yea.. I go with dat.. Imagin my write up fell 4 d wrong person (Pete) wen i meant it 4 Davey! ... So, find some corner.. Hush hush!

Well, u kinda modest and i love dat... So, hw about a taste of a real black shy girl (lol) this is crazy!.. But fun 2say stuffs here.. Merry Xmas!

I really would love to make great friends here & probably meet 'd one' but sometimes d pple dat beep me are so not my kind... I hav painstakingly updated my profile.. Pls chec me out & telme... Who do i attract? Playboys? Kids? Dirty@ heart? Mama's boy? Cute & well trained? ....? Pls, say something

Hmmm... The ultimate question i get.. Funny, i have been asking myself the same question, i hav been 2dating sites and never rili kept but but here? It modifies it all for me. I am here to make friends who are more objective in their frdship wit u dan the one that actually lives next door.. I hav got advice here and learnt reasonable tips than i can express.. If i end up meetin my husband through here its rili a big bonus.. Everyone and everything about Mingle2 operations is great. I enjoy this!

Thkq so much CeriseRose, that is nice of u. I am way above dat age limit - wil be 31 in dys but i do hang on faith in God absolutely and.. Will hang in here (lol) merry xmas!

yeah... Wont mind taggin in, though, i am not very consistent due to my life activities (lol) but i can keep up beta wen i know someone lik u noticed me!

Hi. But will there b anything wrong with becoming one of your parents? They are your source!

Mine is d eyes, truth is if u r a soul person.. D eyes gives u glimpse of a persons real personality, also lik pix without other peopl & stuf in d backgrd.. It helps me cut u off 4rm d world 4 my observation b4 i see your mix wit it. A good poise and natural laf kips me lookin

Annie, i feel u.. I am goin thru a similar process, neva easy but possible.. Ur stayin witout sex is 4 d man u meet eventually.. No, u r doin yourself a favor in your relationsp wit God, its about you.. So kip it up & i pray it will be a woethy sacrifice dat God wil repay kindly.. Meanwhile, i cud suggest dat u position yourself right & tink positive, he will find u eventually, just relax & dont 2nd gues any man dat comes your way.. Just b your good self, he wil notic you (Guys r gud @ dat) and he wil com for you. best wishes

Yea.. I am on this side! Tell them

I wish that dis wil miraculousy work 4 me, dat my own man will find me b4 27 Dec (my birthday) & i can retire 4rm dating puzzles. Amen

Well, for me, its possible, almost all my ex r still friends one way or d other.. I learn 2giv & ironically, i am freer wit d ones who hurt me dan d ones i hurt.. Gues, its just an experienc 2me.. Learning to deal with hurt face 2 face but yet.. I set uncrossable boundaries.. So why not!

