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Tue 12/18/07 07:35 AM
WHAT IF, an ex was not right for you, but possibly they could be right for a friend??

Why would we not want an ex and a friend to be happy?



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Mon 12/17/07 09:10 PM
But really, not that old (in "MY" opinion)..laugh laugh

flowerforyou

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Mon 12/17/07 09:09 PM

So how old is old???????


It depends on how "young" you want me to be...bigsmile

flowerforyou

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Mon 12/17/07 09:08 PM

rut roh I am out to pasture...........so that explains why I can now do as I please, and get as wild and kinky as I want.........people just think its me losing my sanity..........ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh I love it, can't wait to see what the 50's bring me in two years:smile:


MAybe it will bring you to AZ....devil

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flowerforyou

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Mon 12/17/07 07:30 AM
bytch!! You spelled it wrong dear lady, it is ***** and it means,

Beautiful
Intelligent
Talented
Charming
Honest


flowerforyou

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Sun 12/16/07 09:58 PM



huh all of the normal ones moved to phoenix.


REALLY??? Where are they, I haven't seen any yet. But then again, what is normal???

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"normals" are very few to find... on the extinction list i think too LOLlaugh laugh

WHEW!!!!!!!!!!!! Had me scared for a moment. I "almost" thought I may have to deal with a "normie" or 2....huh

what is normal? ok.............again....... normal is just a setting on your dryer.....there....secret is out LOLlaugh laugh

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Sun 12/16/07 09:49 PM

huh all of the normal ones moved to phoenix.


REALLY??? Where are they, I haven't seen any yet. But then again, what is normal???

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Sun 12/16/07 08:50 PM

I agree with you HJ. I joined to keep from getting so depressed. Currently no job, 2 kids, my two best friends just graduated from college ( I dont have a degree) my grands are very ill, Im very very down. SO I joined to keep my head busy. Ive met some wonderful people I talk to all the time now.


Couldn't email you, I am a senile old man..laugh Just my opinion, but, "don't take liso seriously, it ain't premenant"..

flowerforyou

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Sun 12/16/07 08:45 PM

these posts are getting really and i mean REALLY old. here is the plan simple truth of it. we're all single because we chose to be. it's not that we can't find that "one" person. we have this ideal of what we want and we all struggle to stay right with in those parameters. with the sheer number of people in the world do any of you think that there is "one" person for us to be happy with? probably not! if people would look beyond what they consider to be their perfect match and take each person as they come they would probably find that "one " long before they ever thought they would. so he doesn't have the hair style you want, maybe he's not in perfect physical shape, maybe she's not blonde or a red head, maybe she likes a different kind of music so what? people need to seriously reevaluate what "qualities" their looking for in a person. and look for what really matters in a person. are they kind? decent? treat others with respect? a healthy self respect? a lot of people do. and i know alot of people are gonna say well thats all i look for but thats not entirely true. that might be some of what they want but the list goes on and on into stuff that really doesn't matter. oh but what about physical attraction?? you ask..... what about it? if a person met 90% of what you were looking for could you live with them if they were slightly overweight? or perhaps slightly shorter then you want? yeah you could but you don't want to, you want that one person that meets 100% of your expectations and thats just not going to happen.

lets take me for example (granted i'm not here to date and it would take alot to get me to date anybody right now) yeah i have long hair, i play in a death metal band, i'm extremely sarcastic, i like horror movies, i don't dress like i'm fresh out of gq magazine and that probably rules me out of 3/4 of the womens play books right there and thats all they will ever see. what they don't see and probably never will is that i own my own company, i'm very successful , i own my home and my cars (not making payments on) i'm very kind and generous, the people close to me never want for anything if it's in my power, i'm pretty intelligent, i hold more degrees then most people on this site , i treat women like they were queens and i'm very respectful. all in all i'm a pretty well rounded guy but just because a few things don't match their general criteria i'm out of the running and thats pretty unfortunate and thats the biggest reason right there as to why i don't date anymore.

lets just cut to the chase and sum all this up with.....
if your not willing to look beyond the few things you don't like to see the many things that you do in each person and give each person a chance then it's going to make for a very very long search and a very lonely existence.


CLose, very close, but no cigar..bigsmile

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Sun 12/16/07 07:43 PM

OMG!!! $435


VISALIA???? OMG, I used to live in Visalia...laugh laugh

My daughter worked at Henry's on Main...laugh laugh

flowerforyou

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Sun 12/16/07 07:39 PM
$28,000.00 and counting..sad sad sad

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Sun 12/16/07 07:22 PM

i'm single cuz no one wants to take me to the drive up window in vegas and marry me ...


Have you asked???laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Sun 12/16/07 07:18 PM


I thought mine existed until he proved me wrong this morning. sad brokenheart


((((((((((((shutter)))))))))))looks like we can cry together. Mine left friday and took all his stuff. He won't let me help him and he doesn't love me anymoresad brokenheart


That happened to me 2 1/2 years ago..brokenheart sad Today, I am grateful...laugh laugh laugh laugh

flowerforyou

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Sun 12/16/07 07:16 PM

I am single b/c it seems impossible to find a man who treats a woman with respect and isn't either looking for someone to support them or they just think they are too good.


And the ones that would do taht are WAY to old...sad sad

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Sun 12/16/07 07:00 PM
I am single because no hot young chicks are looking for an "Old Buzzard"sad sad and the older ones seem to want a "Boy Toy"...laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

flowerforyou

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Sun 12/16/07 06:52 PM
Oldogs & childrin' & watermelon wine..:smile:

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Sun 12/16/07 06:49 PM

Brand new to this could use some advise.
I am a 56 yr old woman looking for a good relationship.


Just my opinion, stop looking..

Don't know about you, but if I am busy looking, I am letting life slip by. If it it meant to be, it will be placed before me..

flowerforyou

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Sat 12/15/07 09:57 PM

i wishhh



SIGH!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ME TOO!!!!!!!!!!!devil laugh laugh

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Sat 12/15/07 09:56 PM
OOPPPPSSS!!! I forgot***********COLTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!happy

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Sat 12/15/07 09:55 PM
I live about 5 miles from the stadium and I don't want to be anywhere near that insanity, I have enough of my own. I think I will go to Laughlin that weekend..laugh laugh laugh