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Sun 06/10/12 12:03 PM

You know where they are.
In Powell's of course :-)


Buhahahaha!!! I kno rite!! lmao!

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Sun 06/10/12 10:45 AM
Where are all the local singles at? I would love to chat with you.....

Amie :)

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Sun 06/10/12 10:40 AM


So how do you meet people when your single? I have never really been single before and this is sorta new territory for me. What is the most successful way to meet people when you are looking for a LTR?


1) Step away from the keyboard.
2) Open front door and step outside.
3) Lock door and go on a walk.
4) Did you forget your keys? If yes, deal with that later.

We meet people by being out in public places.

Buhahahah....I do that silly. I am just asking for pointers for when I am out and about. Like where ae good spots to go, what are good approaches as a woman, etc.

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Sat 06/09/12 09:17 AM


Are you just joking here? You are a woman--in Oregon (Portland?)
and you want to meet another woman!?!? Just go to a gay bar--it will take you 5 minutes!And forget that "Oh,I'm SO tall!" stuff!


I go to gay bars all the time, no luck yet, I am not worried about it, I just wanted some pointers so I can make sure I am doing things the right way

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Sat 06/09/12 08:57 AM
I think its ok, but it would be better if it showed some of your personality a bit.....but its ok... :)

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Sat 06/09/12 08:54 AM

Here's how I meet people;

I walk up to them, I tap her on the arm, when she turns I smile and say "Hi, I'm Ray. What's your name?" Then I shake her hand and start a conversation.

Easy!


lol, your funny!!

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Fri 06/08/12 07:58 PM
hiya :)

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Fri 06/08/12 07:33 PM


I'd maybe leave out the "b!tches" part, maybe use a better word.


I had the same thought.

There's that and you could change your orientation to looking for a man, I would like your profile more then.


I took the B*tches out, its just how I talk to my girlz, it wasnt derrogatory, but its out now. And wht can I say about my orientation, I am bi....I think men are attractive but women, sigh...they are delicious....tee hee.

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Fri 06/08/12 07:29 PM
I know I know I am pretty forward, haha.....but what can I say? tee hee. I am just wondering where the ladies who like ladies are at, thats all? :)

I cant wait to hear from ya.....

Fem women please step to the front of the line... :)

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Fri 06/08/12 07:17 PM
BUHAHAHAHAHA!!!! Seriously rite? LMAO!!!

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Fri 06/08/12 07:16 PM

Hello; Welcome to the site. Wishing you the very best of luck indeed in your search. drinker waving :angel: :thumbsup:


awwww thank you.....back at ya!!! yaay

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Fri 06/08/12 07:05 PM

Less is sometimes more. Try shortening it to a paragraph or so, see if that helps. Add more pics. The ones you have up are great, they show your personality.

I'd maybe leave out the "b!tches" part, maybe use a better word.

I find that word offensive and degrading, even in a playful context I don't think it's appropriate to use towards woman. I'm sure others feel the same way. That's more of a personal feeling though, nothing against you or anything. I just thought it may help to mention.

Oh, and don't forget to offer free cookies for every response. :)

you are funny. lol. I am SOOOOO gonna put that on there, haha.

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Fri 06/08/12 07:04 PM
thank you :)

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Fri 06/08/12 07:03 PM
yeah single parenting is tough, its not impossible but its brutal at times. I have the most amazing kids ever and they are really well behaved, have really warm hearts an give me pretty much no problems and its still tough.

But its worth it....our kids need us :)

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Fri 06/08/12 07:00 PM
hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii

:smile:

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Fri 06/08/12 06:57 PM
Hiya everyone!

So I was wondering what I could do to make my profile better where I can get people to not only look at it (That would be a good start, tee hee) but hopefully they would respond too :)

Any advice?

Amie

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Fri 06/08/12 06:51 PM




Do you attend church? If so, perhaps there's singles there you can talk to.

What is your body language like? How do you dress? Do you have a warm and open image, or is it intimidating? Are you conveying the message you want to get across with your image and body language?


I sometimes go to church, but I find it difficult finding other women who want to date women at church, I mean, I am sure they are there, but I am not going to seek them out as openly as I would elsewhere. My body language is fun, open, warm, I am a fun person to be around, at least that is what I am told and I think its true. I dress pretty much like my pics on my profile, I tend to dress cute, but I am so tall, haha, that is probably why people are intimidated....me giant you little person, tee hee.

either way, I am excited to have found this site, hopefully something good comes from it... :)

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Fri 06/08/12 06:35 PM
coolies, I am excited to meet peeps in here yaaay!

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Fri 06/08/12 06:34 PM


I love to dance, play guitar, go to concerts, clubs, parks, museums, I mean the list goes on and on and on.....


Well, there you go. Go to concerts, coffee shops, clubs, parks, museums, etc. Is there singles groups in your area? Volunteer work you can do? You're very attractive, and seem to be active. I don't think you'll have trouble finding someone. Finding someone suitable, that may take a bit of weeding out the incompatible ones.


Trust me, I go to all those places and I am like soooo freaking nice yet I think I intimidate people, because even when I talk to them, I cant get a response most of the time.....

Eh, I will figure this, or I will get mono trying....lmao

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Fri 06/08/12 06:20 PM


So how do you meet people when your single? I have never really been single before and this is sorta new territory for me. What is the most successful way to meet people when you are looking for a LTR?


I don't know how to answer that one, if I knew I sure would not still be on this site. Just wish each other the best and hit on as many you find attractive in the search field and see what responses you get. I have had luck with that search and "match me" feature. You might have to kiss a few frogs to get to the Prince though! LOL I wish you well pretty lady.


Thank you, I think I will take your advice and start kissing all the frogs lol. Hopefully I dont get mono, tee hee