It was Jeff Carson...and the song is The Car.

I don't get on this site much because it seems to be more of a community
forum thing where you speak your mind about anything you want. Which is
fine..except I wanted to actually 'meet' someone on here. Oh well, the
reason for my message is ...what is the deal with the emails...I have
all this incoming mail that I've read and can't delete. This has gone
on since I signed onto this site and still it hasn't been debugged.

I just laughed when I read it...then I scrolled down to see what you
said...because you always have something interesting or a funny comment.
Keep that great sense of humor Usadad.

Well Usadad..I thought your comment was the most comical. Good sense of
humor. :-)

I've read some of the stuff on here from members saying how petty it is
judging a mate by job, clothes, height,etc. They say they don't judge a
person by any of those things...yet, I have to wonder if we all don't
judge in some way...why else are we on here reading this stuff instead
of snuggling with someone? I don't care if he is bald, has a low income
job, or snores in his sleep..etc. I just don't want to relocate, get
rid of pets, forget I have sons, or be someone's mistress. LOL
I did ask if height is important to a man on my original posting because
even though I do like looking up at a guy or be eye level, if the man is
comfortable being shorter, then I'm okay with it. I was married for 23
yrs to a great guy in every way, but he changed into a cheating, abusive
man. Hey guys, if you can accept me as I am...as long as you're
breathing and not half my age...write me. :-)

I'm on this site and another one so I am bad about not answering a
letter SOME of the time. In my defense, at first I answered all of them
but then got to where I was spending too much time doing emails and not
concentrating on what I want...someone to enjoy life with. I want a
meaningful relationship so when I get a letter asking if I will move to
another state, get rid of my cats, kick my son out, be someone's love
toy who is half my age...then I just don't respond. Also,I look at the
inside of a person for the most part, but am guilty of not wanting
someone my height or shorter also. That isn't vain ...just that when I
go dancing with a guy or want to be affectionate in public...I want to
look UP into his eyes and not DOWN. I think most guys would feel the
same...I'm tall and most guys wouldn't be comfortable with the woman
being taller. Anyway, hanging my head...guilty of not always answering
back..sorry. :-( How about some guys responding back about whether
height is important to them?

I've met 3-4 men online thru personal ads. Only one turned into a
relationship (which lasted about 3 yrs). We haven't been a couple now
for a while, but still remain good friends. You have to be careful
especially if you start up a long distance thing. One guy I met ended
up married 5 times..and not divorced from any of them...and get
this...he was engaged to me and at least two other women that I found
out about. I was the only one who got an engagement ring. LOL

Mischief...very well put! If you really love someone, you won't be
looking at anyone else.

Hey JB...I was looking at your pic while reading what you had to say.
You express yourself very well I must say, but the picture being what it
is..well...hmmmm..what is with that anyway??? Not asking to be rude, but
why that particular picture?

this really isnt like a personal ad site at all then? We just seem to
gravitate to the 'community' section and read a topic and respond
...kind of like blogging? I don't want to talk about if I like to sleep
alone etc...I want to meet someone on line who I might end up meeting in
person. I dont want to stay in this cyber world and amuze myself
reading topics.