Giving advice when asking for it is different than a person judging you or judging your situation without even knowing your situation...which is the point i was making. As far as posts go...if it bugs me like said i'm going to speak my mind...it is what it is. ..and if it bugs me..it doesn't necessarily mean that it had empowered me to the point that i'm in a corner crying. I speak my mind..thus hopefully preventing judgmental people from even attempting a 'friendship' with me....i don't want to be surrounded with simple minded people. ...it was just a rant. Annnnnywho..

....anyone know how to make french toast....annnnnd would anyone like to make me some?

Are they accepting applications where you work? I could fully staff your place of work with the people i'd send over...

True..I tend to speak my mind though. How else would certain people know they're stupid unless i tell them.

LoL nooo nooo its not that serious...it just sparked some anger about a situation that i was in. I just don't understand people sometimes i guess....nor do i understand why people have to be so judgmental.

And it isn't middle school stuff dear, its life. No matter what age you are there are always people that are judgmental and don't have a clue about what they are talking about.

Well thats mainly what i mean though...A person 'not realizing' or 'not knowing' but proceeding to open their mouth anyway. There is the saying 'always think before you speak' and it is true...It doesn't take a rocket scientist to know (generally speaking) that you should base any and ALL opinions or judgments on FACTS not what you THINK may have happened or what you THINK may be the situation. Idk...it just bugs me. I can accept that not everyone is good at communication, i am not the best at it either but i don't go around spreading ******** about a person when i don't have the first clue as to what I'm talking about.

Ok i thought there was a place for 'rants and raves'

So i just got my panties in bunch over comments to a post i just read and had my little venting session.

Why?

Why are people so judgmental? Especially when you don't have all the facts..WHY? You do know that your so called "opinions" can hurt right? My thing is, it is ok to have an opinion...You SHOULD have an opinion on your own, but don't be smart about your judgment. There are always two sides to a story, no matter what the situation is. Sometimes an outsiders perspective can be good, when once again YOU KNOW ALL THE FACTS. Idk...I guess it just made me mad cause i was in a situation and still kind of am with these haters that don't know me, the true story, or my situation but yet they spread their "opinion" to others about me which obviously isn't a very nice one. I'm a very open person, if you want to know something then just ask...dont make assumptions and then spread your infectious negativity to others just because you THINK you know what your talking about. Get a life and stay out of mine...especially since i didn't ask you for your opinion to begin with. UUGGGHHHHHH

-ok-

Exhale

Annnnnnd... -wuuusaaaah-

Wow...There seems to be a lot of negativity and talk of whether a person should or shouldn't be on here. It always bugs me when people are quick to judge a situation...and i thought hating women only did that.

Let me take you to the other side of the fence:

I have a boyfriend and my man know i am on here as well as numerous other websites that are considered 'social' gatherings. He also knows of my interests in women and that I am serious about my inquiries. He doesn't have a problem with it at all, nor do i have a problem with telling him everything. My point is, is that before you hop to a conclusions take in affect that YOU do NOT know the dynamics of anthers relationship. For all you know they could be swingers...get off your high horse. Sorry...ok outta line...but i was in a similar situation with coworkers that had their nose all up in my business, judging me when little did they know my man knows everything i do and if he isn't comfortable with something he is free to speak his mind and i'll respect him. So in conclusion after my rant...LoL There isn't a problem at all with being on a SOCIAL website.

P.S.

Your girlfriend may have hidden pheromones that are triggering your hyper allergic neons thus sending a signal to your stomach to turn multiple times until you upchuck.

LMAO

I didn't have to do that...

..I casually flipped out my switchblade and started shaping my nails as we calmly and openly spoke about whether we were exclusive or not...I felt that we were.......and so did he.

Maui bound at the end of May...I actually loved Molokai...it was zoo country but gorgeous and quiet.

And OMG!

The shooting range scares me! I went for the first time a couple weeks ago and blew my target off the hook...literally...while i prayed that i didn't lose grip and break my shoulder...probably shoulda started with the tiny guns first. Meh...

Well..in that case someone needs to send me a roundtrip ticket!

Do they give out happy places in Oregon? I always thought they were made right here in Hawaii...

.......To the bottom of the wine bottle!

Cheers!

LoL You won't regret it...Trust

Sounds like a scorned woman...LoL Thats right! Swear them man devils off!!

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...by my sweet ball n chain.... However... SINGLE: Whhhyyyy ladies whhhyyyyy...Havent found a chick yet.

Go with the flow...I feel like if we are exclusive and its real than they will feel the same...which means they will be seeing me and only me.

I kind of demand to be the one and only anyway, so...that may not help. LoL

Just go with the flow and keep the communication open, even if you are 'just dating' . If you start catching feelings than you most certainly need to see where things are going and if they feel the same...otherwise they are wasting your time if they aren't on the same level.

Cheers luv!

I'm sleepy...lazy....and hoping for some luck. Now where's my rabbits foot.......come to think about it..I don't think Hawaii has any rabbits. Wooooah

www.lateapiphanysareawesome.com

Craving to touch a woman, caress, and spoil her. Where are you ladies? I almost feel like I'm on a deserted planet that is a sausage fest.....SMH

This is unreal! I have been looking for a woman for what seems to be FOR-EV-EEERRR (in the words of the great Squints) Literally! Since I moved to Hawaii it seems like there are no bi or even lesbian women here which I'm sure many would argue but I have been to the bars and the supposed 'hangouts' They are all sausage fests! It's really starting to get me down! LADIES! WHERE ARE YOOOOOU?

-sigh-