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I was wondering why the ladies that I have sent emails to have not
emailed me back? Even if they weren't interested, isn't the replying still polite? Maybe I have been sending messeges to fake profiles, sense I ahve heard those going around on this site lately. Thoughts? |
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Apologies for my spelling errors (sleepy).
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You are right in that even if someone is not interested, he or she
should be polite and respond. However,It could be a simple matter of them not checking their messages yet. You know you can check to see if someone has read your email, right? Just look at the sent messages and if it has been read, there is a check. |
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i think it just reflect on the person.
different people have different approaches. from what i've seen, some people: 1) write to one person. it's a 50-50 chance they'll write back. 2) write to 5 people. at least one person should write back 3) write to 100 people. they'll get a number of replies and pick the ones they'll write to. generally, i'd favor approach (1) or (2), it's more sincere. but anyway, i don't usually write to people. i wait for them to write me! heh. |
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some girls get the profile and leaveit never check the mail or just
forget about this site |
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My 2 cents on this.
Ive gotten a lot of PM's and if i get a broken English one line sentence I'm not responding to it. Sorry. I also dont respond to "wow your so hot" I mean what can i possibly say to that? If someone is interested in me only because they think hot, I'm not interested. Looks are transitory and not something i base a possible relationship on. I do review the profile of the person sending the PM but overall if its a half ass PM i wont respond. I'm sorry if that is offensive to some people but i can tell at that point we wont be clicking. :) |
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Hey ruewen,,
I agree with that. Some people are shallow and can't see past the surface. I find getting past the wrapping and finding a chocolate heart is more fun my self!! |
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humm good question.........Well is not that you are bad looking that is
not for sure, and believe me that matter alot here and every where no matter what people say. Well it could be that you are to far away, and that is why they don't want to bother with a answer. Or maybe a conflict of intrest, Hell who knows!!!!!!!...there are some weird people in this world and specially here and in the internet, try not to be bother with this and be patience, since I join this side I have only have received two e-mails and when I answer them only one answer me back. |
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it happens all the time most people aren't evenpolite enough to respond
when approache they think that they are too god to even tell you fuck off.. T o all those who have responded thank you for your time..to those who haven't well you can guess it WILL |
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hey Andrew. what happened to your advertisments?
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arthur is looking for women quit fucking him up WILL
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I usually reply even if it is to say...geesh you are rude!!
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Please dont think me rude for not replying to emails. This site doesnt
ask specifically what one is looking for in a particular potential 'click'. So it really is hit and miss for some. I myself prefer to hang out on the playground (forum) rather than get into a one on one chat. To the ones who extended a welcoming email, thank you. on a happier note.... That pair of workboots that walked back into my life just might be walking back again. So heres to my good Karma, good Luck, prayers answered, and just good old fashioned crossing my fingers. |
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I'm on this site and another one so I am bad about not answering a
letter SOME of the time. In my defense, at first I answered all of them but then got to where I was spending too much time doing emails and not concentrating on what I want...someone to enjoy life with. I want a meaningful relationship so when I get a letter asking if I will move to another state, get rid of my cats, kick my son out, be someone's love toy who is half my age...then I just don't respond. Also,I look at the inside of a person for the most part, but am guilty of not wanting someone my height or shorter also. That isn't vain ...just that when I go dancing with a guy or want to be affectionate in public...I want to look UP into his eyes and not DOWN. I think most guys would feel the same...I'm tall and most guys wouldn't be comfortable with the woman being taller. Anyway, hanging my head...guilty of not always answering back..sorry. :-( How about some guys responding back about whether height is important to them? |
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I don't really think much if I don't get a reply. Hell, most of the time
I don't even expect a reply, and am fairly surprised to get one, which is weird because I usually tend to get a response. Go figure, huh? -=x |
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well, guess i could use some online etiquette then, cuz i get several
emails a day and i dont always reply..i am busy and if i dont have an interest i dont email back..that simple..especially if theres no pic or avatar and spelling is at a grade school level.. now, that being said if someone nicely compliments me and/or my baby i will send a quick thank you :) to them, no matter what.. but, YOU ARE SEXY email me and i'll chat with ya..no, i dont answer those.. |
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