So i was in the search engine and i come across a headline that says i hate fat chicks,even though iam a very in shape person,it hurt me to see that someone has the guts to say something so hurtful,not to mention the fact that the child is only 15,i had assumed mingle was for adults,maybe iam wrong?At that age you have know idea what you want sometimes feelings change,but i just feel that its wrong and very distasteful,does anyone have thoughts and ideas?id like to know if iam the only one who feels this way,thank you!

Another fat chicks thread? This should be interesting.

At 15......I'm pretty sure he knows the one thing he wants.......

well he said he likes shemales & females,i was just saying that it was rude.

ignorance and hasn't been taught well. whatever is being taught in this home, it comes out in the child. that's sad tho.

a fat chicks thread,not at all,sorry if it was offensive in anyway.

People have always been and always been rude. 90 percent of people are mean rude etc.

Just makes some of us shine more in the dark lass.

As to the fat thing *shrug* judge not least ye be judged but most miss that message.

i just wish people had more compassion in the world,everyone is beautiful in there own way.

Are you saying that all people look beautiful, or that all people have something beautiful about them?

Either way, I find it hard for anyone to truly believe that. I know it makes for good song lyrics, but if we are going to be perfectly honest here, (and I know this is not going to be popular.) not all people are beautiful. Let’s be realistic, history is filled with mean, nasty, vile humans that I would never label as beautiful.

If you're wrong about this, then that makes 2 of us.

children learn from adults and other children (not just their own family)

it takes a village, and this child apparently is in a pretty shallow one,,,,

I'm not sure that "speaking one's mind" takes guts, in fact I'd caution you not to buy into that. To me it shows an insecurity.

A small distinction perhaps, but it's seems in-vogue to appreciate someone who speaks openly as one who has something relevant to say.
If it's not uplifting or there to build... but instead is clearly meant to hurt and destroy... where's the relevence? They're obviously there not to help and not considerate of an individuals impact on society.
But that age-group will be looking for a more mature point of view... offer yours.

A long-winded way of saying yes, I agree with you.

I believe honesty has become the acceptable excuse for what was once considered 'rudeness'

I still just consider it rude though

Thank you all who helped me out with this issue=)and yes i found out that it is for adults.

Yep, 18 and up!

Sorry you were hurt by this jerk. Just tell him that his myopic attitude makes him really ugly and call it good!

I agree with you. Some people are vile.

yes, how refreshing that would be.....

we'll i'm rude so i'm outta here

you are all too kind,thank you for all the replys!