I notice some may have been aware that i said Healthy and smart... the smart part has nothing to do with a persons size, more rather i like someone that can hold a conversation . Healthy... my x is a large built woman, not fat or obese. so to say a 5'2" woman at 160 lbs, square built naturally. The actual weight part isn't an issue, more rather that she is taking proper care. There are points where I feel that i can't handle someone who may in the future become diabetic or have heart problems due to their being unable to care for and about themselves. I've seen a couple of members of my family go down that route, and don't want my future partner to go through it. Too thin/ skinny makes me think they don't eat... no better than obese. Healthy means healthy, you take care of yourselves big or small.

Am I unrealistic to want a girl who isn't overweight or obese?
I don't want one who is super thin either. All I want is someone who clearly has taken care of herself, healthy and smart.

Shoulda called this topic... "Timmies.... a place where everyone knows your name"

Not too concerned about the bad experience too much. The funny, happy, romantic, what have you. Just one Question to you Miss... what area of BC are you in?

Here's a weird one. Please relate your best or worst coffee shop experience. Could be anything that had happened there, not just talking the service. You can also tell of favorite shop too.

I'll send you my warmer BC weather out to you... that way it won't be too harsh while everyone helps you shovel out the bus.

Good Morning fellow canadians, and Okanagan-ites... well at least I lived there until last month. Up in Prince George now. -7 outside and having a new warm morning beverage.

I'd say that it can be done on both sides "IF" you and the other are completely open on what goes on in life. Don't hide details of the get-togethers. Lies lead to jealousy and mistrust.

Nope, greyhound... I'm usually up by 7 am every morn. thanks to my kids.

BC born and raised... wouldn't live in any other province. Love the mountains. Enjoying my -20 temps right now.

Install LED's through out your house 1/1000 of the energy used and 1/1000 of the cost of the others in the long run. And yes, ha ha ha good joke.