thx 4d advice. All within r noted & pondered upon

thx Fortunnee.. All noted

I'm SORRY, BUT THIS IS QUITE LONG BUT
MY Life: MAYBE U CUD HELP.
this is a serious matter for me and I
figure world wide view cud help esp
from the christian minded heart.
I Had a broken relationship weeks back
and been trying to pull it together. I'm
one who believes to be useful in ministry
alongside whoeva i marry not necessarily
in d same capabilities but needs a good
testimony 2b an inspiration 2d
generation dat gets 2luk up 2mine. I
stopped havin sex in any relationship of
mine for 3yrs now 2d glory of God and as
always tried 2put dat deal straight wen i
start off a relationship, but i break up wt
em 4 varyin rsns; either nt too passionate
abt God, no vision, sex driven, liar etc & d
las bcos he's catholic (tld me he wud
change wen we started out & nw 2start
marriage plans, he tells me he cant but i
hav to).. & we washed down d drain.
I got tired.. See, i'l be 31, talented & all
but single. Nobody including myself cud
belif i wud b, so i prayed to God while i
further wrap myself into bein busy for
Him. I prayed for a man 4rm my tribe ds
time & one i who wont hav 2spend al tim
wantin 2build confidence 2commit 2me &
all cos i dnt hav dat tim 2spare anymor.
Didnt kno Hw 2get such a guy knowin it
sounds unfair &unreal but am a gud girl &
if i Lov him, den he's safe witme.
From outer space blinks out an ex friend
of mine 4rm 7yrs ago. He's a sea guy (big
boy now) & though he calls thru d yrs.. I
neva gav him Anoda thot. We broke off
den cos i was obsessed (den) abt gettin
married & he wasnt ready (struggling
den). So, we thinned out. He came lookin
4me in d new state i live in abt 2wks ago
& until den, i neva knew i stil had
feelings for him wit his even stronger.
He's 34 nw neva married too & wants us
too. He is rather glad (@ my misfortune)
of nt bein married yet & says he had lik
2do Wat i had always wanted now - get
married as soonest as i am comfortable
wit (4rm 4mths time).. Well, lik i
dreamed.. He rili is my type cept I knew
him 2b d type always crazy abt his girl..
Al focus on her &all.. Kisses, sex.. Al kinds
of physical contacts is his love language.
Then, we neva had sex cos i lived wit my
mum & he was squattin wit a Frd. Today,
i lived alone in a far away city & he alone
in Anoda city wit gud thins of life lik
buildin his hous,. Car, financial plan, plays
sax & does inspirationals in church
blabla.. BUT.. He is he & ds time.. Sex is
written all ova him. He definately cant
wait til married esp witme plus cos he's
too excited &warped wit d idea dat we
cud get bac 2geda. I managed him off me
d few dys he spent witme but I am not
sure of when i visit him as he's been
bothering me to. My mum likes him
&wans him witme.. My Pst's wife liked
him wen she met him (practically
sneaked his no off my fone 4 her backup
she says), my g/f wans me 2sign d lines..
My mentor tinks its significant but i cant
talk 2any of dem abt d sex prospect part..
I even tried a few ways but no one is
'hearin my undertone). I wish 2God dat
He cud b mine but how do i handle d sex
part as i had always hope 2marry my hbd
witout sex til afta d weddin & he's said ..
Witme, he cant do dat.. He doesn't wan 2.
I actually act in control than i am 2him. I
cud dare him 2 back off if he wont wait
but btw u & I, he's d best i got eva & in 30
yrs i havnt gotten any one beta.. Dnt
even want 2run d circle again Sinc God
brought him back my way- all set dis
time.
Pls helpme. Till i end up with a solution
which i will also share here, you shud kno
dat i wil b reading everyone's comment
& considering them prayerfully.
Wish u d best too. Thx 4 dtime

I'm SORRY, BUT THIS IS QUITE LONG BUT
MY Life: MAYBE U CUD HELP.
this is a serious matter for me and I
figure world wide view cud help esp
from the christian minded heart.
I Had a broken relationship weeks back
and been trying to pull it together. I'm
one who believes to be useful in ministry
alongside whoeva i marry not necessarily
in d same capabilities but needs a good
testimony 2b an inspiration 2d
generation dat gets 2luk up 2mine. I
stopped havin sex in any relationship of
mine for 3yrs now 2d glory of God and as
always tried 2put dat deal straight wen i
start off a relationship, but i break up wt
em 4 varyin rsns; either nt too passionate
abt God, no vision, sex driven, liar etc & d
las bcos he's catholic (tld me he wud
change wen we started out & nw 2start
marriage plans, he tells me he cant but i
hav to).. & we washed down d drain.
I got tired.. See, i'l be 31, talented & all
but single. Nobody including myself cud
belif i wud b, so i prayed to God while i
further wrap myself into bein busy for
Him. I prayed for a man 4rm my tribe ds
time & one i who wont hav 2spend al tim
wantin 2build confidence 2commit 2me &
all cos i dnt hav dat tim 2spare anymor.
Didnt kno Hw 2get such a guy knowin it
sounds unfair &unreal but am a gud girl &
if i Lov him, den he's safe witme.
From outer space blinks out an ex friend
of mine 4rm 7yrs ago. He's a sea guy (big
boy now) & though he calls thru d yrs.. I
neva gav him Anoda thot. We broke off
den cos i was obsessed (den) abt gettin
married & he wasnt ready (struggling
den). So, we thinned out. He came lookin
4me in d new state i live in abt 2wks ago
& until den, i neva knew i stil had
feelings for him wit his even stronger.
He's 34 nw neva married too & wants us
too. He is rather glad (@ my misfortune)
of nt bein married yet & says he had lik
2do Wat i had always wanted now - get
married as soonest as i am comfortable
wit (4rm 4mths time).. Well, lik i
dreamed.. He rili is my type cept I knew
him 2b d type always crazy abt his girl..
Al focus on her &all.. Kisses, sex.. Al kinds
of physical contacts is his love language.
Then, we neva had sex cos i lived wit my
mum & he was squattin wit a Frd. Today,
i lived alone in a far away city & he alone
in Anoda city wit gud thins of life lik
buildin his hous,. Car, financial plan, plays
sax & does inspirationals in church
blabla.. BUT.. He is he & ds time.. Sex is
written all ova him. He definately cant
wait til married esp witme plus cos he's
too excited &warped wit d idea dat we
cud get bac 2geda. I managed him off me
d few dys he spent witme but I am not
sure of when i visit him as he's been
bothering me to. My mum likes him
&wans him witme.. My Pst's wife liked
him wen she met him (practically
sneaked his no off my fone 4 her backup
she says), my g/f wans me 2sign d lines..
My mentor tinks its significant but i cant
talk 2any of dem abt d sex prospect part..
I even tried a few ways but no one is
'hearin my undertone). I wish 2God dat
He cud b mine but how do i handle d sex
part as i had always hope 2marry my hbd
witout sex til afta d weddin & he's said ..
Witme, he cant do dat.. He doesn't wan 2.
I actually act in control than i am 2him. I
cud dare him 2 back off if he wont wait
but btw u & I, he's d best i got eva & in 30
yrs i havnt gotten any one beta.. Dnt
even want 2run d circle again Sinc God
brought him back my way- all set dis
time.
Pls helpme. Till i end up with a solution
which i will also share here, you shud kno
dat i wil b reading everyone's comment
& considering them prayerfully.
Wish u d best too. Thx 4 dtime

