I guess you have to ask that to someone who did cheat...I don´t know ´cause I never cheated on anyone ....
but you could ask that to my ex-boyfriend... he never answered that question to me.. and now I don´t even care. I agree with Soufie, insecurity, or this thing men and women have in their genes: it´s an animal instict to "have them all". (Guess I´m lacking in that gene.....)

Personally, I think cheating´s stupid and immature, if you want to be with someone else just break up with the person you´re with and go and have sex with who ever you want to, I mean, stay single, without any commitments and go to bed with anyone you want to.
In my country there´s a saying: "De la muerte y los cuernos nadie se salva" it means: nobody is free from dying or being cheated on (I know that in English it doesn´t make much sense :( but I think it´s true)

Finally woken", by Jem... it helps me relax after a looooong week!!!

I would change my cell phone number, my e-mail address and hack his e-mail address and send him to hell... wait a minute... didn´t I do that already?? ... *^CK him!

I think you are !! :-) and I like your hair colour ... :)

Just try to upload another picture, ´cause I can´t say for sure but I think you´ve got nice colour eyes too and in that picture I just can´t tell. Besides, the guys are always looking at the pics!!

aaahhh., Citizen Joe.. I´m sorry about your wife...but you know you´ve got your baby to keep fighting for


And as regards your compliment: I´m not sure about the family part..... hahaha. but thanks! :)

I´m single because maybe I´m meant to be single... all my life... or because I just can´t find a man who doesn´t lie at all, not even in the samllest things!

ok, now I think things have changed... I have just logged in and I see 3 invites from men younger that 22, hahahah

thank you boonedog!!!

mmm. I would eat those spaghettis for nothing.... well, maybe for a thousand dollars....ok, 500 ....hahahha

Thank you all for saying I look younger.... you made my day!!! hahahahha

And Willing2: I get your point, but my profile says that I´m looking for friendship, so the age range is from 27 to 99, only because I´m looking for FRIENDSHIP
And these men who have written (sent me invites or e-mails)to me, are interested in having a relationship, or so it says on THEIR profiles...

thanks for the cake!!! that´s so sweet!
and i like it because I just truned 28 and the cake has number 27 on top, so thank you for making me look younger! lol

thank you!!

cake for everyone!!!

Hi everyone!!! just wondering why my profile is seen by men who are between 40 and 50 years old... I DO know that men tend to look for younger women, but I am 28 , I could be their daughter!!! hahahha


Could u rate me? Do I look younger or older, or just my exact age?

Be honest and don´t be afraid to be sincere and straightforward!!

have fun, take care and thanks!
;)

I just can´t wait for this loooong week to end. Tomorrow is Friday and I have to work till 10 pm, but after that... I´m going to get my much deserved beers or a drink!!!!

Are you geeting ready for the weekend??
What are you planning to do??

;-)

Single and getting to know new people! having a lot of fun! ;)

OMG!!!!! hahaha LOL. LMAO!!!!!!!!!

Thank you Lov2rocknroll!!! I can´t breathe!! I´m laughing so hard!!!!
I loved EVERYTHING you posted, do you think it was too much??? hahahha

the rat´s so funny! but the frog gets first prize! hahaha

thank you, I feel much better now, even though I can´t wait this week to end, have had some arguments and things I wish to forget by the end of the week.... I just want to relax and have a beer.... or two, or... whatever, I just want to chill out!!!

THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH FOR POSTING , YOU REALLY HELPED ME FORGET THAT AWFUL DAY... THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!

:) Have a great week!!! and see you around!!!

Thank you all for wishing me a happy b-day and for your replies. You were all very undersatanding and you made me feel .... well, welcome
thank you!!

Today one of my groups of students celebrated my birthday in class, they made me a cake and we shared a short but very nice time!

That really helped me feel better....

thank you all, I really mean it, thanks!!!

hope you are all OK and see you soon!
:-)

Thank you all for those lovely "smileys", they ´re so cute!, ... Teadipper you can reach me any time, I got rid of the age limit

Goodnight, see you soon and have a nice day (tomorrow, today...wherever you are....)

:-)

Thank you all for your replies. i´m glad i posted this before going to bed... now I feel a little bit better, thanks to your encouraging comments

Teadipper, i´ll se if I can get rid of that age limit I have set before... and I totally agree with what you say. Pesonally I do not trust those who look or try to appear happy 24/7 because I think they are shallow people, and I do not get along with shallow people at all..

Thank you all, you have been very helpful. This is a good way to finish my day and my birthday, thank you very much!
:-)

Thank you for your simpathy Spidercmb

And Totage, I do believe your words are wise but I didn´t mean it like that. My question was: Can we even say we are sad in this site without people thinking we are just a grumpy, biiter and sad person?

That´s something I have asked myself lately. We´re used to hiding our emotions in our everyday life (at least in my country). If you are seen crying in the street, no matter if you´re crying because you´re happy or sad, most people will look at you as if you were crazy, some of them may even give you the "what is she thinking, crying in public??!!" look.

Are we allowed, and I mean "allowed" as in: do we let ourselves to be sad?

I have been given very sound advice as regarding how to improve my profile but there are always phrases that are repeated: "keep it positive, keep it simple, keep it fun"
Are we supposed to be all OK and fine in the forum and everytime we log in so as to attract others? can´t we be sad? even a little bit?

At the risk of losing everything I have achieved here so far(after improving my profile, and all) I am ready to say that I´M NOT A ROBOT, I AM A GOOD PERSON, AND I DO HAVE EMOTIONS and TODAY I AM SAD.
YES! I HAD AN AWFUL BIRTHDAY, IT COULD BE THE SADDEST EVER!(I´m really sorry about my grammar, syntaxis or whatever... that´s why I´m here for, to improve my English... apart from making friends)

I´m going through a bad time, emotionally, economically, spiritually ..... just in my WHOLE life. And the people who were closed to me didn´t even remember my birthday - relatives and old friends (and I know that you´re brobably thinking that I must have done something REALLY bad to them, but honestly, I did not. We seem to have taken different paths)And when things couldn´t get worse, a person who used to be my best friend, who hurt me before because of things she did, appeared out of the blue, and said "happy birthday!" acting as if nothing has ever happened....

So, if what I have just posted makes me a NEGATIVE, SAD, PATHETIC PERSON then I do not care and I AM NOT SORRY for saying I AM SAD.
And if this site is really ment TO GET TO KNOW SOMEBODY, then this is me. I am an honest girl and I´m not afraid of saying that I DO have bad days... really bad and awaful ones.like today....

So, are you sad? just do not be afraid to post it and share your story with me! I DO care.

I agree with what you girls say, but I hate speaking in general. I hate it when men say that "all women are so complicated, fragile, and want to take control over everything". I do not consider myself any of those, so they "speak in general"
and here it happens the same, Smiley is talking in general. ok, maybe 95% of men do wamt that, but I still hope to get to know the other 5 % of men who aren´t like that....

and Dannyboy, if Smiley wants to have sex, well it is HER choice, it´s got nothing to do with being afraid of sex!!