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Mon 12/24/07 08:49 AM

There are lots!
too many men and not enough timelaugh

Good luck with your search:wink:
thank you, not looking for anything serious just some1 that might enjoy some of the things a enjoy......lol

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Mon 12/24/07 08:35 AM
well is there any White genlemen on jhs that would like to get to know a professional black female?

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Sun 12/23/07 08:42 AM

well, i'm completely comfortable with my scars. it's other people who aren't. i mean, i don't mind anymore, the main one that bothers people i have no issue with. it's down the middle of my chest. so what if they can't handle it. i just wanna know if somewhere down the line someone will be able to.

thanks everyone!
hi sweetie dont be worried about that if your partner truley care for you that scare dont matter, i have a very bad scare it goes from my ankel to my theigh i was in a bad car crash about 5 years ago i use to feel so bad about it but 2 years ago i meet a friend on line an he just happen to do tattoos so he freak'd the whole side of my leg now you can tell its a scare there but he made it sexy, maybe you can get a tattoo to cover it some so you can feel better....Desi

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Sun 12/23/07 12:12 AM

well its not like she can do anything about it now its to late for an abortion and she is worryed about the baby is has a spelity doctor looking over her and now she has already fell inlove with the baby. Plus she had no insurance at the time to afford birth control and he refused to where a condom.
I PRAY THAT SHE MIGHT BE IN THE 3% BUT I FEEL FOR THAT CHILD IF A GUY TELL ME HE NOT PUTTIN ON A GLOVE THEN HE WONT BE GETTING ANY P U S S Y!!!!!!!

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Sun 12/23/07 12:07 AM

She thought that maybe because they are not full brother and sister that they are only half brother and sister and have the same father instead of mother that maybe the baby would have a better chance
KATIE WEATHER ITS THE SAME MOTHER OR FATHER THE BLOOD IS STILL THERE ITS DONT MAKE A DIFFERANCE

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Sun 12/23/07 12:04 AM

I think she should tell the truth for the benefit of the baby....her stupidity is her own fault and his.....knowing you are blood related is just sick stuff.....let's think about what the future of this child is going to be.....she knew better and so did he......nasty nasty ppl.....mad
THANK YOU DEEPBLUE, AT LEAST SOME1 ELSE HAVE THE HEART TO SPEAK FOR THE CHILD

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Sun 12/23/07 12:02 AM

I'm a nurse too. I am not happy to meet another nurse with an attitude like yours. We were taught not to judge. God knows what He is doing. Let it be!
im not judging im telling the truth i work every day i see them poor babies an it just a damn shame they didnt ask for that to have a life like that

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Sat 12/22/07 11:59 PM

well the mother and father have the same blood type. but she couldnt get the abortion. she thought about it but could not bring her self to walk down and get it. she dont beleive in them and believes every baby is born for a reason. she is keeping a close on on the baby to find out if there is any problems with it but so far the baby is completly healthy and normal( as in no birth defects)
you can have the same blood type an still dont have to be a MATCH,,,that **** is just shameful

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Sat 12/22/07 11:57 PM

well the mother and father have the same blood type. but she couldnt get the abortion. she thought about it but could not bring her self to walk down and get it. she dont beleive in them and believes every baby is born for a reason. she is keeping a close on on the baby to find out if there is any problems with it but so far the baby is completly healthy and normal( as in no birth defects)
sweetie that not a sure thing the baby could look heathy inside but to tell you the truth doctors cant really tell until the baby is born, an 97% of insest babies do be born with serious birth defact i know i work with babies for 14 year, they will say everything looks fine, because they cant do all test on the baby while its inside only some test might show up ok but you dont know for a fact until its born, an brother an sisters babies are always 1st to have so many thing wrong that it would make your head spin know thats FACT.....

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Sat 12/22/07 11:49 PM

alright, thanks
she is just so scared of losing the baby and i just dont know what to tell her. She new she could loss the baby in some states and go to jail she just didnt know what states and thought she screwed everything up.
i dont feel sorry for her i feel for that child, the babies life is ****'d up and its not even her yet man i dont even know her n dont like her i dont believe in abortion but in that case i yes an if it was rape i say yes to that to how far along is she,....katie?

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Sat 12/22/07 11:32 PM

well wouldnt they find it odd if she changes the answer of who the father is? And the baby is completely healthy. she is having any and all tests done to find out everything.
for 1 thing wen she found out she was carrying his baby she should have had an abortion, not to be rude or uncaring but i am a nurse her baby could be born with birth defacts an lots of them thats to much blood there unlike if it was a cousin 1st or second the blood is thin but same father i wouldnt want to bring a child into the world like that, thats not caring to much for the child, an by alot of you telling him to tell her to say the father is this and that wen she have that said child what if the child is very ill and need some blood or something more serious but the mother isnt a match, she done said that the brother isnt related isnt the babies father, she going to have to tell the truth in order to save her child so she just better deal with her mistake head on thats best for the child that she wanted to keep, thats the price she must pay alot of bad thing happens to people that dont mean that you jump into bed with some1 you dont really know, her bad choice now done cause her a life time......Desi