I'm SORRY, BUT THIS IS QUITE LONG BUT MY Life: MAYBE U CUD HELP.
this is a serious matter for me and I figure world wide view cud help esp from the christian minded heart.
I Had a broken relationship weeks back and been trying to pull it together. I'm one who believes to be useful in ministry alongside whoeva i marry not necessarily in d same capabilities but needs a good testimony 2b an inspiration 2d generation dat gets 2luk up 2mine. I stopped havin sex in any relationship of mine for 3yrs now 2d glory of God and as always tried 2put dat deal straight wen i start off a relationship, but i break up wt em 4 varyin rsns; either nt too passionate abt God, no vision, sex driven, liar etc & d las bcos he's catholic (tld me he wud change wen we started out & nw 2start marriage plans, he tells me he cant but i hav to).. & we washed down d drain.

I got tired.. See, i'l be 31, talented & all but single. Nobody including myself cud belif i wud b, so i prayed to God while i further wrap myself into bein busy for Him. I prayed for a man 4rm my tribe ds time & one i who wont hav 2spend al tim wantin 2build confidence 2commit 2me & all cos i dnt hav dat tim 2spare anymor. Didnt kno Hw 2get such a guy knowin it sounds unfair &unreal but am a gud girl & if i Lov him, den he's safe witme.
From outer space blinks out an ex friend of mine 4rm 7yrs ago. He's a sea guy (big boy now) & though he calls thru d yrs.. I neva gav him Anoda thot. We broke off den cos i was obsessed (den) abt gettin married & he wasnt ready (struggling den). So, we thinned out. He came lookin 4me in d new state i live in abt 2wks ago & until den, i neva knew i stil had feelings for him wit his even stronger. He's 34 nw neva married too & wants us too. He is rather glad (@ my misfortune) of nt bein married yet & says he had lik 2do Wat i had always wanted now - get married as soonest as i am comfortable wit (4rm 4mths time).. Well, lik i dreamed.. He rili is my type cept I knew him 2b d type always crazy abt his girl.. Al focus on her &all.. Kisses, sex.. Al kinds of physical contacts is his love language. Then, we neva had sex cos i lived wit my mum & he was squattin wit a Frd. Today, i lived alone in a far away city & he alone in Anoda city wit gud thins of life lik buildin his hous,. Car, financial plan, plays sax & does inspirationals in church blabla.. BUT.. He is he & ds time.. Sex is written all ova him. He definately cant wait til married esp witme plus cos he's too excited &warped wit d idea dat we cud get bac 2geda. I managed him off me d few dys he spent witme but I am not sure of when i visit him as he's been bothering me to. My mum likes him &wans him witme.. My Pst's wife liked him wen she met him (practically sneaked his no off my fone 4 her backup she says), my g/f wans me 2sign d lines.. My mentor tinks its significant but i cant talk 2any of dem abt d sex prospect part.. I even tried a few ways but no one is 'hearin my undertone). I wish 2God dat He cud b mine but how do i handle d sex part as i had always hope 2marry my hbd witout sex til afta d weddin & he's said .. Witme, he cant do dat.. He doesn't wan 2. I actually act in control than i am 2him. I cud dare him 2 back off if he wont wait but btw u & I, he's d best i got eva & in 30 yrs i havnt gotten any one beta.. Dnt even want 2run d circle again Sinc God brought him back my way- all set dis time.
Pls helpme. Till i end up with a solution which i will also share here, you shud kno dat i wil b reading everyone's comment & considering them prayerfully.
Wish u d best too. Thx 4 dtime

