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Mon 12/24/12 03:10 PM

Does the number of someone's sexual partners matter to you? Do you ask someone you're dating how many people they've had sex with? Do you think the number of people you've had sex with matters?


it sure does to me. With the STD rate higher than any other first world country in history according to the National Institute of Health, it sure does.

For me it also shows what sex means to someone. If sex is more of a toy to be played with, chances are this person will cheat because sex isn't that important to them, other than to get off.

I'm not a rottweiler in heat and I've been responsible in my sex life for a reason. I've seen horror stories of friends and casual friends who have slept around. The health problems and scares due to STD's, and the hurt feelings of being cheated on.

It sure matters to me.

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Mon 12/24/12 03:07 PM

Some people are just Anti-Social I would guess.


Which begs the question, Why do these people sigh up for dating sites?

There is nothing wrong with weird.


Sorry, I have to disagree here. Weirdos&Flakes, Even though dating sites are full of them, Have no real place on a dating site. What we need is a dating site that caters to this clientele.

Maybe, Weirflake.com A good catch line, "Where the weird & flaky come to meet."



Thats naive IMHO. how are you going to control someones actions? this is real life. so if they dont answer you in 24 hours the site dumps them. Who defines what being a flake is?

What's next a site that makes someone talk to another person, or a site that guarantees no rejections?

Dating in general is tougher because its' harder to find good people. But if people are going to date online, they need to have thick skin or they shouldn't do it.

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Mon 12/24/12 03:04 PM
p.s. another thing is the lack of character and respect people have for others. Instead of just saying, you seem like a great person but I dont think we are a match, they will just talk to them and then just drop them like a ton of bricks.

Our society is wimpy; people don't want to confront anyone anymore in a calm and adult way. They would rather be a spineless wimp and just ditch them.

You hear horror stories of people breaking up or admitting they are cheating via text or email. Some even have others do it for them.

There is actually a website that will break up with someone or blow off someone as a friend. You sign up and they'll text the person and you never have to get involved.

dysfunctional. that's why relationships are such a mess. no conscious anymore

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Mon 12/24/12 03:01 PM
op one thing I've noticed is that the more computers play a part in our lives, the more boring people are. They lack imagination and they are bored.

Many people just want to talk with ANYONE. And they'll talk a few times and then move on. Why? because someone else is there to talk to so they aren't bored anymore.

People are also flaky. They will tell several people they are perfect for them but they dont' mean it.

What someone does shows how they feel; the words are the bull crap that covers up those actions.

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Mon 12/24/12 02:59 PM

Someone yesterday just propositioned me to sleep with him. But this wasn't any normal perving, he actually used being alone and sad on the holidays as an excuse. Yeah, this one got that deep. As anyone had the same happen to you?


lol; it's not that deep at all. If he was lonely and alone he could have said come over and spend some time together. He said lets do it.

LOL; if you believe this line I've got a big orange bridge in San Francisco I own that I'm selling.

Women ask why men use corny lines; they use them because they work.

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Mon 12/24/12 02:56 PM

Is it hard for a man to say No?

...to a woman who is hitting on him if he really is not wanting to get involved or is not interested?

I think women have a lot more experience than men at saying no.

As a man, how would you say no, or would you?

Would you say yes to anyone who really tempted you?




no; I'm not a horny teen without a mind so if a pretty woman came up to me and I was dating someone I'd say thanks but I'm seeing someone and I'm not interested.

People need to be confident adults and be honest. It's really not that hard.

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Mon 12/24/12 02:55 PM
lol well no doesn't mean yes. People, especially women when it comes to men; see to try to mind read or do other things to get the answer they want.

no means no

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Mon 12/24/12 02:54 PM
You too!!

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Mon 12/24/12 02:53 PM

I believe a world of love is coming!
There has been so much negative energy regarding this date. Yes the Mayan calender ends. But really it simply resets itself. This does not mean the earth is ending. It means we have begun a new era.
Many others of us believe that this is just the earth starting a new cycle of life; a step forward in evolution. The alignment of the planets has changed. We have entered a new age when human consciousness expands.
Take this opportunity to share love with the people in your life. Love is the glue that holds our planet together. Trust in love, and it will come.
Check out this video "2012 Crossing Over, A New Beginning (Official)"
on YouTube by by Santos Bonocci. It is a great explanation for the real meaning of what is happening in our world.
I am sure there will be many of you that do not agree with my Philosophy in this matter. But just know that I prefer to look ahead with love instead of fear...




I think your thoughts are great, but I also think the exact opposite is happening.

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Sat 12/08/12 05:02 PM
one great way is to keep busy. You don't romanticize the relationship either. Obviously it wasn't magical because someone wasn't happy with it.

Be busy, let time heal you, and meet as many new people as possible,

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Tue 06/19/12 11:37 PM
I have millions in the bank.........

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Tue 06/19/12 11:36 PM
first of all sick of this question.

you can be a nice guy without being a pushover. If a woman is dumb and wants a sleazy guy then she deserves what she gets. Also tired of women blaming all guys when they should be blaming themselves for choosing so poorly.

Some nice guys are slaves and pushovers. That's not being nice; that's being insecure and spineless.

Have manners, respect the woman, treat her right and also make sure you are treated right. We teach people how to treat us. Don't be disrespected.

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Tue 06/19/12 11:33 PM
cheating is doing something that you would not do with your partner there.

Use that criteria and you'll never be in doubt.

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Tue 06/19/12 11:32 PM
I would hope the woman would have some self respect and tell him to get bent and leave him.

I'm shocked this is even a question but then you read the forums and see all the women that can't leave a bad guy who lies to them all the time.

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Tue 06/19/12 11:29 PM

Have you ever cheated with someone who was off limits to you?


No; I've never cheated and never will.

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Tue 06/19/12 11:29 PM
lol; I would want them to write properly.

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Tue 06/19/12 11:28 PM
flirts bore me; flirting is fake and for attention. want a heck of a lot more than that

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Tue 05/29/12 09:25 PM
some people ONLY use dating sites. a dating site should be a minor part of your dating life.

I meet people mostly in travel and in every day life, as well as at work. That is still best.

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Tue 05/29/12 09:18 PM
Edited by mthom086 on Tue 05/29/12 09:23 PM
First of all when a mans' words do not equal his actions you always look at his actions. they never lie.

the man doesn't want to get married and he's stringing the woman along.

If a man says he could fly, can he? I mean he said it.

Women are too easily fooled by what a man says when they should be looking at what he does. When his words match his actions, then you have a keeper and he's telling the truth.

When they don't, his actions show what he feels, and his words are used to fool the woman and cover up what he's really thinking.

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Mon 05/28/12 11:03 PM
you are 22 years old. Wow, I know people have no patience anymore but give me a break.

Get out there and meet as many people as possible. Love takes time and isn't going to be found at the click of a mouse.