Try to find a photo that your happy in. So many photos look
like people are on trial. They look unhappy, scared, serious,
not like usual.

Then just speak from your heart when you write. Don't over
analyze it. You want to bring to you the person that is meant
to be with you. No manipulation, no convincing them. They
will find you when the time is right.

You may want to talk a bit more about yourself. Your likes,
interests, hobbies, what makes you happy. Also what would you
like to bring to your life in a new partner. Not exact information
but generalities.

Good luck to you and don't lose hope.

I would be freaked out. I would also be concerned that they have
a fatalistic view of life. That we are in danger. Are they the
type that would attract that to them by manifesting it. I would
not be drawn to that type. Look at yourself, why were you attracted
to a person who carries a gun. Are you a fearful person?

He is a black and white thinker. All or nothing. So to him
his experiences are the truth. He can't take others experiences
and apply them to his life.

There are shades of gray in all areas of life. He needs a good
mentor to help him see these shades of gray and not just yes or
no or all the negative.

It's called Grief. After losing something or someone significant
you have to go through this stage in order to heal and grow.

It sucks but it is part of life. Just sit with it, try not to
avoid it and it will go away quicker. Avoiding it just postpones
it and then it seems bigger than it really is.

Yes there are women like me in Middle TN. As a matter of fact
I've been here for years just Southwest of Franklin.

I have dated all the ages it seems. Some made me think twice.
The younger (20's - early 30's) still want children or don't
know what they want. Then there is the guys who are divorced
and out playing the field and sleeping with anyone. They
can be any age, they just want to sow oats. Get to my age
and they become complacent and don't want to exert effort
into much. Whether that be relationships, sex, or taking
care of themselves. Would be nice to find a happy medium
just not sure what age range that would be, lol.

I agree with you. Love yourself and others will follow.


Good guys are the best, just as long as you can be strong
enough to stand up for your beliefs.

Too bad you are so far away.

I'm single cause I'm not willing to settle for just another
guy. I would rather be alone than be with someone I REALLY
don't want to be with. It's a conscious choice at this stage
in life. I'd like to think the man I finally partner with
will also have been as consciously aware.

I would like to think that good guys finish first
and not last. Bottom line is I just want them to
be who they truly are and if it works out then it
would be wonderful. Now define nice?