sounds like hes either..
playing silly games
is trying to let you down gently
wants to keep you wanting him in case the the other option doesnt work out

I have one doing the same to me now. its the 3rd :(

Maybe he means he can't stop thinking about all of the negative things and that whenever he thinks about you it causes depression or anger. You don't seem like the type of person to cause these feelings though.

I have THAT actually,,and mine is because she is not honest about her ANYTHING,,yet she is always inside my mind,,,for the PERSON she could BE? But she cheated and THAT can't be fixed?

Yes sweetie i have to say one or the other is a lie,if he or she is saying they cant stop thinking about you that means there is still part of them inside that is telling them they do want you,or he/she could be saying they cant stop thinking about you to soften the blow,i would like to say its the first one,and whoever told you that is a dummy,because you seem like a lovly lady and your pretty to add.

well i mailed this site to have it removed. at least i tried.

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We haven't met yet, we are 3 days away from meeting for the first time though. It's like a movie romance isn't it? wouldn't a girl be liking this whole thing?

there was a guy that i met yrs ago
not on here but another site
and we were together for about 7-8months
he kept giving excuses for he was always apparently busy working
which i didnt belive

well when i was in the hospitol back in march
he suprised me by showing up
even though we had been talking but not dating or anything
after he had left i had ask him if he thought it was possible if we could work things out and get back in together..(he said yes) what damg jurk)

well we never discused things after
i knew he wasent going to change same old person
taking advantage of everyone around

well i was looking on facebook and i noticed his profile
there is a pic of him with a blond hair lady
and on his wall it states in a relationship (january)
the pic was aparently taken in may

so he got caught ....LOL LOL
i even had ask a number of times to be on his friends list and he doesnt accept there had to be a reason why
and i guess we know now

my daughter cant stand him she called him a scum bag
my older sister cant stand him
and my mom met him
she doesnt like him either
so you know where i stand..im better than him
and i know i can do better

Someone mentioned that they might've read this wrong, Idk if my writing was clear, let me rewrite it again really quick.

5 years ago I met a girl and we became online friends and then it turned into friends in real life. During this time we had no intentions of dating since we lived so far apart, still as friends we lost contact for about a year. She managed to find me on Facebook and Myspace and we got in contact again. Around Jan we decided to try the long distance relationship and things were awesome. Until April when she went through some stresses. 4 days away now (yesturday) she's saying how she wants to take things slow and not rush force anything.


I can understand that she's nervous or scared about meeting someone online, cause I'm feeling it too my friends/family have given me heat on going to see this person who can be a 'guy' for all I know.


When I go I plan on being a little affectionate like holding her hand, kissing, etc and I feel like I should let my feelings flow on this girl, tell her exactly how I feel that I love her