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Sat 11/26/11 02:21 PM



Do you have a tumblr by any chance?


nope.


Sad day, I asked because when I saved that picture, it had tumblr in the default picture name.

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Sat 11/26/11 12:14 PM

and for those who decide to sin;




Do you have a tumblr by any chance?

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Sat 11/26/11 12:07 PM
Hey darlin'. What's up?

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Sat 11/26/11 12:07 PM
Hey sugar. How's it goin? :)

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Fri 11/25/11 10:51 AM



Depends on what I want. If it's something as simple as an object, no. If it's a man, yes. Total double standard, I know, and I understand your point, but that's just not how my brain works. I just can't get myself to ask a dude to dinner. We can talk. We can get to know each other as friends. I'm cool with that. But when it comes to making it more than just friends, I figure if he wants it, he'll come get it. If not, meh. We're still friends, so it's cool. What do you think stops me from doing it? =\ Pride? Me being too stubborn? Someone enlighten me please. :(


I think you got a good perspective and a level head on your shoulders woman.

What stops you from hitting on the guy?......the spark ain't there It is as simple a that.

You cannot force what is not there and apparently, I am guessing that you don't settle for less than an equal. Thereby you don't go catting.

Trust me....you find the right one...you will hit on it.


That makes sense, I guess. That initial spark is important to really catch each others attention. I don't want to settle for someone that doesn't make me happy, ya know? I want something that'll sweep me off my feet. Once I get past that first move, I flirt like nobody's business, so hopefully a dude will be brave enough to take that first step. :)

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Fri 11/25/11 10:31 AM



Hi. Sorry for lack of picture I have computer problem, will put up pic asap. I was raised the old fashioned way but i am also a Gemini, I mention this because every man is different, I'm a romantic so if I see a woman I fancy I will try and make eye contact and if I'm not rebuffed I will try and make a move. How ever there has been times (best ones) when I have seen a woman that I find so attractive I cant help myself and find myself coming out with stuff I didn't think I was capable of. Its beautiful when it goes that way, its almost as if your whole being is on your side, I've even guessed a woman's favourite biscuit and got a date because of it. What's even more remarkable is that I consider myself a shy person. So to summarise beauty is in the eye of the beholder and if the beholder desires you enough they will move a mountain to get to you.


:) Yes! This! I think this is what I'm trying to get at. I feel like if a man really wants something, he'll go after it. Not wait for it to go after him. You never know until you try and neither will the girl your eying from across the room. :P


So, if you want something, you won't go after it? You'll wait for it to go after you?


Depends on what I want. If it's something as simple as an object, no. If it's a man, yes. Total double standard, I know, and I understand your point, but that's just not how my brain works. I just can't get myself to ask a dude to dinner. We can talk. We can get to know each other as friends. I'm cool with that. But when it comes to making it more than just friends, I figure if he wants it, he'll come get it. If not, meh. We're still friends, so it's cool. What do you think stops me from doing it? =\ Pride? Me being too stubborn? Someone enlighten me please. :(

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Fri 11/25/11 10:17 AM

Hi. Sorry for lack of picture I have computer problem, will put up pic asap. I was raised the old fashioned way but i am also a Gemini, I mention this because every man is different, I'm a romantic so if I see a woman I fancy I will try and make eye contact and if I'm not rebuffed I will try and make a move. How ever there has been times (best ones) when I have seen a woman that I find so attractive I cant help myself and find myself coming out with stuff I didn't think I was capable of. Its beautiful when it goes that way, its almost as if your whole being is on your side, I've even guessed a woman's favourite biscuit and got a date because of it. What's even more remarkable is that I consider myself a shy person. So to summarise beauty is in the eye of the beholder and if the beholder desires you enough they will move a mountain to get to you.


:) Yes! This! I think this is what I'm trying to get at. I feel like if a man really wants something, he'll go after it. Not wait for it to go after him. You never know until you try and neither will the girl your eying from across the room. :P

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Fri 11/25/11 10:08 AM

Ur nt old fashioned bt u shld remember the way women and men do things have changed a lot since the 50's.if we can take charge in the workplace then we can take charge everywhere and its okay.


