for me (and them) because I wouldn't have needed all of that pesky translating.

Yes, and people often confuse the "rights" versus the "freedoms"...we are granted freedoms by the government, but we are granted rights by our Creator.

Everyone is born with certain rights, not everyone shares the same freedoms.

Are you kidding?? You do realize that government tyranny still exists, right? Even if you argue that it does not exist here (ha!), it is still a valid concern. This is not merely symbolic, it is a guaranteed right of the American citizen.

And it is the backbone of the entire Constitution. If they take away the guns, then they can take away all of your freedoms and rights, because you will have no way to protest or protect yourself.

Amen to your "refresher course"!! Definitely things to keep in mind for the upcoming elections, especially #12.