hmm..depends on the person I'm with I suppose....if it's a guy I don't respect then why not..but if it's a guy I respect and want that to be returned my way..absolutely not....if I'd like to see the guy again that topic is out of the question...

,morning..having my first cup of coffee.....nice to meet you all ...

Always nice to meet readers..so hello to everyone. Right now I have 3 books on the go because for some reason I seem to do that..I lose interest in one so i read another..later on,I go back to the first one..etc. I have Shattered Innocence half read...the story about Jaycee Duggard..and a book called Ayorama started that I'm enjoying a lot...story about a priest who came in the '30's and helped make the Eskimo region in the north a bit civilized with his catholic teachings...

I'm kinda a movie nut but as I grown older I'm finding that I've seen a movie relating to almost every topic out there.Seems they just keep reinventing the ones I saw as a girl. Mirror Mirror is the last one I watched and I loved the imagination and creativity of the folks who put it together....that's the reason I watch movies like that...loved Avatar....it's brilliant !

really well written...I enjoy reading poetry ...this came from the heart that's for sure....

very interesting thread...so many views....
I do have a question for the guys...how do you want your loving partner to react if by chance( GOD forbid)you get prostate cancer and have to do treatment that leaves you unable to make your partner happy?That happens more often than you might think but it would put the shoe on the other foot don't you agree? Is she supposed to do without sex until one of you dies or would it be fine to have her simply get it elsewhere? I believe ( as one already mentioned here)that men are encouraged to go to another bed..by fathers,brothers,friends,and grandads.However,women are never told by anyone to do that under any circumstance....but the world is changing... :)

I don't think I fit that obtuse category....and I think I understand what you're trying to say..you men are much more in need of physical contact than we women are.Well,we women are in much more need to have a psychological connection...we need the comfort,the closeness etc.Soo,from this I understand neither of us has a right to mistreat the other because we have differences,it just makes us d-i-f-f-e-r-e-n-t..........

Have enjoyed this part of the site...gives me hope that I actually might meet a live person....by the way things look from the photos you're all a happy bunch....look forward to getting acquainted...

.....personally have no problems chatting...I think I have a problem shutting up......

Love reading the views from those who responded.. my view,as I was simply trying to point out,is that we all have a choice to make when it comes to cheating.Women have the same sexual drives as men unless there is a problem to cause her or him not to want that.There really is no difference .....

I love your hobbies and you made me laugh so that's a good thing.One of my hobbies is posting in dating sites...but in this site I think I will have to go all the way across country to get a date...I'll just keep posting..good night..

oh but I'm reading so many insightful things in the forums...I wasn't aware that men have a green GO when it comes to allowing infidelity ...I don't think men are any more programmed to cheat than a woman.I think men just go ahead with that green light shining in their head...makes it seem more sensible and a great excuse for getting a bit on the side.Let me say this..I was alone for weeks at a time because my husbands work made it that way.I wanted to cheat...a LOT...guess what? I didn't.....no more needs to be said.

shoot...i hope that's not me in a few months...

NUTS...sounds like the forecast we get and seems to be all of the world gets the same weather...

hey to all future friends ..it's raining here and I have guys working to add insulation to my home so I'll be reading many past posts....nothing to do but stay in here so if you see me adding my opinions to what you're already tired of,accept my apologies...this is all new to me..

I had no idea I'd be posting so often here but the topics keep drawing me in and I've only been here a few days.My opinion only but I feel that we sometimes look for the wrong thing when it comes to love..it's not about someone loving you....no way to tell if they actually feel that or are pretending...the real truth lies in you being able to love another person....you must be able to give that love freely without expectations....so,maybe we should spend time learning to love somebody else and a lot less time trying to find somebody to love us.Just remember the wise words once said"learn to love yourself and then you will be able to love another."

I think I'll add my 2 cents here.....I do believe there is a thing we call true LOVE....it's been the binding that has held society together for hundreds of years.I myself have been lucky enuf to have found such during my lifetime.However,I feel the young folks ,and some older folks,are getting LOVE and LUST confused.There are many men I've lusted for but there was only one I truly learned to love.IMO you are never fully grown until you can experience both and really know the difference...bytheway,I consider myself quite grown.

Well,I'm not sure what "porns" is but I am familiar with his whistling.There are some here who probably don't know who the guy is or how much he influenced our young lives(we folks of a certain age)....I always wanted Aunt Bea to be a part of my life....this man will be missed and he was a great actor...

I'm not seeking anything really...I just like to have a place to chat and fill in a few lonely hours....we all need friends..

hmm...my nick..warm..very warm and kindhearted person..and..natural..as natural and ordinary as any woman ..no dyed hair,no false pics...just a woman..nothing GREAT..just a mature woman.... warmnnaturl...hope this helps..