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Sat 12/22/07 07:49 PM

Yeah, I know, I don't want to force him. I would like to ENCOURAGE him though, but he won't let me. I told him that if I am in fact preg and it wasn't a mistake on the test, no matter where he or myself is, I'll always send him pics and make sure he knows where and how his child is. I know that as of right now thats pretty much the best I can do. I guess what bothers me the most is that he really IS a good guy, and he's cutting himself short. I KNOW that if he let himself, he'd be a great dad he's amazing with his neice and nephew, and with my nephews. I guess only time will tell with this one.
Hello sweetie im Desi an im a RN if the test showed a line but the line went away that could be 3 thing, your knocked up but you wont be able to carry orthe test is too cheap or sometimes with them test it just can be your hormones acting up, it best you go to the doctors to know for sure, an far as your friend goes the way you said how he has been to you, girl i wouldnt want a baby from him....... but 2 each her own

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Sat 12/22/07 05:08 PM

Ive seen the papers...........LOL it was one of the first thing's i asked for...........like i said i 've talked with all the kids except the oldest girl........the 17 year old step daughter even told me she really doesn't like mom's BF and hopes she won't go through with the marriage.......she acts a lot like my ex..........irregardless it doesn't matter anymore as i've been removed from the situation so to speak.........LOL
sweetie they are still f u c k i n, theres no way would i want to have dinner with some1 im not going to be with anymore yhat just dont make any sence and with her family they might as well just stay together, if he didnt want her he would make sure that theres no way she can get into his personal **** son or no son that e-mail should have not reach you, your being played,you better wake up an smell all that bull **** he's leaving you.......

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Sat 12/22/07 03:01 AM

its not the racisim its when your own race ****s over you makes you turn
that route
how can your own race make you take a route i date white guys but its not because being black made me do it you sound racist of your own race, you cany fault the whole race of black people cause you made bad choices for yourself i love being black love my culture love my skin color stay the same color all year round you need to love yourself then maybe you will find some1 special no matter what race she is,,,,,

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Sat 12/22/07 02:32 AM


"due to my f**king up my meal time by over sleeping i can't go to bed till 4:12am"

can you explain this a bit more. Do you have to sleep in shifts with other people and if you're late, they take your turn?


no I'm a resistantly diagnosed diabetic & i have to monitor my blood glucose just before & 2 hours after my 3 meals of the day.
edit: for anyone whom is interested my reading was 4.7mmol/L, i'm getting worried it seems to be staboliseing way too low.
you need to get the h e c k out of whales

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Sat 12/22/07 02:23 AM

Desi you inspire me, I too am strong and that scares a man in most cases, they want someone submissive. Not me ! I like to talk and I can be submissive but not of the bat and not to a stranger. They cant handle that so they choose not to deal with me. So I think thats the situation your in, hell I am there with you!
hey sweetie ur so right i have lots of men friends but dating is very hard for me cause im very blut with my words i know what i want dont need a manm to take care of me just want a man to stand with me sssshhhhiiittt dont think its anymore good 1s out there, and i dont settle for half ass men you got to be the real mcCoy for Desi... i dont play lol

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Sat 12/22/07 02:16 AM

I have a serious question relating to a particular phenomenon I have noticed whenever the "age" issue comes up. We've had a lot of threads about age differences in the year that I've been here, and this one point puzzles me.

A lot of people will say: "Age is just a number." OK, that makes sense to me, and that's my own personal philosophy.

But then there are others who say: "Age is just a number, but I wouldn't date anyone as young as my kids."

Or: "Age is just a number but I wouldn't date anyone as old as my dad."

This seems like a contradiction to me. Because, if age is just a number, then aren't the ages of your kids or your mom or your dad just numbers too?

Or is there some sort of subliminal taboo that kicks in, some sort of "projection," whereby a person dating someone young enough to be their own child, or old enough to be their own parent, has subconscious thoughts that this is essentially the same AS dating their own child or parent?

It makes no sense to me -- the concept that "because person A is the same age as person B (who is related to me in some way), I cannot date person A" -- but maybe that's just because I never had kids, and my parents have been dead for a long time. I don't know.

When I see people make these statements in the forums, they always seem to come across more as a "Ewwwwwwwwww!" reflex than as a considered and thought-out position.

Just wondering how others would see this....

hello there sweety well i say age is just a number to i date younger men BUT i have a son thats 23 an for the respect of my son i will not date some1 his age im 42 the youngest i'll go is 30, because wen your a parent you rep your kids an for me dating a young man my sons age no thats playing to close...

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Sat 12/22/07 01:59 AM

lol just use this to practice flirting or whatever and get out of ur house to meet people in real life

like at clubs, bars, malls, community events, downtown, etc.

ooo try meeting someone while volunteering for a good cause. it builds character and also the women u meet will surely have good hearts bigsmile
your very right about that, or if ur chatting with some1 you can see where there from if you take time to look at ttheir prfile an if their far away just keep them as friends til you find some1 close to you....

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Fri 12/21/07 11:59 AM

hi, i have the same problem..im not huge but over weight!! im always honest in my profiles so they dont get dissappointed.that way they know what they are getting themselves into.if your honest from the beginning then if they get in contact its becoz they want to..plus they must like what they read about you.not everyone likes cuddling up to a skeleton,plus half these drop dead women are fakes..afterall if they are that perfect why are they on here looking for someone?
your damn right jennyjmn, we have plenty for the jammys.....lol why would a guy settle for less.....lol

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Fri 12/21/07 04:28 AM

Thank you much!
come on now sweety your a sister an you know how us as a people are its best to make that move an get to know your fam you dont want your neice or nephew to grow up an start dating their relatives cause that can happen the all you will be on jerry.....lol just joking but it best to know your family tree all of it, the good n bad ....