Topic: Well, hello there . . .
CharMichael's photo
Mon 08/04/08 12:31 AM
How do I attract and start a conversation with peer-aged Female(s) here on this Website, as for myself-- a 33-year-old, heterosexual Single Male without children???

I do not know what to say to in starting a conversation-- I'm new to chatting on-line and thus far, I experience only that no Peer-aged Person(s); whether female peer(s) or male peer(s), desire emailing and/or on-line chatting with me.

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Mon 08/04/08 12:34 AM

How do I attract and start a conversation with peer-aged Female(s) here on this Website, as for myself-- a 33-year-old, heterosexual Single Male without children???

I do not know what to say to in starting a conversation-- I'm new to chatting on-line and thus far, I experience only that no Peer-aged Person(s); whether female peer(s) or male peer(s), desire emailing and/or on-line chatting with me.


That is the most politically correct post I have ever seen

celicagt2005's photo
Mon 08/04/08 12:53 AM
trust me dude i have the same prob. I mean i think im attractive but i cant seem to have a real conversation with anyone here. i have sent so many girls messages and no response.

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Mon 08/04/08 02:26 AM
that's cuz ya'll are new--ya'll need to be involve in the forums more often so the people gets to know ya--

awolf1010's photo
Mon 08/04/08 03:10 AM
post more!!!!

awolf1010's photo
Mon 08/04/08 03:10 AM
Edited by awolf1010 on Mon 08/04/08 03:12 AM
if that doesnt work......
drink beer and throw the empties at them!!!drinker

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Mon 08/04/08 11:13 AM
Since you posted in Texas, I assume you're looking for women in San Antonio or perhaps Texas in general? I'm in Houston and there seems to be plenty of communication with people in this area. I haven't done much posting, but I've observed a lot and since you asked, I'm offering a few suggestions...

Have you contacted any women your age? If so, what kind of contact? I've noticed many women on this site will not respond to IM, especially if that is your initial contact. Do you "Just Say Hi"? Or do you give them something to talk about in their reply?

Post a picture. Unless you have an extremely good reason for not posting it (employment concerns, for instance), put up a picture. Women want to see you.

Write something in your profile, besides that you are looking for conversation...What do you do? What are your likes/dislikes? Where are you from? If you contact me, but there is nothing or very little on your profile, I'm going to be hesitant. I'm also going to bored. So, write something.

As suggested by other replies, post in the forums, if you're comfortable. And you're free to disregard all of the above, I'm just nosy and I like to offer advice. :smile:

Good luck to you! This really is a good site and there are some great women on here (of course, the best are in Texas, but there are a few in other states)!