It happens when i start talking to someone. When i answer a question about myself. The next response is usually

"Your not good enough for me"

"I'm to good for you"

"You can't give me what I want"

Sorry Ladies if this offends you.

I am just tiered of the rude and careless comments that I have been getting in my inbox

I am so tiered of the fake women on these sites that it puts the real women to shame. At least the real women are trying to make something of there lives. I am a guy and i know how hard it is for guys to trust any woman without real first. This post is nothing against the real women and you know who you are. So please don't take this the wrong way. I know you may be having the same problems with the men on these sites but there those of us that are real about what we are looking for. This post is nothing against the real men on these sites so please don't take this the wrong way.

Thank you for checking this out.

I am so tiered of the fake women and the ones that just want to play games.

If you have known each other for a while you may think that your partner has a pretty good idea of what you are thinking and what you need. However your partner is not a mind-reader. While your partner may have some idea, it is much healthier to express your needs directly to avoid any confusion. Your partner may sense something, but it might not be what you need. What’s more, people change, and what you needed and wanted five years ago, for example, may be very different now. Getting in the habit of expressing your needs helps you make it through difficult times, which otherwise may lead misunderstanding and anger.

It takes two for things to happen for better or for worse but we all have to start somewhere even if it is just a hi how are you. Ladies you should give the guys a little respect for contacting you at least. Guys this goes for you to the ladies on here deserve just as much. I guess all i am saying is RESPECT goes a long ways.

We often find it hard to trust because we've been hurt in the past. People coming out of romantic relationships are especially scared of opening their hearts again. But at the end of the day, you will never know whether someone’s going to hurt you or not. There are no guarantees in life. You can try to protect yourself but unless you make it a full time job, you’re more likely to drive yourself crazy.

I sure hope i have a future wife but you can only live your life one day at a time,because you sure don't know if your going to make it to the next day. So enjoy each and every day and be thankful what you have. Leave the past in the past you can't go back and you sure can't change it. Don't let it keep you from a happy future by basing your life around the bad things that may have happened.

A strong, healthy relationship can be one of the best supports in your life. Good relationships improve all aspects of your life, strengthening your health, your mind, and your connections with others. However, if the relationship isn't working, it can also be a tremendous drain. Relationships are an investment. The more you put in, the more you can get back.

A good relationship is based on communication it all has to start somewhere. If you have heard the saying don't judge a book by it's cover. The same goes for a men and a women it is not right to judge anyone by there ethnicity,whether they have kids or not,or even disabilities. No one is perfect and no one knows everything about anything you learn something new everyday.