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Mon 12/10/07 02:13 PM
laugh laugh bigsmile laugh laugh

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Sun 12/09/07 09:58 PM
lol!!! that's too funny!!!

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Sat 12/08/07 08:23 PM

my man treats me like a lady
hes so kind and sweet
when someday when i meet him
im sure he will knock me off my feet
his eyes are warm and caring
and thats the way to be
ihope someday he will .... me flowerforyou


very sweet..just the way he should be

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Sat 12/08/07 07:45 PM

What most important to me in a woman: intellect, independent, self-esteem, compassion, loving and good heart. Once I fall in love with those qualities, a woman's body size does not matter.


wow a man with a brain!! COOL!!! happy laugh flowerforyou

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Sat 12/08/07 07:39 PM
it's not the 'government' that takes their "sweet ass time" it's bad lawyers.

I could do a poll around here probably 70% of the people here would agree that MOST OF THE TIME 'seeing', when said in such content..means dating.

you HAVE to be seperated to get a divorce!! you can't get a divorce and still be living together!! laugh




listen....he said "friends" and the act of "seeing" is done through the eyes. Anyhow being separated is being emotianally divorced while you wait for the paperwork to go through. They have a mutual agreement (which is the important part) to no longer be committed to eachother and to see other people. The government has a tendancy to take their sweetass time with the paperwork.


Dude how old are you? Look he maybe going through a divorce, but what where in this "rule book" does it say that you can't meet new people if the divorce isn't final yet? I believe he said "friends". You have no room to criticize.



munch151: oh my god! noway such a player!! grumble


What? No, not at all. I'm not hiding anything at all and I'm not a player. I'm just in the middle of a divorce and making friends. Actually all 3 of them are separated and seeing other people as well so it's all good.


if your in the middle of a divorce (ie NOT divorced yet) you shouldn't be dating at all...your still married until the divorce is final. grumble



first off I'm not a 'dude' :wink:
second he didn't say 'friends' he said seeing girls from three different sites while still married (i.e. dating)
and anyone who was brought up with any morals knows you don't do what they are doing.


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Sat 12/08/07 07:36 PM

I only would meet some one from the Internet as long as it's at a Mall or some where with lot's of people and big crowds etc, that way if it's turns out to be some one they aren't maybe a woman and it's a guy then I can have a better chance at running lol. Never know people lie to much now a days, not saying they all do but don't know.


well that's how it's suppose to be..

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Sat 12/08/07 07:36 PM



Met her here and marrying herbigsmile :heart:

Nobody steps back anymore to assess their part in a divorce, people just seem to run along to the next mistake with the same baggage all over again.frown


I agree. When your geting divorced you are suppose to be healing, not 'shoveing it under the mattress' so to speak





What should be healing exactly? This has been a lengthy process and we're both completely over it. Not everybody has a 'moping period' they have to go through. Some of us live in reality and know that when it's over it's over. On the bright side we're still good friends lol.


ok let's put it this way. In my state at most a divorce would take 6 months. I don't know what state you are in where it is made into a 'lenghty process'. But can't ya'll keep your pants on until it's finalized so that if the relationships you are in now develop into something serious / long term they will feel confident you wont (or she wont) cheat on them (depending on who ends up with the serious relationship..got it?)

yeah reality is nice..I live there too bud...I divorced my ex (i.e. I left HIM and divorced HIM) but I had the morals (et al) to not go ****ing around until the divorce was final ((best x-mas present in the world I might add)). Oh and by the way, my divorce TOOK nearly seven months

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Sat 12/08/07 07:31 PM

I have met with a nice woman from here and we are friends. I have met another, from another site and I hope she lost my #!!! LOLlaugh


lol

have you TOLD HER you don't want to see her again or talk to her again?? that generally helps! though we SEEM to be mind readers on occasion, we find you men a BLACK HOLE OF INFORMATION!! happy laugh

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Sat 12/08/07 07:28 PM

Dude how old are you? Look he maybe going through a divorce, but what where in this "rule book" does it say that you can't meet new people if the divorce isn't final yet? I believe he said "friends". You have no room to criticize.



munch151: oh my god! noway such a player!! grumble


What? No, not at all. I'm not hiding anything at all and I'm not a player. I'm just in the middle of a divorce and making friends. Actually all 3 of them are separated and seeing other people as well so it's all good.


if your in the middle of a divorce (ie NOT divorced yet) you shouldn't be dating at all...your still married until the divorce is final. grumble



first off I'm not a 'dude' :wink:
second he didn't say 'friends' he said seeing girls from three different sites while still married (i.e. dating)
and anyone who was brought up with any morals knows you don't do what they are doing.

