Okay! Guy's, what is it that when you meet some one for the first time. They want to get in your 'PANT'S? I respect myself alot and will not do that and I though there were 'GENTLE MEN' out there, still.

Or just grow up and stop being afraid of sex.

How does this mean she is afraid of sex? Personally I want someone to get to know me for me and not what they can get from me

I have more to offer than just sex and if a guy can't or won't see that then they aren't worth me or my time.

So... just move onto the next guy? People like sex and aren't going to stop wanting it.

I agree with what you girls say, but I hate speaking in general. I hate it when men say that "all women are so complicated, fragile, and want to take control over everything". I do not consider myself any of those, so they "speak in general"
and here it happens the same, Smiley is talking in general. ok, maybe 95% of men do wamt that, but I still hope to get to know the other 5 % of men who aren´t like that....

and Dannyboy, if Smiley wants to have sex, well it is HER choice, it´s got nothing to do with being afraid of sex!!

so very true
a man that trys to get down your pants
the very first time
is nothing but a freaken insecure mouse
you ask me
all they think about is there self and not how the other feels

(no man is going to touch me)

Always amazes me when women are shocked to discover that men want to have sex with them...unless of course, its their idea first...

I'm all for people hooking up or whatever...but it isn't for everyone. I do do hook ups. Not my thing. If it's an interest to someone else, then they need to find a match because I'm wouldn't be a match.

i have NEVER had ask a guy if he wanted to hit the freaken hay.... m not like that

just resently i had a old bf that needed a place to stay and he ask if he could use the couch.. well no for i have another friend staying here for a brief and she doesnt like him... but thats not why i said no... hes to much of a ego macho type and he totally turns me off
he then said oh i can sleep with you.... i told him NO!!!!!!!

see he only thinks of himself
and he has proven that

I don't don't have to get into her pants, but if I don't I have no reason to call her again. I can't remember the last time I went on a date that didn't end with the two of us having sex.

I consider it a sign of immaturity if a man wants nothing but sex.

smileyy19,

This site is full of people who do not share your standard for moral conduct.

if i'm really into someone on the first date, we are having some sex. if that works out, chances are we will have more sex, on more dates. it's fun, and i'm not one bit ashamed of that. :) now, back to regularly scheduled programming.

Since you used so many "they"-s, I got lost in your intended question, as to who wants to get into whose pants, who is to be despised for this, and who it is who is wearing the pants.

In short, I don't understand the question.

You hate speaking in general.

I, on the other hand, can't stop speaking, given a chance.

Hm.

You say "guys, when YOU meet some, TEHY want to get in YOUR pants."

According to this, and to the rules of language, as far as what the refernces provided by pronouns mean, the women want to get in guys' pants right away.

This has, in general, not been my experience. As much as people hate hearing the General, it is still true.

So which is it? "I do do hookups... not my thing... but I do them... I am not a match with anyone... but I still do them."

Today people talk in rebuses.

oops I mean I don't do hook ups. Sue me

My feelings exactly. Why put it off? Sex is the most fun two adults can have together.

Same here!! On each of my dates, we both have had sex... one each... She retained her female sex, and me, my usual and customary male sex, as it is shown on my driver's licence.

What a wonderful world it is.