Very, very true. I like that. Things have changed a lot and I do understand that. It's 2011 for heaven sakes. I do think Fireviolin has a good point though. I am in Texas. lol The South tends to work a little differently than other places, but that could be just an assumption.

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Fri 11/25/11 09:15 AM
Lmfao. I love this. Thank you for enlightening everyone.

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Fri 11/25/11 09:06 AM

They sit and relish the attention from internet guys, because they can't get it in real life lol. OWNED!


Lmfao! Ouch!

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Fri 11/25/11 09:01 AM


I'm feeling kind of hopeless, not gonna lie. Finding someone to be in an actual relationship with in this town has been so much harder than anywhere else I've lived. I just can't get myself to settle for someone I'm not always happy to see. I don't want to settle for someone that can't make me smile in moments I wanna scream. I'm not looking for love at first sight or anything. I'm just looking for happiness in a relationship.
((((( HUGS )))))

Think of it this way babe...it can only get better, right?flowerforyou


Very true. :) I like your positivity.

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Fri 11/25/11 08:59 AM

I never needed to approach anyone first. When I was younger, I spent a lot of time in bands, and there were always plenty of girls around. Plus I had a couple of close female friends who were always introducing me to new girls. So I never really learned how to approach anyone.

Since I started writing books and moved to Indiana, there isn't anyone around to approach even if I wanted to.




Yeah, but which one would you rather do? Do you like it better when women approach you or do you want to try your hand at approach them?

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Fri 11/25/11 08:52 AM
What's mascarpone taste like? What's a good comparison taste? I ask because this looks delicious, but I don't wanna make it and figure out I dislike the taste of that one thing.

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Fri 11/25/11 08:50 AM

How many guys out here can cook? And I mean actually cook, not follow the directions on a box or pop something in the microwave, we all can do that.

How many of the ladies here like a man that can cook? Just curious.

I am into giving new things a try, I've added a few new things into my repertoire since I started seeing this woman the past few months. I've made chicken fettuccini alfredo and lasagna from scratch as an example. I like to cook, and it's always nice knowing what's in what you're eating. Some things are quite time comsuming, but the end result is worth it


To me, it's one of the sexiest things a man can do. I love a man who can cook because I love cooking myself. :P

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Fri 11/25/11 08:45 AM
I'm feeling kind of hopeless, not gonna lie. Finding someone to be in an actual relationship with in this town has been so much harder than anywhere else I've lived. I just can't get myself to settle for someone I'm not always happy to see. I don't want to settle for someone that can't make me smile in moments I wanna scream. I'm not looking for love at first sight or anything. I'm just looking for happiness in a relationship.

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Fri 11/25/11 08:39 AM
@Motown: I can understand that. If a girl doesn't show at least the slightest interest, you might end up going after someone that doesn't want you which can cause a lot of psychological issues after awhile.

@krupa: I'm not asking for things to be in the 50s. Actually, that's a lie. Yes I am. Back in the 50s, men were gentlemen. Chivalry was not dead and their mama's taught them right. Lol I'm not saying that a woman can't hit on a dude because I do it all the time. I'm just saying that first.. Uhmm.. Hey wanna go on a date? or that first sign of wanting to turn the friendship into something more should be something a man does. Why does that make me old fashioned?

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Fri 11/25/11 08:30 AM
Hmmm. The last concert I went to was My Chemical Romance with The Architects and Circa Survive. It was bad ***. I got the tickets as a Christmas present to my best friend. A lot of people were like "Ugh. MCR. I listened to them when I was like 15." but that was because they didn't understand the awesome performance that was involved with their music. :P Nah, it was an amazing concert and I definitely had the time of my life.

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Fri 11/25/11 08:25 AM
Not bad. I'm really drawn the to drums. How long have y'all been playing?

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Fri 11/25/11 08:18 AM
This is a good CD from John. I have it on my desktop and I found myself just listening to the whole thing one weekend. Good choice. :)

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Fri 11/25/11 08:16 AM
Steve Wilkos. XD It's a shameful secret, but I absolutely love watching these kind of shows. I just can't help myself.

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