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why the hate?
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Well welcome to the real world where generally profiles are skimmed and once the little head starts thinking for the big head reading and comprehension really starts to faulter. I will say that if I had a nickle for every time someone took a rejection badly then I would own the very expensive yacht some of the dingbats that have written me think I own. Think of it as a right of passage. only a yacht? no car, no jet, no sports team or houses? lol although car is the international word for anal i really should clean up my act hahaha |
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why the hate?
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i know i'll get some male responses but it's after i explain that i'm only looking for women like it says on my profile they blow-up lol
Then get yourself some popcorn and enjoy the fireworks. LOL |
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why the hate?
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Looking at your profile, and how you present yourself, it hardly surprises me that the people a profile like that would attract to respond are going to get nasty when you reject them. I doubt that much is "lost in translation" but maybe it is harmless vamping and you might want to clean up your act if you want more consideration and respect of your absolute right to make choices. Part of being a mature woman, and having the support of being treated like a lady, is acting like a lady across the board. If you make yourself sound like you are willing to be anybodies girl you can't really complain when someone is offended that they don't get to be anybody. It is false advertiseing and a cost of your own behavior. Think you kind of shot yourself in the foot complaining but maybe that got some more traffic your direction. Hopefully you don't get more than you bargain for. A hateful email for rejecting you is the least of your worries if you are promoteing yourself this way. another thing i'd like to say is, who are you to tell me to "clean up my act"? something else, i "make myself sound like i'm willing to be anybodys girl" and that it's "false advertising" on my profile it says i'm looking for women, so i'm not saying i'm not saying i'm open to everyone True. I stand corrected that you are advertiseing that you are looking only for women. Good luck on that one in open forums to both men and women. I am saying be safe and use common sense. If you want and sexual encounter with women go for it but I strongly advise that you be selective about which women and they have something more to offer you than satifying your need for fun and feeling horney. Or you are going to get a lot of people you do not want and thus have a lot of rejected resentful people. Female or otherwise. Granted if you say women only it is stupid if you are getting male responses but any woman with an ounce of common sense knows that rarely deters some men who are trolling for XXXX activity. i know i'll get some male responses but it's after i explain that i'm only looking for women like it says on my profile they blow-up lol |
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Topic:
why the hate?
Edited by
xXkatyXx
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Sun 06/24/12 05:50 PM
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I took the "xX-Xx" to be kisses because she is blowing kisses in her picture. well they are the same as my username so easily confusing Suggestive user names are setting yourself up for a certain kind of attention and XXXX is the universal sign for adult content and to expect no holds barred adult behavior. actually xxx is the adult content sign, maybe xxxx is for something hardcore i don't know but you seem to know alot about it. i explained what the xX Xx in my username means or at least what i intend it to mean and it don't follow your messed up ideas |
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why the hate?
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So, what do "xX-Xx" mean? you know the movie xXx? well i thought i'd use the way the x's are but i added a extra big X to balance it :) |
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why the hate?
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Looking at your profile, and how you present yourself, it hardly surprises me that the people a profile like that would attract to respond are going to get nasty when you reject them. I doubt that much is "lost in translation" but maybe it is harmless vamping and you might want to clean up your act if you want more consideration and respect of your absolute right to make choices. Part of being a mature woman, and having the support of being treated like a lady, is acting like a lady across the board. If you make yourself sound like you are willing to be anybodies girl you can't really complain when someone is offended that they don't get to be anybody. It is false advertiseing and a cost of your own behavior. Think you kind of shot yourself in the foot complaining but maybe that got some more traffic your direction. Hopefully you don't get more than you bargain for. A hateful email for rejecting you is the least of your worries if you are promoteing yourself this way. another thing i'd like to say is, who are you to tell me to "clean up my act"? something else, i "make myself sound like i'm willing to be anybodys girl" and that it's "false advertising" on my profile it says i'm looking for women, so i'm not saying i'm not saying i'm open to everyone |
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why the hate?
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I took the "xX-Xx" to be kisses because she is blowing kisses in her picture. well they are the same as my username so easily confusing |
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why the hate?
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I think PacificStar means that you don't have anything written in your profile but when people ask, you tell them you are not interested.....maybe you can write something about the kind of partner you are looking for.. No actually I think she is asking for what kind of partner she is looking for; xXXx and now she is whineing because she got it. whining? how exactly? |
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why the hate?
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Well, what would you expect from a bloody Shasannach? i didn't know you hated the english hahaha |
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why the hate?
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Looking at your profile, and how you present yourself, it hardly surprises me that the people a profile like that would attract to respond are going to get nasty when you reject them. I doubt that much is "lost in translation" but maybe it is harmless vamping and you might want to clean up your act if you want more consideration and respect of your absolute right to make choices. Part of being a mature woman, and having the support of being treated like a lady, is acting like a lady across the board. If you make yourself sound like you are willing to be anybodies girl you can't really complain when someone is offended that they don't get to be anybody. It is false advertiseing and a cost of your own behavior. Think you kind of shot yourself in the foot complaining but maybe that got some more traffic your direction. Hopefully you don't get more than you bargain for. A hateful email for rejecting you is the least of your worries if you are promoteing yourself this way. sorry but i don't see what you think i have done wrong, perhaps you could explain |
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why the hate?
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when i tell people men and women i'm not interested in chatting to them or just not interested in them i get messages that say "oh ok good luck katy", but i sometimes get attacked for it, the people are 9/10 times english so i don't know if its normal or what? (i haven't met an english person before joining this site by the way) i don't mean ithis to be provoketive i'm just curious
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friend requests
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thanks for the replies
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england penalties
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england lost again on penalties taking their tournament record in penalty shootouts to 1-7, what can they do to be better at them?
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friend requests
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They are not asking to be best friends. People add friends or accept friend requests and sometimes you dont even chat with them. Take it as a compliment, even if you decline the request. sorry best friends wasn't the word i was looking for, i mean being very friendly like always wanting to chat |
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friend requests
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Maybe they saw something in your profile and want to be friends? but i don't know who they are, you wouldn't just walk up to someone and be best friends with them would you |
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friend requests
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why do people send friend requests to you if they have never contacted you before? it's stupid
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