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Fri 12/21/07 04:18 AM

I was just wondering after seeing the post about the date rape drug ... who on this site has met people and gone on a date? What were your experiences? How long did you talk before meeting? I want to hear good and bad experiences.

I know there is no good timeframe for when to give out numbers or when to meet but I just thought this would be a good topic to get going.

Gina
hi gina well i havent been on here very long but have meet 1 gentlemen he was here on in new york we chatted found out that he likes the motown 45 club here in new york so we made it a double date me an my sister him an his best friend it was nice but no sparks or anything so we are friends but he lives in england so it all depends, i see nothing wrong with meeting people as long as it in a public place...

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Fri 12/21/07 04:10 AM

My rule is always email first ask to message later, I never offer money and If I wanted to meet someone from somewhere else I'd would fly there get a hotel and have them meet me somewhere other then the hotel.

Now I know what I have been doing wrong, Message first promise money I dont have. And the woman will come to me. LOL
lol lol lol lol

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Fri 12/21/07 04:06 AM

I wouldn't worry about it at all. If you haven't already met them in person chances are you never will anyway. I have spoken to several ladies at a time and it is just that talk. On the other hand if you are playing games with them then you deserve the trouble you may be in. Think about it. How can the one girl trust someone she has never met before.
im with you, how can you trust some1 you havent meet this is a chat/dating line people lie, for me to trust any1 i meet on line we must have done chatted for a long time an in between time we done met in person then i might trust you to say hey you are who you say you are,,,peoples need to stop being so damn gully wen it come to these dating line folks do lie she might say those thing to every1 she chat with please dont think you are the only 1 she talks to on like sweety...lol

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Fri 12/21/07 03:57 AM


brokenheart brokenheart brokenheart i think u should try just dating around i know the pain i feel it 2
i tried that too and it went nowhere fast
well sweety Desi says its not good getting involved with some1 else wen you not done with the pain of the last, you need to be just about you for now surround yourself with friends and family do thing that you enjoyed before her if she caused all that pain she wasnt for you any whoo. you dont want to date too soon cause rebounds never workout an you can end up hurting some1 in the end an you shouldnt want any1 to feel that same pain your feeling now...so take time out for you sweety you will see jah will send an angel for you....

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Fri 12/21/07 03:44 AM
okdude your pic is kewl you have that badboy look, but me tink you be a goodboy......

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Fri 12/21/07 03:33 AM

AMEN SISTA!!!! i pray you find it again someday darlin xoxoxoxo
Well i dont miss the little things i miss his big thang.....lol

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Fri 12/21/07 03:25 AM
that is so sad to hear i feel so sorry for your friend, wen i was younger and home with my parents wen i turned 21 an was going out with fiends an friends friends my father sat me down he told me here is 100 dollars go an have a good time but dont let any1 buy you a drink that you havent seen them make it from any1 including your friend an if you have to gop to the restroom take your drink with you but if you foreget an go dancing dont drink that drink buy the next one, just to be safe for you an i still do that today something like that only trust yourself wen you go out to clubs cause you never know.....

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Fri 12/21/07 03:13 AM

hey your 1 for 2 thats not bad
I am 0 for 2 and still trying

yeah i know, life is good i just want it to be great...lol and im an old fashion gal at that not into the 1 night stands or anything like that im very well respected in my community, plus alot of guys are affaid to have a very stronge woman in their life, an wen i say stronge i mean in every way, in work in the raisen of my children in mind and in love.....

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Fri 12/21/07 01:16 AM
i really do have all that i need in life, but dont have any one to share it with, im a fun loving person i enjoy just about any thing, love all sports weather im watching it on tv or going to n event, love fishing BBQs love being with family its very hard for me to date because i work alot hell im at work now but every1 says they enjoy my company, i guess im so bizzy giving everyone else advice about their relationship, i foregot to have 1 of my own.......lol

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Thu 12/20/07 08:26 PM
maybe you been looking in all the wrong places she could be right under your nose..

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Thu 12/20/07 08:18 PM
boy you people are so funny a love this site...lol.lol.lol

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Thu 12/20/07 07:57 PM

LOL wow maybe after graduation I should teach in New York.
honey its very nice here even in the winter always something to do

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Thu 12/20/07 07:57 PM

LOL wow maybe after graduation I should teach in New York.
honey its very nice here even in the winter always something to do

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Thu 12/20/07 07:55 PM

mmmmmmmmm ya baby.!!!! lol
alright now seahawk

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Thu 12/20/07 07:52 PM

Thanks Desi , You rocking the Blonde and that':smile: flowerforyou s where its at.
wish you were in my home town i have lots of men friend that would just love you an madamx, thats why its hard for me to get a man cause they surround me all the time, they would truley love you an madamx, they love women thats beautiful an juicey....lol

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Thu 12/20/07 07:42 PM

desi is my new hero xoxoxox
ditto sweety

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Thu 12/20/07 07:42 PM

ya wanna know when i was in school, i was friends with all big small stupid etc, but i must say those larger woman that i paid attention to where some of the sweetest woman ive known.!!!! cheers bbw which when i first startin playin on computer thought B ig BbreastedWoman. lol
ya damn right an we we give you shade in the summer an keep you warm a poppin in the winter, say it again...lol

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Thu 12/20/07 01:05 PM

Not offensive at all, UWanna. I know there are ignorant people and people say things thats fine but if I send a message to u and your not attracted then say so thats all. Its a matter of morals not necessarily Fat or thin , rude or nice to fatter people, it's if i send amessage to ya and you read it check out my profile but dont respond. its just not right.
honey just do you, and your not a big girl your just juicey in all the right places love self never mind what others say cause Desi says if people want to talk about what problems others have that makes me know that im on your mind every day wen i dont give 2 damn of a f u c k about you..... so do your thang girl and love it......lol lol lol

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Thu 12/20/07 03:09 AM

i agree...alot of people do, but im not alot of people, i can only speak for myself.
an you speak for alot of women who have been hurt by this but just affaid to say, so you go girl much respect

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Thu 12/20/07 02:58 AM
madamx, you hit the nail right on its head, all my life ive been heavy but my parents teach me to love myself an im in love with me never cared who said what about me the pic thats on line was taken 4 years ago, when i was much bigger i dont look like my picyure now ive lost 70 pounds, but im still juicey in all the right places i look so differant but i didnt loose the weight because of a man it just happened without me know just by working so hard i still love the new me an still have meat on my bones so to the nice lady thats worried about why men are not chatting with her, them are not the men you want any whooo, true that a real man dont want a women as skinny as him cause all they could do together is strike a match........lol