I think if she knows you will be there for her and she can continue to
use you, she will do exactly that. She may SAY whatever she thinks you
want to hear. But when it comes down to it, this woman will do whatever
she has to in order to keep you carting her where she has to go. She's
using you, man. At some point in time you have to figure out who you
love more, yourself or her? If you say you're doing it for the kids, you
have to realize kids are very intuitive and they can sense when a
situation isnt quite right. You are giving them an example of how they
can use people when they get older. If you really want to do something
positive for those kids, be a role model to them by showing their mommy
some "tough love".