I'm SORRY, BUT THIS IS QUITE LONG BUT MY Life: MAYBE U CUD HELP.
this is a serious matter for me and I figure world wide view cud help esp from the christian minded heart.
I Had a broken relationship weeks back and been trying to pull it together. I'm one who believes to be useful in ministry alongside whoeva i marry not necessarily in d same capabilities but needs a good testimony 2b an inspiration 2d generation dat gets 2luk up 2mine. I stopped havin sex in any relationship of mine for 3yrs now 2d glory of God and as always tried 2put dat deal straight wen i start off a relationship, but i break up wt em 4 varyin rsns; either nt too passionate abt God, no vision, sex driven, liar etc & d las bcos he's catholic (tld me he wud change wen we started out & nw 2start marriage plans, he tells me he cant but i hav to).. & we washed down d drain.

I got tired.. See, i'l be 31, talented & all but single. Nobody including myself cud belif i wud b, so i prayed to God while i further wrap myself into bein busy for Him. I prayed for a man 4rm my tribe ds time & one i who wont hav 2spend al tim wantin 2build confidence 2commit 2me & all cos i dnt hav dat tim 2spare anymor. Didnt kno Hw 2get such a guy knowin it sounds unfair &unreal but am a gud girl & if i Lov him, den he's safe witme.
From outer space blinks out an ex friend of mine 4rm 7yrs ago. He's a sea guy (big boy now) & though he calls thru d yrs.. I neva gav him Anoda thot. We broke off den cos i was obsessed (den) abt gettin married & he wasnt ready (struggling den). So, we thinned out. He came lookin 4me in d new state i live in abt 2wks ago & until den, i neva knew i stil had feelings for him wit his even stronger. He's 34 nw neva married too & wants us too. He is rather glad (@ my misfortune) of nt bein married yet & says he had lik 2do Wat i had always wanted now - get married as soonest as i am comfortable wit (4rm 4mths time).. Well, lik i dreamed.. He rili is my type cept I knew him 2b d type always crazy abt his girl.. Al focus on her &all.. Kisses, sex.. Al kinds of physical contacts is his love language. Then, we neva had sex cos i lived wit my mum & he was squattin wit a Frd. Today, i lived alone in a far away city & he alone in Anoda city wit gud thins of life lik buildin his hous,. Car, financial plan, plays sax & does inspirationals in church blabla.. BUT.. He is he & ds time.. Sex is written all ova him. He definately cant wait til married esp witme plus cos he's too excited &warped wit d idea dat we cud get bac 2geda. I managed him off me d few dys he spent witme but I am not sure of when i visit him as he's been bothering me to. My mum likes him &wans him witme.. My Pst's wife liked him wen she met him (practically sneaked his no off my fone 4 her backup she says), my g/f wans me 2sign d lines.. My mentor tinks its significant but i cant talk 2any of dem abt d sex prospect part.. I even tried a few ways but no one is 'hearin my undertone). I wish 2God dat He cud b mine but how do i handle d sex part as i had always hope 2marry my hbd witout sex til afta d weddin & he's said .. Witme, he cant do dat.. He doesn't wan 2. I actually act in control than i am 2him. I cud dare him 2 back off if he wont wait but btw u & I, he's d best i got eva & in 30 yrs i havnt gotten any one beta.. Dnt even want 2run d circle again Sinc God brought him back my way- all set dis time.
Pls helpme. Till i end up with a solution which i will also share here, you shud kno dat i wil b reading everyone's comment & considering them prayerfully.
Wish u d best too. Thx 4 dtime

Because I hav been unlucky wit men & cant settle 4dat. Someone said 'if u r a truly nic girl, den hang on.. There's a guy like u lookin out 4u'. Well, say dats wat am doin

thx joy4gud. All noted