Oh my Gosh....that is so bad, but so good.

Thank You for my giggle for the day Dino

Dear Nol

Our basic needs include to be loved and to be needed. Grieving a marriage is not the same as grieving a loved one, but a relationship lost is still one to be mourned. You are still a father, just not in the same capacity as living under the same roof. You may or may not be a husband again. When you are used to giving as a husband and a father on an hourly and daily basis, it is difficult to readjust. It is a rebuilding process that takes time, time to examine yourself...which includes loving yourself, forgiving yourself and most of all knowing that you are of value. Existing is not living, but change is what you make of it. All of our days are numbered, so do at least one thing everyday to make yourself happy. Turn the existing into living, one step at a time. Good luck in your future.

Have to have at least one good chuckle a day to make it worthwhile

If you take it too seriously you die quicker...chuckle

Love it Dino, Thank You

If you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change.

Just my two cents......
Having sex is just that, making love is a process. A process that involves time, energy and commitment. Getting to know the person from the inside out. Failing in love with the whole complete person. Yes, there is always 'skin hunger' but that is pretty empty. There was a saying 'men give love in order to get sex, woman give sex in order to get love'. Unfortunately time hasn't changed much. Just a matter of how much you value yourself, and what you want out of a relationship. Good Luck.

What a heart warming story. Not enough positive news in the world today. This one was great. Thanks Dino

It has been my experience that anyone who starts talking 'love' that early is usually a scammer.

Never too old

You crack me up......Thanks needed a good laugh tonight

Jealous of the Angels.....song by Donna Taggart
Says it all

Don't give up. I prayed that the Lord would pick someone for me and He did. It was an amazing relationship, God was Number 1 for both of us, and then each other. Remain steadfast in the Lord and He will answer your prayers. Remember, in His time, not ours.

Thank You Andy for your post.

Grief is real. You can never rebuilt yourself because you will never be the same person. God has told us in His Word that all our days are numbered. Death has nothing to do with us as a spouse, it is between God and the dying. This is a time when we have to rely on our relationship with God and our faith. He has told us He will carry us. It takes patience because we are still human, but that calls for more time on our knees. God Bless You.

Jealous of The Angels