i think that he sees a photo of a woman who looks very sexy and beautiful, but also sees her as being unattainable to a guy like him, so he needs to put her down so that the onus of the rejection is on her, instead of his own lacking qualities.

kudos to you for being so kind in your response; i would have just told him to f@ck himself as no one else probably would.

You do the long distance thing....visit each other every month or whenever its convenient for both. And eventually if you want to be together forever then someone has to move.....

nope

nope

My husband was so high once that I convinced him that our mini pin dog talked to me in German! He was so messed up.

Sounds pretty hostile, agressive, and demanding to me.

Convey your personality in your headline, not instant elimination or racial discrimination or discreditation. You can mention you prefer black men, just say it that way. "I prefer black men" sounds a lot less hostile towards the ret of the community than "Black men only" and it still gets the point across.

Might bring up the kids a little further down the profile. Not exactly among most peoples' first interests when they're investigating a profile. It's in our interests, just not first interests.

Wouldn't mention your other guy that you may currently be involved with, and then turn right around and say nobody else on the sidelines...or whatever order you said that in.

The 2nd to last part is the best part. Roll with that and elaborate on it some.

Profession: Maybe say something like "guess." "Wouldn't you like to know" sounds a bit degrading. Personally, if somebody doesn't wanna go ahead and tell me, then I don't give a damn what they do unless they say something else to peak my interest. If I wanna know, I'll ask.

That's just my two cents.

In no mood to be spanked anymore though....

The spirit is willing, but the flesh is bruised, spongey...

I wanna be buried in the most environmentally-UNfriendly, toxic, politically-INcorrect casket ever made. I'm talking something that will blast out CFCs, smog, carbon monoxide, carbon dioxide, and methane.

I the I do too