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Sat 12/08/07 07:27 PM



Um, my wife has a boyfriend that comes over all the time. It's no big deal. You ever heard of separation? It happens all the time.


yeah I'm divorced so YEAH I've heard of seperation. But what the two of you are doing is cheating on each other, period. But then again most consider me a bit old fashioned for this day and age...apparently most people haven't heard of MORALS anymore...
noway grumble


I agree with you.:wink:


thank you

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Sat 12/08/07 07:26 PM



Um, my wife has a boyfriend that comes over all the time. It's no big deal. You ever heard of separation? It happens all the time.


yeah I'm divorced so YEAH I've heard of seperation. But what the two of you are doing is cheating on each other, period. But then again most consider me a bit old fashioned for this day and age...apparently most people haven't heard of MORALS anymore...
noway grumble


We're not cheating lol. We're just in limbo until the divorce is final so we're moving on with our lives. Why the hell should I put everything on hold for a woman that I have no more ties to?


because until it's final..it's cheating..peroid. not to mention the time between seperation and the divorce being final is suppose to be both parties time for healing and geting READY to have another relationship, not jumping into bed with people for 3 different sites!

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Sat 12/08/07 07:25 PM

Met her here and marrying herbigsmile :heart:

Nobody steps back anymore to assess their part in a divorce, people just seem to run along to the next mistake with the same baggage all over again.frown


I agree. When your geting divorced you are suppose to be healing, not 'shoveing it under the mattress' so to speak


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Sat 12/08/07 07:23 PM

body image is more of a problem in woman with themselves, but I think when it comes to the opposite sex, the men are picker

mmm in general I agree, but admit it..we are all shallow to an extent and wouldn't date a certain 'build' person


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Sat 12/08/07 07:22 PM

Um, my wife has a boyfriend that comes over all the time. It's no big deal. You ever heard of separation? It happens all the time.


yeah I'm divorced so YEAH I've heard of seperation. But what the two of you are doing is cheating on each other, period. But then again most consider me a bit old fashioned for this day and age...apparently most people haven't heard of MORALS anymore...
noway grumble

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Sat 12/08/07 07:21 PM



hi! hey u doing .it,s kosta i am looking for gorl frends.i am hundsome and athletic body i have.if u want to frend call me my phone is 0431 179 400 thks bye
noway
noway noway noway noway OMG is he like forreal? lmao hes just puttin it out there for everyone to see huh lol



by the # looks to be Eastern Europe

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Sat 12/08/07 07:17 PM


munch151: oh my god! noway such a player!! grumble


What? No, not at all. I'm not hiding anything at all and I'm not a player. I'm just in the middle of a divorce and making friends. Actually all 3 of them are separated and seeing other people as well so it's all good.


if your in the middle of a divorce (ie NOT divorced yet) you shouldn't be dating at all...your still married until the divorce is final. grumble

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Sat 12/08/07 07:15 PM

Tell me how could I ever let you slip away from me.
My dreams are lost my hopes are gone for eternity.
The scent you left on your pillow has all but faded away.
You were my flower you were my friend that did not stay.
Old picutres of you are now all that I see.
The good times we had are now just a memory.
The days seem longer now lonely and blue.
Now that your not with me and I am not with you.


very sweetflowerforyou

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Sat 12/08/07 07:09 PM

ok, i left my ex 2 months ago because of his drinking.........he wrote me two weeks later and i just sent a letter back to him explaining why i left and won't come back...................here's the thing, i told him in the letter that i still love him..........did i just screw up?

he told me in his letter to me that he can't stip thinking bout me either..........

is this normal to miss something that was good for nearly 3 and 1/2 years after 2 months?


no you didn't screw up. I would advise you to be his friend..and that's it..and encourage him (without nagging) to get sober.

yes it is normal to miss someone you love, even if it's 10 yrs down the line..they will always have a place in your heart.

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Sat 12/08/07 07:07 PM

If they were fairly local..sure

To the rest, nothing personal but I am a parent and traveling across the country would be a little impracticle.


agreed!

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Sat 12/08/07 07:06 PM
Edited by beccakatisonly1 on Sat 12/08/07 07:07 PM
munch151: oh my god! noway such a player!! grumble