So how do you meet people when your single? I have never really been single before and this is sorta new territory for me. What is the most successful way to meet people when you are looking for a LTR?

Well, what are some things you like to do for fun?

I don't know how to answer that one, if I knew I sure would not still be on this site. Just wish each other the best and hit on as many you find attractive in the search field and see what responses you get. I have had luck with that search and "match me" feature. You might have to kiss a few frogs to get to the Prince though! LOL I wish you well pretty lady.

That's why I'm a cat, and just found the most amazing woman that happens to love cats to take me in. :)

You are too funny! LOL

It's the glasses. I mean how is not funny to see a cat with glasses? :P

I love to dance, play guitar, go to concerts, clubs, parks, museums, I mean the list goes on and on and on.....

Thank you, I think I will take your advice and start kissing all the frogs lol. Hopefully I dont get mono, tee hee

Well, there you go. Go to concerts, coffee shops, clubs, parks, museums, etc. Is there singles groups in your area? Volunteer work you can do? You're very attractive, and seem to be active. I don't think you'll have trouble finding someone. Finding someone suitable, that may take a bit of weeding out the incompatible ones.

Trust me, I go to all those places and I am like soooo freaking nice yet I think I intimidate people, because even when I talk to them, I cant get a response most of the time.....

Eh, I will figure this, or I will get mono trying....lmao

Do you attend church? If so, perhaps there's singles there you can talk to.

What is your body language like? How do you dress? Do you have a warm and open image, or is it intimidating? Are you conveying the message you want to get across with your image and body language?

Do you attend church? If so, perhaps there's singles there you can talk to.

What is your body language like? How do you dress? Do you have a warm and open image, or is it intimidating? Are you conveying the message you want to get across with your image and body language?


I sometimes go to church, but I find it difficult finding other women who want to date women at church, I mean, I am sure they are there, but I am not going to seek them out as openly as I would elsewhere. My body language is fun, open, warm, I am a fun person to be around, at least that is what I am told and I think its true. I dress pretty much like my pics on my profile, I tend to dress cute, but I am so tall, haha, that is probably why people are intimidated....me giant you little person, tee hee.

either way, I am excited to have found this site, hopefully something good comes from it... :)

Oh I missed that part. Even though it's becoming more and more common. I think it's still difficult for those seeking same sex relationships to do so as open as traditional male female relationships, especially if it's not as accepted in your area as it may be in others, such as a smaller town vs. a bigger city.

There are a lot of good people here. I'm sure you'll have luck here.

thank you :)

Here's how I meet people;

I walk up to them, I tap her on the arm, when she turns I smile and say "Hi, I'm Ray. What's your name?" Then I shake her hand and start a conversation.

Easy!

lol, your funny!!

Are you just joking here? You are a woman--in Oregon (Portland?)
and you want to meet another woman!?!? Just go to a gay bar--it will take you 5 minutes!And forget that "Oh,I'm SO tall!" stuff!

I go to gay bars all the time, no luck yet, I am not worried about it, I just wanted some pointers so I can make sure I am doing things the right way

Stop trying and just live your life. Whether you meet someone this way or not, you'll be enjoying yourself.

Given today's human migration, you need a plan. Those whom we grew up with and know us the best (through whom we could also potentially meet more people with similar interests) have migrated to new territories! Unless you are in the limelight and are exposed more that a regular person, you definitely need a plan on how to approach and get noticed!